Reality hits hard in marriage, and often times it happens pretty quick. It is a stage that is unavoidable but doesn't need to be destructive.  Listen in to our CFL team as we point you to scripture and practical ways to navigate reality and pursue romance.

We may desire to stay in the romance stage in our marriage, but reality is unavoidable. The question is how do we pursue romance while living in that reality? Romance doesn't happen unless you pursue it, you have to be intentional about it. You need to study your spouse, which takes a lifetime, to better understand how to best love and care for them. Listen in as our CFL team gives insight to the Romance stage.

Today we get practical.  We believe that communication is a skill that we can continue to work and improve on. You never arrive. Join in as our CFL team discusses that within your communication it is important to be honest, direct, kind, and thoughtful. The idea is to effectively share with your spouse what they need to hear from you. We hope that these podcasts on communication are encouraging you to look for ways to effectively communicate with your spouse and bring you closer together.  

Rejection, fear, and bitterness destroy communication. Conflicts cannot be resolved in threatening environments.  Thankfully Scripture gives us a plan on how to communicate effectively. Join our CFL team as we talk about practical ways to communicate with your spouse using Ephesians 4:29-32 as our spring board!

Why we say something matters.  Do we communicate to get something off our chest, or is it constructive and for edification.  Today our CFL team talks about the importance of leaning on the Holy Spirit to help us communicate effectively and with purpose.

The best communicators are great listeners! In this podcast, our CFL team will start a series of conversations on communication. We talk about a phrase in scripture that says, "and they were naked and unashamed". We believe that this statement encourages us as a couple to allow our home to be the most vulnerable and safe space for each of us to share our heart and truly be listened to by our spouse.

The past couple of years have brought its share of challenges to couples all around the world!  1 Peter 4:12 says, "Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery trial when it comes upon you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you."  Trials and challenges will come, listen in as we give some practical and Biblical advice on how to navigate and thrive through the trials!!

Our CFL team continues to share best practices as a married couple during the Holiday season.  This time of year can get stressful, but with proper planning and communicating, it can be the most wonderful time of the year.  Merry Christmas from the CFL team.

Listen in as our CFL team talks about creating margin during the holiday season.  As with any marriage, differing backgrounds will have an impact in the decision making process for what your families traditions will be.  Our team shares insightful tips on how to plan your calendar this time of year.

“Humility” - to most people it sounds like a weakened state of mind. Jesus, a King or kings, showed the greatest form of humility as he sweated blood while asking this cup to pass from Him. Today we encourage you to put aside your pride and your achievements and rest on the covenant that God has provided between you and your spouse.