Habits for Your Happily Ever After

Clueless & Codependent Part 3: The Relationship Dynamic


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Every relationship has a dynamic.

With a lot of my private coaching clients, we talk about cluelessness and codependence, so I decided to create a short series.

  • Two weeks ago, I recorded an episode that looked at cluelessness.
  • Last week we talked about codependence.
  • Today, we’ll talk about the negative dynamic that results when you have a
  • combination of cluelessness and codependence in your relationship. You’ll get a habit to practice as well as a script to help you communicate more effectively with your partner.

Habit for Your Happily Ever After

This week’s habit for your happily ever after is to get curious about the dynamic between you and your partner when it comes to codependence and cluelessness.

When you can be curious about the reason your partner is clueless or codependent compassion comes flooding in. That compassion softens all the rough edges and you are free to love the person who’s been frustrating you.

Date Night Discussion

This week I invite you to thank your partner for the very thing that is bugging you.

Have a very short discussion and thank your sweetheart for the part of them—clueless or codependent—that has helped you to grow.

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Habits for Your Happily Ever AfterBy Rebecca Mullen

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