Coach Magic

Today we're diving into the theme of business evolution. I was inspired to create this episode after spending 3 weeks with my parents and having very little time to work amidst all of our adventures – and being very okay with that based on this season of life we are in together. They are 77. I am 47. And we are enjoying the moments we have together.

I truly believe that a big reason we are here is to ENJOY ourselves alongside doing work that makes a difference. There are many ways to put the pieces of this puzzle together – this changes over time.

What season of life are you in? Is it causing you to think long and hard about how you want to work? Evolution is the name of the game. As Stephen Hawking once said, "Intelligence is the ability to adapt to change." You and your business must be willing to adapt to change.

On this episode of COACH MAGIC, we talk about:

• Embracing change and adapting strategies as you and your business evolves

• Leveraging natural advantages to drive business growth

• Making intentional choices that align financial goals with personal fulfillment and lifestage

• Ensuring you're talking to the right people (this is EVERYTHING!)

Buckle up and let's go.

Let's talk about rejection and assumptions. I recently heard an incredible talk by Dr. Marisa Franco, friendship expert and New York Times bestselling author of "Platonic." She said, "When you fear rejection, you tend to reject others, which causes you to get rejected."

BOOM.

So I want you to think about how that plays a role in your life right now. Do you fear getting rejected by potential clients? Do you fear getting rejected by a partner? Friends, family members, a random person at the store, someone you want to ask a question of but are a little nervous to ask and so you just reject them or don't put yourself out there in the way that you know that you could and then you get rejected because you're putting out these funky vibes.

Look at how you are fearing rejection. How is that playing a role in how you are communicating and how your energy is going out? Do you not make enough invitations and offers? Do you play it safe? Do you not ask the question?

That's what we're diving into on this episode of Coach Magic. Buckle up and let's go.

There is so much noise. There is so much competition for attention. Social media is loud. The internet is loud. Inboxes get very overcrowded. You don't want your stuff to get lost in the shuffle, right?

You are here to make gorgeous money and a big impact with your amazing work – without burnout. Your message needs to pop. The most incredible clients need to hear from you so they know you can help them.

The theme of this episode is YOUR MAGNETIC MESSAGE. Tune in to:

• Free up time so you're not reinventing the wheel with your content – but you are creating a fresh vibe

• Hear 3 keys to standing out with your message

• Learn a helpful framework for ensuring your messaging clicks

I'm excited to go on this Coach Magic ride with you. Buckle up and let's go.

I turned 47 last week!

I honestly feel I'm just getting started in many areas of my life yet I also know I have traveled far distances and have learned a ton.

I'm still hungry yet I also feel super content.

If I could go back and tell my younger self a few things, here's what I'd say to her:

:: It gets better.

:: Don't dim your light for anyone, ever.

:: Doing what most people do won't get you to where you want to be.

:: You'll need to do hard things. And you'll rise to the occasion, beautifully.

:: You are magic. Look to the cycles of the moon + the seasons + nature + your own body to help you create what's in your soul.

:: Treat your body like a temple.

:: Put your money to work for you instead of you always needing to work for it. Money is energy. Take good care of it and it will take care of you.

:: You'll be the exact wife and partner your husband needs (and he will show up for you + your family, consistently). You'll be the exact kind of mother your children need. Never doubt this for a moment.

:: Let go of all you've outgrown. You're allowed. This is the way to rise higher.

:: You are never alone. Yet knowing how to spend time by yourself is the ultimate gift you give to yourself.

:: High standards are a beautiful thing.

:: You can + will love your work, be your own boss + make your own rules.

:: See as much of the world as you can.

:: You're going to make a huge impact in this life.

:: Perfection is a trap. Simply being you is enough.

:: Don't be afraid of your fear. Run everything as an experiment. Follow your curiosity. Learn everyday.

What would you tell your younger self?

I'm excited to go on this Coach Magic ride with you. Buckle up and let's go.

For as far back as I can remember, I've been obsessed with getting big things accomplished in the most efficient way possible. I think this is because I have so many things I love and I want time to do them well — and enjoy myself.

In my early career, I didn't prioritize taking care of myself. Eventually, that led to extreme burnout and a need to redesign the way I worked. I left one job and moved to another with better hours and better money … but I still wasn't prioritizing ME the way I needed to. Enter more burnout …

When I started my own business, I had more time to myself, but was hustling my butt off to get the business off the ground. Then I started having babies and doing my best to "balance" motherhood with work. It was not easy.

The truth I finally realized: "The better I take care of myself, the more wealth I create."

I turn 47 years old this week (May 23!) and can honestly say I'm in the best shape of my life. When I say this, I'm not just talking about my health, I'm talking about my work, my relationships, my support system. I AM IN THE BEST SHAPE OF MY LIFE.

On this episode, we are diving into how to own this next-level vibe for yourself. This is the vibe of an ENERGY QUEEN.

I'm excited to go on this Coach Magic ride with you. Buckle up and let's go.

I'm 9 years sober today! What a ride getting to this point. Hardest part was when alcohol was still in my life. Once I decided I was done, life got a lot easier and more fun.

Sobriety has taught me that taking exquisite care of me is my biggest responsibility. When I do this, I'm able to pour into others from a place of fullness vs depletion. Sobriety = living a life beyond your wildest dreams.

Is it always easy? No. The world is going to world and you'll need to deal with that — but you can and you will.

Is it worth it? 100% Yes. This is one of the best decisions I've ever made.

Will you need to let go of people, places and things that aren't a fit for you? Yes - and this is a good thing. Promise.

To celebrate this milestone, I'm sharing some benefits and lessons I've learned on this sobriety journey. I'm excited to go on this Coach Magic ride with you. Buckle up and let's go.

I do one thing at the start of each week to set me up for the week ahead. It has nothing to do with business yet it absolutely impacts my work. Doing this will change your life. So I'm dedicating an entire COACH MAGIC episode to this concept.

The theme of this episode is HOW TO PLAN YOUR WEEK. Tune in to:

• Learn my favorite organizational tool

• Strengthen your mind, boost your stamina, elevate your energy

• Run an experiment worth running

I'm excited to go on this Coach Magic ride with you. Buckle up and let's go.

She let go. How good does it feel to say that? You become liberated when you release what no longer serves you – in business and beyond. And it's not easy. You may spend a long time settling, tolerating, ignoring. When do you know it's time to let go? When is it wise to hold on? Let's talk about it.

The theme of this episode is THE LIFE-CHANGING MAGIC OF LETTING GO. Tune in to:

• Learn how spring break, my sister's birthday, Frozen Jr. and a canceled retreat inspired the message of this episode

• Embrace change as a catalyst for growth and transformation

• Discover the ultimate highlight reel you are creating as we speak

• Hear one of my favorite poems (it's so good!)

• Recognize the power of surrender and timing

• Live the question -- "What is the highest + best use of you to leave your mark on the world?"

I'm excited to go on this Coach Magic ride with you. Buckle up and let's go.

We need more money in the hands of women. This is good for us personally. This is good for our families. This is good for society. But how do you get past your money blocks? How do you get past your fears? Through changing the narrative and changing the game. It's time to make it rain money through our energy, ideas, business, and smart money moves.

The theme of this episode is IT'S RAINING MONEY. Tune in to:

• Discover the secret ingredient to transforming your relationship with money

• Learn how wealth flows

• Unleash the power of aligning your energy with your financial goals

• Experience the magic of visualizing your abundant future

• Embrace a transformative framework that will forever change your approach to money

I'm excited to go on this Coach Magic ride with you. Buckle up and let's go.

Today we're diving into a topic that many women entrepreneurs struggle with: sales shame. Know this: shame doesn't serve anyone here. Selling is a gift we offer our clients, not something we do to them. When you sell with integrity and joy, you reclaim your power and set yourself up for extraordinary success. Remember, the more fun we have, the bigger impact and money we make.

The theme of this episode is FROM SALES SHAME TO RECLAIMING YOUR POWER. Tune in to learn:

• The importance of delighting in the sales process

• Recognizing and overcoming sales shame

• Creating premium packages and positioning yourself in the market

• Making intentional and bold outreach to your audience

• Embracing rejection as a part of the process that leads to incredible yeses

I'm excited to go on this Coach Magic ride with you. Buckle up and let's go.