James 1:26 If you claim to be religious but don’t control your tongue, you are fooling yourself, and your religion is worthless.
1. My WORDS will LEAD my life.
James 3:3-4 We can make a large horse go wherever we want by means of a small bit in its mouth. And a small rudder makes a huge ship turn wherever the pilot chooses to go, even though the winds are strong.
Numbers 13:30-31 But Caleb tried to quiet the people as they stood before Moses. “Let’s go at once to take the land,” he said. “We can certainly conquer it!”31 But the other men who had explored the land with him disagreed. “We can’t go up against them! They are stronger than we are!”
We SHAPE our words and then our words SHAPE us.
2. My words can WRECK my WORLD.
James 3:5-6 In the same way, the tongue is a small thing that makes grand speeches. But a tiny spark can set a great forest on fire. And among all the parts of the body, the tongue is a flame of fire. It is a whole world of wickedness, corrupting your entire body. It can set your whole life on fire, for it is set on fire by hell itself.
Proverbs 10:19 Too much talk leads to sin. Be sensible and keep your mouth shut.
Pass NEGATIVES up and PRAISE down.
3. My words always REVEAL my HEART.
James 3:9-12 Sometimes it praises our Lord and Father, and sometimes it curses those who have been made in the image of God. And so blessing and cursing come pouring out of the same mouth. Surely, my brothers and sisters, this is not right! Does a spring of water bubble out with both fresh water and bitter water? Does a fig tree produce olives, or a grapevine produce figs? No, and you can’t draw fresh water from a salty spring.
The real problem isn’t my TONGUE, it is my HEART.
James 3:7-8 People can tame all kinds of animals, birds, reptiles, and fish, but no one can tame the tongue. It is restless and evil, full of deadly poison. 1. INVITE God to CHANGE my heart.
Jeremiah 24:7 I will give them hearts that recognize me as the Lord. They will be my people, and I will be their God, for they will return to me wholeheartedly.
Psalm 51:10 Create in me a clean heart, O God. Renew a loyal spirit within me.
Psalm 19:14 May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing to you, O Lord, my rock and my redeemer.
2. Put a FILTER on what I ALLOW in my heart.
Matthew 12:34a-35 NIV For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of. A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him.
Proverbs 4:23 Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.
3. DECIDE to SPEAK words of life.
Matthew 3:16-17 As soon as Jesus was baptized, he went up out of the water. At that moment heaven was opened, and he saw the Spirit of God descending like a dove and alighting on him. And a voice from heaven said, “This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased.”
Proverbs 25:11 Like golden apples in silver settings, so is a word spoken at the right time. Words of ENCOURAGEMENT
Ephesians 4:29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Words of HEALING Proverbs 15:4 Kind words are good medicine, but deceitful words can really hurt.
Romans 4:17 That is what the Scriptures mean when God told him, “I have made you the father of many nations.” This happened because Abraham believed in the God who brings the dead back to life and who creates new things out of nothing.