In this episode of The Wine and Dine Me Podcast, Reagan sits down with Calder Clark for a candid conversation about what it really takes to produce beautiful events without losing the plot. This one is equal parts creative process and hard-earned perspective. The kind you only get after years of doing the work, living through the curveballs, and learning when to hold the line.
Calder shares how she thinks about value, how she navigates client expectations (especially when the vision is larger than the budget), and why the best planners are the ones who can protect the experience while staying calm and direct. They also dig into what fuels Calder’s design process, how she stays inspired without living on social media, and why getting copied is not the crisis people make it out to be.
It’s smart, grounded, and full of the kind of real-world advice that helps you refine how you sell, design, communicate, and lead.In this episode, we cover:

• Why “value” is the real conversation, not price
• How to handle the expectation gap when budgets don’t match the vision
• Why you need the bill payer involved early (and how it changes everything)
• The difference between planning, designing, and producing - and why clients confuse it
• Boundaries that still feel high-touch and responsive
• How Calder stays inspired without chasing the scroll
• What her actual design process looks like (sources, references, and how she builds a point of view)
• Why being copied is not the threat people think it is
• When “pretty” becomes standard, and how to keep your work intentional
• The mindset shift that makes you easier to work with - and better at the job

Guest Spotlight
Calder Clark is a Charleston-based planner and designer known for her editorial eye, confident point of view, and ability to balance beauty with real-world execution. She brings a rare combination of creative clarity and business candor - the kind that elevates the final product and protects the client experience at every step.
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