What Does a 37-Year Marriage Actually Look Like? Ask the Townsends.
On this special Valentine's episode of TIPS, hosts Ashlie and Gilbert sit down with Dr. John Townsend and his wife of 37 years, Barbi Townsend. Listen in for a rare personal conversation about building a lasting marriage rooted in the principles they teach the world.
You'll discover:
- How boundaries and attachment transform not just families, but marriages
- The "short accounts" principle: why resolving conflict quickly saves relationships
- Practical strategies for work-life balance when one partner travels heavily
- How to frontload grace and view intimacy as the reward for personal growth
- Real stories from 37 years together—from red pen edits to intentional family traditions
Whether you're newlyweds, navigating decades together, or seeking to strengthen your marriage, the Townsends offer a masterclass in building connection through character, boundaries, and continuous growth.
Perfect for: Married couples, relationship counselors, family therapists, anyone seeking to build a lasting, healthy marriage.
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The Townsend Institute at Concordia University Irvine offers fully accredited online graduate degrees and professional certificates in three content areas: Organizational Leadership, Executive Coaching and Consulting, and Counseling. Experience transformational education that operates at the crossroads of competence, character, and connection through the Townsend Institute’s life-changing counseling and leadership programs. To find out more, visit our website at www.cui.edu/townsend.
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Episode music is "Psalm 1 (That Man)" featuring Tommy Walker, Ben Lange, & Kip Fox, produced by The Songwriter Initiative of The Center for Worship Leadership at Concordia University Irvine.