Clinically Speaking

Clinically Speaking

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Clinically Speaking episodes

  • NicOlandria Nation

    Licensed marriage and family therapists recap the finale and reunion of Love Island USA season 7. We chat about our final four couples, harmful communication patterns, and good apologies. 

     

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    Credits

    Editing by yours truly 

    Theme music by Connor Criswell; [email protected] 

     

    References

    Fraser, C. (2021, April 27). The Art of the Mindful Apology: Why ‘Sorry’ is Not Enough. Gottman. 2025, https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-art-of-the-mindful-apology-why-sorry-is-not-enough/ 

    Peacock. (2025). Love Island USA.

    The Gottman Institute. (2025, July 24). Red Flags vs Growth Areas: How to distinguish and navigate them. Gottman. 2025, https://www.gottman.com/blog/red-flags-vs-growth-areas-how-to-distinguish-and-navigate-them/?utm_campaign=Marriage%20Minute&utm_medium=email&_hsenc=p2ANqtz--IYpN9Wm3xZrwoeUNZpU4_LdncgHsAcA2HCdIaihCeR_Xrnn688U1oGqkOsxfAsJN62ARvXHyqNI7qvGECobOmAPO-hg&_hsmi=383144307&utm_content=382471926&utm_source=hs_email 

    13 min
  • RIP to Resurrected: A NicOlandria Love Story

    Licensed marriage and family therapists recap episodes 27-34 of Love Island USA season 7. We breakdown what we love about NicOlandria, discuss couple compatibility and family culture, vent about "Situationship Island," and finish up with Gay Thoughts/Straight Thoughts!

     

    Email us with questions and suggestions at [email protected] 

    Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @clinicallyspeakingpod

     

    Credits

    Editing by yours truly 

    Theme music by Connor Criswell; [email protected] 

     

    References

    Gottman, J. M., & Costanzo, P. (2012). Why marriages succeed or fail: And how you can make yours last. Tantor. 

    Gottman, John M.. The Marriage Clinic: A Scientifically Based Marital Therapy (Norton Professional Books (Hardcover)) (Function). Kindle Edition.

    Peacock. (2025). Love Island USA.

    28 min
  • Body-ody-ody Dysregulation

    Two new therapists enter the villa to recap episodes 15-26 of Love Island USA season 7! We share our definition of a “girls’ girl," breakdown Nic and Cierra’s communication, and discuss the role of culture in Amaya Papaya’s couples. Plus squeal over NicOlandria in our new segment, Gay Thoughts/Straight Thoughts!

     

    Email us with questions and suggestions at [email protected] 

    Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @clinicallyspeakingpod

     

    Credits

    Editing by yours truly 

    Theme music by Connor Criswell; [email protected] 

     

    WOC Clinicians on TikTok

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    @thedrmonica

    @anastasiabrokas_lmft

     

    References

    Gottman, J. M., & Costanzo, P. (2012). Why marriages succeed or fail: And how you can make yours last. Tantor. 

    Gottman, John M.. The Marriage Clinic: A Scientifically Based Marital Therapy (Norton Professional Books (Hardcover)) (Function). Kindle Edition.

    Peacock. (2025). Love Island USA.

    Perel, E. (2006). Mating in captivity: reconciling the erotic + the domestic. HarperCollins.

    23 min
  • Flooded... And Not Just Emotionally

    Two new therapists enter the villa and toe the line between chatting with the girlies and clinical insight. We dive into episodes 1-14 of Love Island USA season 7 to breakdown the OG couples and recouplings while integrating the work of your therapists' favorite bombshell duo, the Gottmans.

     

    Email us with questions and suggestions at [email protected] 

    Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @clinicallyspeakingpod

     

    Credits

    Editing by yours truly 

    Theme music by Connor Criswell; [email protected] 

     

    References

    Gottman, J. M., & Costanzo, P. (2012). Why marriages succeed or fail: And how you can make yours last. Tantor. 

    Gottman, John M.. The Marriage Clinic: A Scientifically Based Marital Therapy (Norton Professional Books (Hardcover)) (Function). Kindle Edition.

    Peacock. (2025). Love Island USA.

    22 min
  • Mini: Learn the Lingo

    Dive into commonly misused pop psychology terms before we start recapping season 7 of Love Island USA. We answer questions like:

    • What are boundaries, clinically speaking? 
    • What is gaslighting, clinically speaking?
    • What is a narcissist, clinically speaking?  
    • What are red flags, clinically speaking? 
    • What is validation, clinically speaking?
    • And do you actually know the difference between thoughts, feelings, and actions?
    • Email us with questions and suggestions as we prepare to recap season 7; [email protected]

       

      Credits

      Editing by yours truly 

      Theme music by Connor Criswell; [email protected] 

       

      References

      The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (5th ed.; DSM–5; American Psychiatric Association, 2013)

      Merriam-Webster. (n.d.). Gaslighting definition & meaning. Merriam-Webster. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/gaslighting 

       

      Resources

      KC Davis

      Susan David

      8 min

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