This third lesson reframes discipline beyond simple behavior modification as apprenticing children to gather their energies together toward love’s purposes. Dr. Coolman invites parents to view discipline as apprenticeship into essential skills needed for virtuous living rather than behavioral control.

Dr. Coolman introduces apprenticeship as a transformative framework for reimagining Christian parenting, moving beyond management-style approaches that emerged from recent technological and economic changes in domestic life. This apprenticeship model reframes the parent-child relationship as disciple-making disciples of Jesus Christ.

In this first session, Dr. Holly Taylor Coolman provides an overview of the Christian vocation of parenting. Throughout church history, the family has been viewed as a miniature church, a worshipping community whose shared life is fundamentally guided by love.

We often speak of hope as a kind of wishful thinking or general optimism, such as hope that a relationship will work out or that an interview will go well. But this is not what the Bible speaks of as the virtue of hope. Christian hope is confidence in God and God’s promises. In this session, we discuss how Christian hope gives us strength to live in the present.

Love is central and necessary to a life well lived. Act justly, prudently, temperately, and courageously, but without love, you can never be the person God made you to be. In this lesson, we discuss why love is so essential, why we need the grace of God to become loving, and how we can open ourselves up to God’s transforming work.

Prudence, justice, temperance, and courage are recognized as central virtues by many religious and philosophical traditions. But faith, hope, and love–these three are uniquely Christian. In this session we begin with faith: what is it, and how is it a virtue?

Fear is among the most common obstacles that prevent us from doing what we should. And its remedy is often courage, the fourth and final of the cardinal virtues. In this session, we discuss why courage is so important and how we grow in it.

In the book of Philippians, the apostle Paul serves us a warning about lacking temperance: “Their end is destruction, their god is their belly, and they glory in their shame.” In this session, we discuss the peril Paul is referencing and how the virtue of temperance helps us to avoid it.

What do we owe to God and what do we owe to one another? That is the basic question of justice, a question the God of the Bible takes very seriously. In this session, we consider what it means to be just and how to respond when we fail to do what is right.

How do we make wise decisions and carry them through? How do we judge rightly what is right and what is wrong? How do we set goals worthy of our lives and then achieve them? Questions like these reveal our need for the virtue of prudence, the first virtue in our exploration of Christian character.