In this episode of The Sharing Grace Podcast, Brandon sits down with Jay Austin and Wendell Mathis to unpack this week’s message from our series RENEW: Building Relationships God’s Way. Together, they dive into a candid conversation about biblical sexual purity, what it means to live like “the standard is the standard,” and how passages like 1 Peter 1, Song of Solomon, and 1 Thessalonians 4 shape our thought life, dating relationships, boundaries, and marriages in a culture that often pulls the other direction.
In Wendell’s weekend message, he encourages listeners to pursue genuine spiritual and mental compatibility in relationships by asking sincere, meaningful questions. Brandon mentioned that these questions would be included in today’s podcast notes. Here they are:
Is this person a believer?
How often do they read Scripture and pray?
Do they attend church? Where, and how often?
Do they want children? How many?
What forms of discipline do they believe in?
Are their parents still married? If divorced, why? How did that shape them?
What do they believe biblically about divorce?
What is their relationship like with their mom and dad?
What are their expectations around last names in marriage?
How do they plan to handle in-laws?
Views on work and stay-at-home parenting?
What kind of provider was their dad? What kind are they hoping to be or marry?
Are they more of a spender or a saver?
What are their beliefs regarding abortion?
How do they think about cultural issues affecting children, including gender-related medical decisions?
How do they view religious freedom and public expressions of faith?
This episode is honest, pastoral, and deeply practical. If you’re seeking wisdom in your relationships and a renewed commitment to holiness, this conversation will challenge and encourage you to take one concrete next step.
Please note: due to the nature of the topic, listener discretion is advised for younger audiences.