This week our text talks about loving our enemies. A radical idea: not the most natural response to enemy behaviour. Out temptation is to hate our enemies, after all, they have done something to hurt us and we tend to respond aggressively out of our pain. The Old Testament Law commanded that the people of God love their neighbour. The Law never said to hate their enemy but it was implied and many people in Jesus' day understood that the hatred of an enemy was totally acceptable. Obviously the Middle East and the whole world for that matter, still has issues along these lines.
So the false narrative that Jesus contradicts in this passage is that it is okay to hate our enemies. He challenges us to love our enemies. This is perhaps the most well-known section on the Sermon on the Mount and one of Jesus' most famous sayings. In fact even today, Christians are judged according to this standard.
We are to love with "agape" love that originates in our will and actively seeks out the best for our enemies. When we love like this we are proving ourselves to be sons and daughters of God because this is the way he treats his enemies. But in order to love our enemies we must confront what might be called a "poverty mentality." It is that tendency to think that we are so near the brink of disaster that one more bad thing would push us over the edge. It is the feeling that we are impoverished and lack adequate resources to survive. We say to ourselves that we must protect ourselves at all costs and that any threat to our emotional, financial or overall safety must be dealt with quickly and severely. I believe this is at the root of our tendency to hate our enemies.
Instead Jesus wants us to understand that we have more than enough. We have a surplus when we consider that Christ dwells in us and the Kingdom we belong to is strong and secure. Even if our enemies strike us we will survive and in fact flourish because we are Kingdom People; citizens of the everlasting Kingdom. When we know our identity in Christ, we are able to love our enemies.
Questions for Discussion:
1. Slide 2-5. Discuss briefly the false narrative we have addressed in the past two weeks. What new narratives have you learned that replace the false narratives?
2. Slide 9. Why is terrorism so rampant today? How does it reflect the world's attitude toward enemies?
3. Slide 10-12. Discuss "agape" love and how it applies to how we should treat our enemies. Does agape love still allow us to protect ourselves from our enemies? Why or why not? Can you see any evidence of how God protects his people from his enemies while still loving them?
4. Slide 13-16. Describe the "poverty mentality" that sometimes resides in the People of God. Why do some Christians feel this way? What is the opposite extreme? What can be done to keep us balanced? How do we maintain a proper/biblical attitude regarding our identity in Christ? List at least three ways to help us remember to live generous and gracious lives.