What does “disabled” look like?

In this episode of Chronically Able, Elisa unpacks the reality of living with invisible illness and why disability doesn’t have a single aesthetic, uniform, or visible marker.

From parking lot judgment to medical dismissal, we explore what it means to look “fine” while managing chronic illness internally. Elisa shares personal reflections on autoimmune fluctuation, credibility in doctor’s offices, and the emotional weight of constantly being evaluated in public spaces.

This episode covers:

• ​ Why invisible illness is still disability
• ​ The history of disability exclusion and the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA)
• ​ How medical bias impacts women and Black women
• ​ The impact of fluctuation in autoimmune and chronic conditions
• ​ Know-your-rights guidance for workplace and school accommodations
• ​ Advocacy tools for medical appointments
• ​ Why media representation of disability needs to expand

Disability does not require adaptive equipment to be legitimate.

It does not require visible suffering to be real.

Whether you live with chronic illness, autoimmune disease, or invisible disability or you’re learning how to better support someone who does — this episode invites you to rethink what disability looks like.

You don’t owe anyone visible proof of your pain.

You are Chronically Able.

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If you live with invisible illness or you’re a caregiver, parent, partner, family member, or medical professional fill out the guest interest form: beacons.ai/chronicallyable

Let’s expand what disability visibility looks like. Together.✨🫶🏼

Some people don’t just shape your life, they shape the way you imagine your future.

In this deeply personal episode of Chronically Able, Elisa sits down with her mentor Carrie: advocate, mother, Co-Founder of RISE, and one of the people who helped teach her how to dream beyond disability. Carrie once fought systems on behalf of others. Today, she is navigating stage 4 metastatic breast cancer while raising two autistic children, living on both sides of advocacy as both caregiver and patient.

This conversation explores motherhood, illness, systemic barriers, grief, resilience, and the power of building community when institutions fall short. It’s about what happens when the strong one needs support - and how we keep dreaming anyway.

If you or someone you love needs support, resources, or community, visit risereimagined.org

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You are not alone. And you are still allowed to imagine a future.

Medical gaslighting doesn’t end when the appointment ends.

It follows you home.

In this episode of Chronically Able, Elisa shares the lifetime pattern of being dismissed, undiagnosed, rediagnosed, and forced to deteriorate before being taken seriously, from waiting 8 months for a childhood Myasthenia Gravis diagnosis, to years of untreated lupus symptoms that affected her kidneys, to the quiet warning signs of Sjögren’s that medicine ignored until they couldn’t anymore.

This is not just a story about one doctor.

It’s about a system that trains providers to doubt complex bodies, an insurance structure that profits from delay, and the psychological trauma of having to repeatedly prove your suffering.

We talk about:

• ​what medical gaslighting actually is
• ​the nervous system impact of being dismissed
• ​the fear of losing access to care
• ​insurance barriers and step therapy
• ​being “undiagnosed” after finally stabilizing
• ​why disability is missing from medical education
• ​how to rebuild trust in your body
• ​tools to protect yourself in the exam room

If you’ve ever left an appointment questioning your reality, this episode puts language to that experience — and reminds you that you are not difficult, dramatic, or imagining your pain.

You are navigating a system that was never designed for you.

And you are not alone here.

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Guest sign-ups for upcoming episodes are open.

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You are chronically able. 🧡

A raw conversation between me and my partner. Relationships get real when chronic illness is in the room.

There’s guilt. Needing help. Canceling plans. Fear of being “too much.”

And through it all there’s still love.

In this episode, my girlfriend and I talk openly about what it’s like to love, support, and grow together while navigating chronic illness and the unknowns that come with it. We unpack the moments that don’t usually make it to Instagram:

• ​Asking for help when you’re scared to feel like a burden
• ​Holding space for each other (even when you’re both overwhelmed)
• ​How we make room for joy, boundaries, and real communication
• ​And the fears we rarely say out loud

This one’s messy, honest, and full of heart.

For anyone who’s ever wondered if they’re lovable in the middle of it all you are. You always have been.

Disability isn’t rare - but our systems still aren’t built for it.

In this episode of Chronically Able, Elisa breaks down the structural failures that continue to harm disabled and chronically ill communities — from the lack of disability education in colleges and professional training, to medical gaslighting, institutional trauma, and the reality of being forced to perform your disability just to be believed.

This isn’t a personal story episode.

It’s a systems episode.

Because inclusion isn’t kindness -

it’s infrastructure.

What if the “truths” we were taught about disability were never true at all?

In this episode of Chronically Able, Elisa unpacks five common beliefs many disabled and chronically ill people internalize about access, accommodations, worth, and voice and reframes them through the lens of disability rights and justice, inspired by the legacy of Judith Heumann.

This conversation explores disability as a civil rights issue, not a personal failure, and offers empowering, practical ways to advocate for yourself without apology.

You don’t have to wait to be healed to be powerful.

You are Chronically Able. 🧡

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Hosted by me (Elisa), interviewed by my partner (Lily)

I wasn’t supposed to start this.

Not while healing.

Not while scared.

Not while still figuring it all out.

But I did. And in this episode, my partner flips the mic and asks me the questions I don’t always say out loud—like where Chronically Able came from, what it cost to get here, and why I almost didn’t do it.

We talk about:

• ​What made me hit “record” in the first place
• ​The guilt, fear, and shame that came with being visibly chronically ill
• ​What I wish someone told me when I felt like I was “too much”
• ​And what I hope this space becomes for all of us

This one’s honest. Unfiltered. Personal.

If you’ve ever felt like your body disqualified you from your own dreams, this is for you.

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Share this with someone who needs it.

And remember: you’re not too much. You’re not too broken.

You’re Chronically Able.🧡

My name is Elisa I am a disability advocate, nonprofit leader, marketing strategist, and MBA candidate living with multiple chronic illnesses since childhood.

Through lived experience and professional expertise, my goal is to create a space for conversations that are empowering, validating, and unapologetically real.

Chronically Able is a podcast and platform exploring life, identity, work, relationships, ambition, and healing through the lived experience of disability and chronic illness.

We will talk about access, ableism, self-advocacy, joy, grief, ambition, and what it really means to build a life on your own terms.

This is my raw, unedited, intro, if I kept overthinking, Chronically Able wouldn't exist! Thanks for supporting!

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