-11- I have been a fool- You forced me to it, for I ought to have-been commended by you. For I was not at all inferior to these superapostles, even though I am nothing. -12- The signs of a true apostle were performed among you with utmost patience, with signs and wonders and mighty works. -13- For in what were you less favored than the rest of the churches, except that I myself did not burden you- Forgive me this wrong- -14- Here for the third time I am ready to come to you. And I will not be a burden, for I seek not what is yours but you. For children are not obligated to save up for their parents, but parents for their children. -15- I will most gladly spend and be spent for your souls. If I love you more, am I to be loved less- -16- But granting that I myself did not burden you, I was crafty, you say, and got the better of you by deceit. -17- Did I take advantage of you through any of those whom I sent to you- -18- I urged Titus to go, and sent the brother with him.Did Titus take advantage of you- Did we not act in the same spirit- Did we not take the same steps---19- Have you been thinking all along that we have been defending ourselves to you- It is in the sight of God that we have been speaking in Christ, and all for your upbuilding, beloved. -20- For I fear that perhaps when I come I may find you not as I wish, and that you may find me not as you wish-that perhaps there may be quarreling, jealousy, anger, hostility, slander, gossip, conceit, and disorder. -21- I fear that when I come again my God may humble me before you, and I may have to mourn over many of those who sinned earlier and have not repented of the impurity, sexual immorality, and sensuality that they