Ready to learn a nice cock control technique for begging to cum? Excellent. There is a very important skill set, especially if you ever want to earn a release. I hope you know how generous and kind it is to share with you this cock control technique that may earn you a release. Say “Thank you, Ms Becky”. Let’s begin.

What Mistress wants is a man stripped of cumbersome dignity and pride. By using the cock control technique of begging to cum, you can give your Mistress exactly what she wants- a man without pride, brought to his knees before her, begging her favor. And you really should give Mistress what she wants when you are asking a favor, yes? Its not as though Mistress needs to let you cum, right? It doesn’t matter one way or the other to me if you cum- any pleasure received from watching the money shot, from your begging and failing- can easily be replaced by the sting of denial stamped on your face. And since you ARE trying to get what you want, it would behoove you to see that she gets what she wants, correct?

So the first thing you need to do is orient yourself to the reality of the power dynamics. Mistress has all the power and there is no direct benefit to her permitting you to cum. This power dynamic should be reflected throughout the experience. That’s a large part of the reason you kneel- so that Mistresses larger than life presence looms over your diminished presence. You should have to strain to look up at her from your vantage point low to the ground, while her body stretches to the sky. You’ll find that the perspective of looking up to her will help orient a submissive mindset, mindful of power dynamics.

There is nothing more frustrating and disappointing as a haughty submissive, full of pride and resistance. Even watching someone hold onto the vestiges of pride unintentionally is a disappointing experience- usually for the both of us. When I see someone clinging to their tattered pride and wounded dignity, I know that they have not fully ceded control. They are resisting the state of vulnerability that I have placed them in, and its going to stand in the way of both of our pleasure. By allowing yourself to shed the protections of pride and dignity, you will open yourself to full vulnerability, leading to better orgasms, emotional release and catharsis, and better submission.

For me, the sensory experience of suffering is quite the thrill, as is the simple truth that I have the power to allow the suffering to subside or to crank it up to unbearable heights. That power is mighty heady, you know? But having a visual feast for my eyes, with you on your knees, a blush scorching your cheeks, lust-filled, desperate eyes, with whispered please and whimpers and begs. Remember that cock control is a mutually pleasurable experience- while I provide you with what you need, you provide me with what I need. Keep your Mistress’s pleasure in mind as you respond to her teasing and carry out her instructions. As stated, for me, the sensory experience captures a lot of my sexual pleasure and if you don’t attend to my pleasure, well, I won’t be attending to yours either.

I hope I have given you a couple of tools to improve your begging for Mistress during cock control sessions. I personally really love cockteasing, and cock control itself is such a delicious way to explore submission. Attending to the mindset essentials listed above will ensure that you please your Mistress with your pained groans and whimpers, which does nothing more that increase your odds for a successful release. Good luck!

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