There’s a difference between knowing a lot about Jesus and actually knowing and following Jesus.
In Week 2 of We Dream, we continue exploring the vision of becoming a better church before a bigger church — a church where “casual fans become faithful followers of Christ.”
Looking at Paul’s words to Timothy, we’re reminded that becoming more like Christ requires intentionality. Paul tells Timothy to “train yourself to be godly,” because spiritual formation doesn’t happen accidentally.
Whether we realize it or not, we are already being shaped. Our friendships influence us. Our repeated habits form us. The books, podcasts, news, and stories we consume affect the way we see the world. And the cultures surrounding us establish patterns we can easily adopt without ever consciously choosing them.
So the real question isn’t whether we’re becoming someone.
It’s who or what is shaping the person we’re becoming.
In This Message
We explore four areas that are constantly shaping our lives:
1. The friendships we keep
Proverbs 13:20 reminds us that the people we walk with influence the direction of our lives. We naturally begin to become like the people around us.
2. The rhythms we repeat
Our habits are doing something in us. From our relationships and finances to prayer, rest, work, and worship, repeated rhythms eventually shape the people we become.
3. The stories we believe
The news we consume, podcasts we trust, books we read, online communities we participate in, and even the algorithms feeding us information are constantly reinforcing narratives about ourselves and the world. Those stories shape us.
4. The culture we live in
Family culture, workplace culture, school culture, church culture, and the broader culture around us all influence what feels normal and acceptable. Romans 12:2 challenges followers of Jesus not to simply conform to those patterns.
From Trying to Training
Paul’s answer is intentional spiritual training: “Train yourself to be godly.”
Faithful followers intentionally build their lives around practices that help them become more like Jesus:
- Engaging God individually
- Connecting in a group
- Worshipping in a gathering
- Impacting others personally
These aren’t simply religious activities to check off a list. They are practices modeled by Jesus and carried forward by His disciples and the early church.
Following Jesus isn't about trying harder for a moment. It’s about training ourselves, through the grace of God, to follow Him faithfully over a lifetime.
Questions to Consider
What are your current practices and rhythms helping you become?
Is authentic worship a regular rhythm in your life?
Are you growing within an intentional biblical community?
Are you serving and giving your life away?
Are you going beyond the walls of the church with gospel intentionality?
The goal is beautifully captured in the ancient picture of a disciple following his rabbi so closely that “the dust of your Rabbi is all over you.”
May we follow Jesus that closely — knowing Him well, doing what He tells us to do, and becoming more and more like Him.
Scripture Referenced
1 Timothy 1:3–7
1 Timothy 4:7–8
Matthew 28
Luke 6:40
1 Corinthians 9:25
Ephesians 6:4
Hebrews 5:14
Hebrews 12:11
Proverbs 13:20
Romans 12:2
Acts 2:42–47
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