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Welcome to episode #248! ️ Pure Victory Podcast: Neural Pathways- Why Porn Feels Powerful- and Why Freedom Is Still Possible!

In today’s episode, Braden breaks down how God designed your brain, how porn hijacks it, and why understanding this can be a total game-changer in your freedom journey.
You’ll learn what neural pathways actually are, how they get formed, and—best part—how they can be rewired for healing.

Braden also shares part of his own story, the moment hope entered the battle, and a powerful biblical example that shows God isn’t just interested in freeing your spirit—He’s renewing your mind and restoring your whole self.

This episode is practical, hope-filled, and packed with truth:
  You’re not broken.
  You’re not spiritually defective.
  And you’re definitely not stuck.

Your brain can change. Your spirit can be renewed. And God walks beside you every step.

Key Takeaways

• Neural pathways are real. Porn isn’t “just a bad habit”—it literally rewires the brain.
• You’re not weak or defective. Your brain is doing what it was designed to do… just with the wrong input.
• The same system that builds addiction can build freedom. Repetition creates new pathways toward healing, connection, and purity.
• Healing requires integration. Not just prayer. Not just willpower. Not just brain science. Freedom comes through the mind, body, and spirit together.
• Biblical freedom is a journey. Like Israel leaving Egypt, God frees us step by step—not by shaming us, but by walking with us.
• There is real hope. Neuroplasticity + Scripture = your brain can be renewed, and your life can be restored.

Scripture Highlight

“Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” — Romans 12:2
Science calls it neuroplasticity. Scripture called it long before. God wired your brain for transformation.

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Podcast Host

BRADEN HAFNER

Braden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He and his wife Kristen live in Edmonton, Alberta. He knows all too well the destruction that porn use and addiction can have, and now wants to see people experience freedom away from porn. Along with that he is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLif

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Goliath was an enormous man. Measuring nine feet nine inches tall, he was, and still is, an intimidating presence. However, Goliath didn't intimidate David. The only giant he saw was God—he knew God would help him. What about the giants in your life? How do you handle them? Straight on like David, or do you avoid them, in the hopes someone else will fight them?

In this Best of 2025 interview, the late Dr. Gregory Jantz addresses the increasing anxiety being experienced in modern culture. 1 in 5 adults struggle with anxiety and 1 in 4 teens. With his whole-person approach, Jantz unpacks the myriads of reasons for this trend and shares practical solutions for healthy living. He will help you to attack the three-headed monster of worry, anxiety, and stress by asking you to take personal inventory, choose healthy habits and diet, and address your spiritual needs through God’s Word, prayer, and Christian community.

One of the large churches in our area started a new building and they announced it would be for community outreach. But they did something I've never seen a church do before. They gathered the congregation around the just-completed foundation of that new building and they asked them to throw something into the foundation. Now you've no doubt seen people's names on the outside of a building's foundation, especially on the cornerstone. But these folks were actually putting names inside the foundation - the names of people they care about who don't belong to Jesus yet - people they are hoping and praying will be in heaven with them some day.

I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A Word With You today about "Names on Your Heart."

That's what should be at the foundation of every church, every ministry, every child of God - the names of specific lost people who we want to rescue. Here's a great example of how it's supposed to work. It's in our word for today from the Word of God.

In John 1:41-42, we find that a young fisherman named Andrew has just discovered Jesus Christ. Notice his very first instinct: "The first thing Andrew did was to find his brother Simon and tell him, 'We have found the Messiah'... And he brought him to Jesus." Notice the first thing that happened was that Andrew had a name laid on his heart, a specific person he wanted to meet Jesus as he had. And we all know what a world-changer Simon Peter turned out to be because of someone who loved him enough to bring him to Jesus.

There's someone like that in your life - someone who may never make it to Jesus if you don't bring them. And God is trying to plant their name deep in the foundation of your heart, so that person becomes your own personal spiritual mission from God. You need to begin to pray what I call the 3-open prayer on their behalf right now: First, "Lord, open a door." That's a natural opportunity for you to bring up your personal relationship with Jesus. Then, "Lord, open their heart." In other words, do things in that person's heart or life that will make them surprisingly ready to hear about You. And, finally, "Lord, open my mouth." Give me the courage, the words, the tone, and the approach. Let's try those: "Lord, open a door. Lord, open their heart. Lord, open my mouth." By the way, you don't have to pray, "If it be Your will." It is.

It's one thing to talk and pray generally about all those people out there. It's something else to have a burden with a name - a burden that acknowledges your personal responsibility to be the one to introduce that person to Jesus. That's why Jesus put you in their life in the first place! You've been divinely assigned to them.

And lost people should be the consuming passion of every Christian church, every Christian ministry. Our Lord's personal mission statement was to "seek and to save what was lost" (Luke 19:10). How can ours be anything less than that?

For all of us, it's just so easy to fall into doing what's easy - which is to have a ministry that's "all about us," "by us," "to us." But Jesus is all about "them." We've got to ask Him to help us see what He sees when He looks at the people all around us. They are the future inhabitants of hell, unless someone intervenes with the love and the hope that only Jesus has.

So would you make the names of some lost people that you want to be in heaven with you part of the foundation of your life, your priorities, your passion, your prayer. They're why He came, and they are why He put you where you are.

Read: Genesis 1:1; John 1:1-3

“Grandpa’s going to like that birdhouse you’re making for him, Tomás,” said Dad. “It looks great—but I see it’s not quite like the one pictured in your woodworking manual.”

“No,” replied Tomás. “I left the perch off and made the hole smaller. This way, starlings won’t move in before the songbirds get a chance.”

“Good thinking!” said Dad. “That reminds me of the model plane you made that flew twice as far after you changed the design of the wings.”

Tomás grinned. “I like to make things work better. Maybe I’ll be an engineer when I grow up.”

“I thought you didn’t like long trips,” said Tomás’s little sister, Liliana. “Wouldn’t you get tired of riding on a train all the time?”

Tomás laughed. “I don’t mean the kind of engineer who drives trains. I mean the kind of engineer who designs things, like bridges and buildings. They don’t just get thrown together. Engineers carefully figure out how to build them so they’ll be strong and safe and work the way they’re supposed to. They draw up the plans for skyscrapers and roads and all kinds of things.”

“Wow!” said Liliana. “I bet you’ll be the best engineer of all!”

Tomás grinned. “Thanks!”

“Actually, the best engineer of all made more than buildings and machines,” said Dad. “He designed the whole universe—the forests and the deserts. The canyons and the mountains. All the plants and animals. The sun and the moon and the stars. Even us!”

“I know who that is,” said Liliana. “God!”

“Right,” said Dad. “God made everything. He knew how much we’d like to watch the birds and animals, and how much we’d love climbing the mountain trails and seeing all the stars at night. He also drew up a plan to save us from sin by sending Jesus to die for us so we could be with Him and enjoy His beautiful creation forever. Aren’t you glad He created so many amazing things and carried out His wonderful plan of salvation?”

Tomás nodded. “That’s an engineering job no one could ever match!”

–Katherine E. Swarts

How about you? Are you impressed by things people make—like big buildings and new technology? God created humans with the ability to do amazing things, but only He could engineer the whole world and all that’s in it. He also drew up a plan to provide salvation—forgiveness of sins and eternal life—by sending His Son, Jesus, to die for us. By trusting in Jesus, you can have eternal life and enjoy God and all His wonderful creation forever! (To learn more, go to Have You Heard the Good News?)

Today's Key Verse: God created everything through [Jesus], and nothing was created except through him. John 1:3 (NLT)

Today's Key Thought: God engineered everything