I know it may seem like I’m answering the perennial question here by giving you cum eating tips on the May I Cum? blog. But I promise that you may or may not actually get to finish yourself off by the end of this post. I just like the idea that if you get to cum, you’ll be prepared to properly lick up your mess like the good, eager slut that you are. Not a slut? Well, I can fix that, too. Keep reading to learn how to get past the aversion that is so common, and prevents so many stroker sluts from proving their ultimate obedience.

If we start from the assumption that you’re a good, obedient, slutty stroker, and then go from there, then it follows that you would want to obey your Mistress, stroke until your brain stops working, and then lick up your cum (if you’re allowed to spurt) at the end. I mean, that’s obvious. Of course a good gooner stroke slut wants to clean up their mess! But a lot of supposedly ‘good gooner stroke sluts’ just don’t quite manage to finish off every drip of their load. An aversion to eating cum is common, so much so that cum eating training is often very focused on helping people get past said aversion! So here’s my top three methods to bring you beyond the ‘yuck’ and into the ‘Thank you, Mistress, I love it’. Grab your cum eating affirmations and try some of these tips today.

As with many cum eating tips, this one starts with a little preparation ahead of time. You’ll need a plate, and some honey. Drizzle your honey onto your plate, and when you finally get to stop edging and gooning, cum onto your sweetened plate! Lick up every drop of your brand new salty/sweet treat. Along the same line, when you’re trying to eat your own cum, try adding it to something. Yogurt is a good choice, because it’s already got a strong taste and looks very similar to a puddle of jizz, but you can add a little ‘extra seasoning’ to pretty much anything. Try smearing your load on some toast, and eating it that way!

If your post orgasmic aversion is too strong to overcome, try skipping the ‘post’ part of the equation! Save a load by masturbating yourself into a ziplock baggie, and storing it in the freezer or your fridge. When you’re ready to masturbate again, prepare your saved load by floating it in a mug of warm water, and then, as you edge and stroke and goon yourself stupid, lick up your load like the cum drunk slut you yearn to be. Try scooping it up on your fingertips, dipping a dildo into it and sucking a real cock flavored silicone dick, or using something to replicate a Fun Dip experience (biscotti, mini carrots, cookies, or something else yummy you can dip and enjoy your salty treat on.) If you eat a load before you cum, it still counts as cum eating!

The last, and best, tip for cum eating I have is to reach out for some help! If you need the firm guiding hand of your Femdom Mistress to help you follow through with your cum eating aspirations, there’s no shame in that! Get her to help you bow your head and lap up your mess. Think of it as a good bonding exercise between you and your Mistress; she gets to encourage you to obey and submit, and you get to be encouraged, and, of course, you get to obey, submit, and eat your cum by following her cum eating instructions. There really is nothing better than playing dirty kinky fun games with someone else, so, pick up your phone and contact your Mistress today. If you beg to eat your cum, at least you know you’ll likely get to actually cum! Otherwise you’re stuck still asking “Mistress, may I cum?!”

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Some people may not think that a guy stroking is really that submissive. There are, after all, plenty of articles about how to prevent it with things like male chastity and such.

But I’m one of those people who’s inclined to think a bit differently. I think a stroker can be a very submissive sort of guy. I believe if you enjoy taking jerk-off instructions (JOI) from a Mistress, you probably qualify as submissive.

I think guided masturbation was made for subs. A dominant man–or even most vanilla men–are not going to listen to someone else tell them how to stroke their dicks! They’re going to want to be the ones in charge of the hows and the whens. But a submissive guy? Oh, he’s going to absolutely love being told how to do his stroking for his Mistress.

He’ll say, “You mean, I get to do something to please my Mistress, not have to make any decisions, follow instructions, and also get off? Could there be anything better than this?”

Nobody but a submissive man is going to have that reaction to someone else controlling his stroking!

Of course, when I run into a submissive guy who’s interested in having his stroking directed, I have to tease him. I can’t help myself! It’s just a natural reaction on my part when I’m faced with a sub. He’s submissive; therefore, I have to tease him. It’s a universal law. I have no control over it.

So I’ll tease and tease for a while before I ever even let him take his cock out and start stroking. Then, when I finally do let him, I incorporate even more teasing by edging him a lot. I love driving him all the way to the edge and then backing off. It makes his orgasm better, and his reaction when he has to take his hand off his cock makes me chuckle a bit every time.

When I play with a sub who enjoys guided masturbation, I like to try to do something a little different every now and then. It’s fun to give him a taste of something he’s never done before. Of course, I can’t do that during every session, but I like to do it regularly enough that it keeps him on his toes.

This can include things like temporary chastity between stroking sessions, a little light CBT for those inclined toward masochism, cum eating for the really naughty, etc. It doesn’t really matter what I choose, as long as it’s something he’s never tried. I think that shaking things up makes a stroking routine much more interesting and sexy!

Plus, this just plays into the inherent submissiveness of a stroker. If he weren’t submissive, he probably wouldn’t find anything exciting about trying new things while getting off. He’d just want to do the same thing that he always does because it’s guaranteed to work. But a sub is much more adventurous than that when he’s in the hands of a capable Mistress like me.

So if you’re both submissive and into stroking for me, I’ve got a little assignment for you. I want you to do for yourself what I often do for my subs who call me. I want you to try something different when you’re stroking next time. It can be something as simple as just jacking off with your non-dominant hand. Or it can be something much more complex. It doesn’t matter what you choose, as long as it’s something you’ve never done. Then, I want you to report back to me, via phone or blog comment, how it went.

Think you can handle that for me? I feel certain you can. So go forth and try new things for Ms. Kay Marie!

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Ready to learn a nice cock control technique for begging to cum? Excellent. There is a very important skill set, especially if you ever want to earn a release. I hope you know how generous and kind it is to share with you this cock control technique that may earn you a release. Say “Thank you, Ms Becky”. Let’s begin.

What Mistress wants is a man stripped of cumbersome dignity and pride. By using the cock control technique of begging to cum, you can give your Mistress exactly what she wants- a man without pride, brought to his knees before her, begging her favor. And you really should give Mistress what she wants when you are asking a favor, yes? Its not as though Mistress needs to let you cum, right? It doesn’t matter one way or the other to me if you cum- any pleasure received from watching the money shot, from your begging and failing- can easily be replaced by the sting of denial stamped on your face. And since you ARE trying to get what you want, it would behoove you to see that she gets what she wants, correct?

So the first thing you need to do is orient yourself to the reality of the power dynamics. Mistress has all the power and there is no direct benefit to her permitting you to cum. This power dynamic should be reflected throughout the experience. That’s a large part of the reason you kneel- so that Mistresses larger than life presence looms over your diminished presence. You should have to strain to look up at her from your vantage point low to the ground, while her body stretches to the sky. You’ll find that the perspective of looking up to her will help orient a submissive mindset, mindful of power dynamics.

There is nothing more frustrating and disappointing as a haughty submissive, full of pride and resistance. Even watching someone hold onto the vestiges of pride unintentionally is a disappointing experience- usually for the both of us. When I see someone clinging to their tattered pride and wounded dignity, I know that they have not fully ceded control. They are resisting the state of vulnerability that I have placed them in, and its going to stand in the way of both of our pleasure. By allowing yourself to shed the protections of pride and dignity, you will open yourself to full vulnerability, leading to better orgasms, emotional release and catharsis, and better submission.

For me, the sensory experience of suffering is quite the thrill, as is the simple truth that I have the power to allow the suffering to subside or to crank it up to unbearable heights. That power is mighty heady, you know? But having a visual feast for my eyes, with you on your knees, a blush scorching your cheeks, lust-filled, desperate eyes, with whispered please and whimpers and begs. Remember that cock control is a mutually pleasurable experience- while I provide you with what you need, you provide me with what I need. Keep your Mistress’s pleasure in mind as you respond to her teasing and carry out her instructions. As stated, for me, the sensory experience captures a lot of my sexual pleasure and if you don’t attend to my pleasure, well, I won’t be attending to yours either.

I hope I have given you a couple of tools to improve your begging for Mistress during cock control sessions. I personally really love cockteasing, and cock control itself is such a delicious way to explore submission. Attending to the mindset essentials listed above will ensure that you please your Mistress with your pained groans and whimpers, which does nothing more that increase your odds for a successful release. Good luck!

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As you know, I love Ruined Orgasms. Most of the time, however, I’m ruining people’s orgasmic experiences on purpose. I mean, I set out to do it, you know it’s what I’m aiming for, and, in fact, you have to participate in order for us to reach the goal. When I tell you what to do, you do it! And thus your cumming is a little messed up. Fun for everyone. But sometimes, there’s a little ‘oopsy’ moment, and we have an accidental ruined orgasm. Whups?

You’ve definitely had an accidental ruined orgasm. Everyone goes through puberty at some point in their lives, whether that’s a natural puberty or one facilitated by hormones. During puberty, it’s very common to cum in your pants without meaning to, or even without stimulation! You get that pesky hardon, and then you have some dirty thoughts, and pretty soon someone smiles at you, or laughs at you, and then oops. There you go, making a mess of yourself. Don’t worry, even if puberty is well behind you in years, you can still experience the joy and fun of being so turned on that you can’t control yourself.

The accidental ruined orgasm fans often overlap in the Venn Diagram of kinky fun with the Pre-jac fetishists. What’s a pre-jac? A person who loves the idea of cumming too soon, with little to no stimulation, in their pants like a horny co-ed, is a person who probably has a pre-jac fantasy. Premature Ejaculation can be troublesome for some men, and if it plagues you and isn’t fun, go talk to a healthcare provider. But, if the idea of being such a needy and desperate slut that you can’t hold back and make a mess of yourself appeals to you, then you’re in for a lot of fun.

Here’s one of my stories about accidentally ruining an orgasm for a partner of mine. Don’t worry, I tend to do this a lot, so I have more ruined orgasm stories to share if you really need to hear all about how I make dudes jizz themselves. But, this particular time, I had a friend over for some ‘with benefits’ time, if you know you know, and I’d been teasing him really hard all evening long. The thing is, I love a good tease, so I was using some dirty tricks on him. Talking about what I wanted him to do, what I wanted to do with him, how I was going to play with him all night long, and, of course, little light touches to his arm, shoulder, neck, and so on. I swear I wasn’t trying to hump all over him or anything extra lewd, we were just teasing a little while out to eat at a nice restaurant!

I leaned over the table, looked him right in the eyes, and told him that I couldn’t wait to make him cum so hard he saw the Divine. And, well. Oops. He got that look on his face! I could tell he tried to hold back, tried to stop it, but some avalanches just have to let go and land where they’re aimed, and his was aimed at the inside of his underwear. You may wonder if I was ashamed, or embarrassed, or if I felt guilty for making him ruin his orgasm and cum his pants in a fancy Japanese restaurant. Nope! I laughed my ass off, got the attention of the other patrons, and had the head waiter coming over to ask if everything was ok. I was having a great time, so I told him it was all great and could he bring over more wasabi, please?

I do want to make you cum, too. I love all orgasms, no matter what sort they are. But there’s something about the pre-jac orgasms, and the accidental orgasms, that I love extra. Getting you so worked up that you can’t hold back? Hot damn yes. You might ask ‘May I Cum?!!!’, and the answer would be the obvious ‘not yet’, but if you edge too far and can’t stop yourself? Just take your hand off, let the avalanche go, and if you’re still horny after you make a mess in your underwear we can go for another round. You’ll last longer the second time, I hope, and I love multiple orgasms.

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It was a typical evening at home in my sexy sanctuary. But, all of that would quickly change after an unexpected panty fetish reveal. A sanctuary where I reign as your Goddess of sensual tease and seduction. I was lounging on my plush chaise, scrolling through my phone, when a strange sound caught my attention—a soft, rhythmic rustling that seemed out of place amidst the stillness of my abode.

Curiosity piqued, I followed the sound, my black leather Louboutin stilettos clicking softly against the marble floor. A seductive symphony that seemed to heighten the anticipation of the moment with each step.

As I approached the slightly ajar door of my stroke pet’s quarters, the rustling grew louder. Accompanied now by faint, suppressed moans of pleasure. Peering through the narrow opening, I saw him—my devoted panty fetish stroke pet. His legs spread and his eyes clenched shut in a silent plea for release. In his grasp was not just his throbbing cock, but a pair of my lace panties. Wrapped around his shaft, the delicate fabric caressing his sensitive skin with every stroke. The sight was both amusing and arousing, a testament to his devotion and desperate need for me.

A playful smirk danced across my lips as I contemplated my next move. Should I burst in and confront him, or watch the delicious torment unfold? I chose the latter, leaning against the door frame, my arms crossed under my breasts, accentuating their fullness as I took in the erotic show.

His breathing became labored, each pant was a symphony to my ears. I could see the precum glistening on the head of his cock, the lace panties now damp with his arousal. He was close, teetering on the edge of ecstasy, ignorant of my watchful gaze.

“What do we have here?” I finally purred, my voice dripping with teasing condescension. His eyes flew open, panic and shame flashing across his face as he realized he’d been caught. The color drained from his cheeks, matching the pale shade of my stolen panties that now lay limply in his hand.

“Oh, don’t stop on my account,” I cooed teasingly, stepping into the room with the grace of a predator cornering its prey. “In fact, why don’t you continue? Masturbate for me. Show me how much you adore my panties, panty fetish slut. Show me how much you wish they were my lips wrapped around your cock.”

His embarrassment quickly morphed into a new wave of lust as he resumed stroking, his eyes never leaving my figure. I approached him, my hips swaying with each step, a visual serenade of seduction. I towered over him, a sexy Goddess to his mere mortal, my shadow casting him in a warm, enticing darkness.

“Tell me,” I whispered, “do you fantasize about cumming in my panties, or perhaps, on my perfect feet?” His breath hitched as he nodded. I knew it! Not only did my stroke pet have a panty fetish, he had a foot fetish too! His strokes growing more fervent and more desperate. “Say it,” I commanded, my voice a velvet demand.

“Yes, Goddess Demi,” he rasped, “I dream of it—cumming for you, on your feet and licking it all up between your toes.”

I knelt before him, close enough that he could feel my breath on his skin but far enough to keep his release just out of reach. “You’ve been a horny stroke pet, haven’t you?” I whispered, my fingers tracing the inside of his thighs, barely grazing his balls. He whimpered in response, his body arching towards my touch.

With the precision of a maestro, I began to direct his pleasure, instructing him on how to stroke himself, when to slow down, when to speed up. I edged him mercilessly. Watching with cruel satisfaction as the pleasure built to an almost painful crescendo within him.

“Please, Goddess, may I cum?” he begged, his voice trembling with need.

I leaned in, my lips brushing against his ear. “Not yet, my dear. You haven’t earned that privilege.” His moans of frustration filled the room, a symphony of denied desire that only served to fuel my own arousal.

I stood, looking down at him with a mix of amusement and dominance. “Remember, little pet, your pleasure belongs to me. I control your cock and I control your orgasm. You cum when I allow it and not a moment before.”

His cock twitched in response, pre-cum dripping freely as he fought against the overwhelming urge to release. I stepped back. Admiring the view of my stroke pet on the verge of ecstasy, bound not by ropes but by my command.

“Now, be a good pet and clean up your mess,” I instructed, gesturing to the drops of pre-cum, sticky evidence of his arousal, on the floor. “And remember, if you wish to worship at the altar of my pussy, you must prove your worth. Worship your Goddess more. Show me that you can be the devout disciple I require, and perhaps then I’ll consider allowing you to bask in the glory of your release.”

With that, I turned on my heels, leaving him in a state of quivering anticipation and on the edge of desire. His cock still hard and unsatisfied. As I walked away, I couldn’t help but smile, knowing that the next time he wrapped my panties around his cock, he’d be thinking of me—his sensual cocktease Goddess, his teasing tormentor, his ultimate fantasy.

Now, my dear readers, it’s your turn. Are you ready to prove your devotion? Are you willing to submit to my will, to edge yourself on the command of your Goddess?

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Show me that you are worthy of my attention, and you may just earn the privilege of cumming. But remember, I am in control, and your pleasure is at my discretion. Worship me, and perhaps you’ll be rewarded with the sweet release you so desperately seek.

Keeping you entranced and craving more until next time,

Your Sensual Cocktease Goddess Demi

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That needy little sound you make when you’re so close to cumming, but doing your very best to hold back for me? You know that sound, the one you can’t help yourself, the whine and moan that tells me you’re so close to orgasm and you need it more than anything? I fucking love that sound from you. I want you to make that eager slutty sound for me. Don’t get too ahead of yourself though, because even if you do make the best noises, moans, and even cry for permission to cum, I may not let you. I want that delayed orgasm to build up and up and up in you until you can’t think of anything other than how much you want to cum.

In my perfect delayed orgasm fantasy, you’re completely nude. I keep going back and forth on whether I’d be wearing clothes or not. Both ideas are hot as fuck, so there’s no bad choice. Either I’m nude, so I can tease you, sit on your face, use your hand to get myself off a few times, or I’m clothed, so that you can’t even see any part of me. Clothed, in a CFNM fantasy, so that I can keep a level of control, of cool reserve and that aura of power over you and your needy cock. You’re going to beg for me, no matter what, and I’m going to delay your orgasm as long as I possibly can. You’re going to be ruined and such a slutty mess by the end of my fantasy scenario.

I’ve got some really nice silk scarves I keep tied to the head and foot boards of my bed. In red, of course, so they stand out against your skin, and silk for strength and so they won’t chafe you when you writhe for me. Can you see what I’m imagining? You, hard and horny, naked, tied spread out across my bed, on my silk sheets, with satin pillows to prop up your hips and put you perfectly on display. There’s a rolling cart next to the bed, with wet wipes, and tissues, and lube. Feathers, vibes, and maybe a dildo or two, as well. How about one of the remote control vibrating butt plugs? I think you’d look good with a cock ring to keep you hard, and make that cock stand up extra tall, and a plug nestled right behind your balls, buzzing away. Let me put the Edge plug in that sweet ass, and make you beg me to turn it up.

Sensation games are my favorite. Of course, cock control games are my favorite, too, and also orgasm control, that’s a favorite. It’s fine, I’m allowed to have more than one favorite thing to do to you! I want to put on nitrile gloves, lube my fingers, and then tease your cock, balls, and ass. I’d slide a nice cock ring down over your cock and balls, nice and snug, and then tease my fingers over your eager hole. One hand to touch and stroke your hard, leaking cock, and the other slowly working my fingers into you while you arch up into my touch and beg for more, and more, and more. And then the slow press inward of the plug, followed by the jolt and shudder as I turn it on. All those waves of vibration rolling through you, pressing on your prostate, milking you slowly. You’d leak so much precum! Squeeze it out past that cock ring for me, and make such a mess.

I want to edge you, to keep you on the edge as long as I possibly can. Oh I want to make you shake, and moan. Of course I want to hear the hitch in your voice when you get close, and the broken tones of your voice when you beg me to finally let you cum. You want to cum for me, don’t you? Yes you want to jack off, to stroke hard and fast, and to spurt your cum all over your belly, but I won’t let you. You can edge until your brain stops working, and you can beg for more, beg to cum, but honey we’ll be here for hours.

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There are way too many benefits that come from controlling your orgasm for you to simply avoid it. What is orgasm control? What cock controlling techniques can you use? And what are the benefits of controlling your orgasm?

I have you covered!

Let’s start with the basics, what is orgasm control? Orgasm control, sometimes referred to as �edging� or �tease and denial/tease and delay� is a sexual practice in which a person delays their orgasm for a period of time to increase the intensity of the eventual climax. This can involve bringing oneself or a partner close to orgasm, right up to the “edge” and then reducing stimulation to avoid reaching climax. Repeating the cycle multiple times before finally allowing the orgasm to occur. The practice can be used to enhance sexual pleasure and can be part of consensual power dynamics in relationships.

There are so many techniques that I will use when controlling your orgasm. I will list them below but be sure to visit my blog, What are the Different Types of Orgasm Control? There, I give you an in-depth description of each technique.

I am sure you are wondering, what are the benefits? I will list them below but be sure to visit my blog, What are the Benefits of Orgasm Control? There, I give you an in-depth description of each benefit. Of course, there are many more benefits to controlling your orgasm. If you have practiced controlling your orgasm, tease and denial, edging, and/or tease and delay; I would LOVE to know what benefits you have experienced!

Orgasm control is a versatile and exciting sexual practice that can enhance pleasure, intimacy, and arousal. Whether practiced alone or with a partner, understanding the different types and techniques can help individuals and couples explore new dimensions of their sexual experiences. As with any sexual activity, communication, consent, and mutual respect are key to ensuring a positive and enjoyable experience.

Clear communication and consent are crucial in cock control practices, especially in partnered settings. When communicating to me that you are in need of masturbation management, we will talk extensively about consent, emotional boundaries, and physical limits.

Now that the seed has been planted, are you considering orgasm control for yourself?

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Cockteasing… Heaven or Hell? You decide. I am just here to lay out the facts.

The notion of a cockteaser is undeniably a feminine energy, yes, but every single individual carries traits of both the feminine and the masculine. I bring this up because there was a study done on sensual teasing with researchers at the University of Texas & University of New Brunswick surveyed 742 undergraduates regarding sexual teasing, defined as presenting someone with the possibility of sex and then withdrawing it, and here are the results:

As far as the reasons, they were a bit different for the sexes.

Women indicated they engaged in cockteasing because they were motivated by wanting to feel sexy and desirable, to be powerful and in control, but also did not want to appear “easy”. Real quick, because I want you guys to fucking GET THIS: do you see how the patriarchy has perpetuated this. You have withheld power from women for centuries, so of course they seek out areas that they can still have a little power AND the patriarchy made is shameful for women to act on their sexual desires. So yes, enter cock teasing. The math is quite simple here, fellas.

Now men were more likely to say that they wanted to turn themselves on, wanted to see how far they could go, confessed they did it on a dare or bet, or simply wanted a good story to tell their friends.

Recipients of teasing had a mixed bag of reactions too:

Source: https://labs.la.utexas.edu/mestonlab/files/2016/05/2007-meston-osullivan.pdf

In terms of power exchange expressed within a BDSM dynamic, there is a lot to be gained by taking control of his cock, his orgasms, his pleasure, his stroking. After all, women are natural cock teases. And there is so much yumminess in the unpredictability and excitement associated with a known cock tease- it’s like when we enter one of those will they/wont they relationships in TV. The edge of your seat anticipation of it all, you know? But let’s break this down a bit.

I Own Your Cock, subby boy.

It’s such a fundamental right, as a human being, to control our own bodies- and of fucking course I love the thought of making the boys experience the type of violation to that human right that girls experience all the time. Taking someone’s right to control their body is an act of dehumanization, but before you judge me too harshly, know that the people I dehumanize fucking beg for it, love it, crave it and need it. I don’t walk up to random strangers and set out to dehumanize them- I simply avail my very unique skill set to satiate the very unique needs of both of us, or all of us as the case may be. What was that Al Pacino line: “I’m a humanist”, darling. A women for the people, practically.

Now there are actually two forms of training I am referring to here: submissive training & endurance/performance training.

Cockteasing and denial is a fantastic way to motivate a lazy or naughty slave boy. They are soooo motivated by their own selfish pleasure that using that against them becomes both easy and effective. By the way, I realize we have not gotten into denial at all, and will probably continue this discussion next week to jump into the denial, ruined orgasms, edging and gooning as well as discussing some fun ways to play. A subby will agree to work on anything in order to touch his worthless cockmeat, and what I like to do is weaponize that for my own purposes and amusement.

So a huge reason that the strokers enjoy cock teasing and surrendering control is the rewards of that can be wonderful, as I guide you to experience new sensations, new strategies and techniques that bring about the most intense and orgasmic experiences of your life. And I would say this regarding any type of stroking play between consenting adults- not just femdom. Together we can intensify and expand each other’s sexual experiences in a way that is greater than what we can respectively do alone. Its a human connection, an experience we both participate in, which I think satisfies on more than just a physical level- we are meant to have sensual, sexy, intense, wild, orgasmic experiences with one another on an emotional, mental, and spiritual level as well. Creative cockteasing is a fantastic way to get both of our juices flowing.

Now, I’ll get into this more with denial, but even edging and delay can be a great way to punish a naughty subby. Truthfully, sometimes mercy after a punishment can tie that slave even closer to you, so humbled and deeply grateful they are for your forgiveness. Depending on the circumstances, you can add in public humiliation, cock and ball torture or other pain play, and cum eating- whatever. Honestly, a man never feels more humbled, more punished or shamed, then after he cums, and when coupled cock control and surrender, it can be an excellent time for a little reinforcement.

Finally, not at all in the least, I love to cock tease because I adore watching men whimper and groan and mewl for me in desperate arousal, begging me for relief. Not only does it make me feel powerful, it makes my fucking panties soaked, you know? This includes showing off a slave who is particular obedient or impressive in some way, someone who knows how to put on a good show. I will include in this category the personal gratification of said stroker, who likely loves public humiliation (as do most of the strokers I work with, though certainly not all), who enjoys exhibitionism and being watched. So basically, a little something for everyone in the gratification department. Personally, I do find a lot of pleasure in giving pleasure as well- I love to pour love, affection, and sexy time into my sweet subbies and sissies, and bestowing pleasure on them is part of that. I control your pleasure, but I also damned well control your pain, yes?

I want to know which of these really great reasons listed here you find the sexiest in real life! Which kind of cockteaser brings you to your knees, gentlemen? Which lean in do you find absolutely undeniable- do you like the sweet pleasure seeking cockteasers, or do you offer yourself up as a proxy for some good old fashioned revenge?

AND… let me know, dear reader, whether or not you find cockteasing utterly heavenly or cruelly hellish?

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Huh? What am I talking about? Well, we Mistresses here at LDW have a totally awesome kind of “May I Cum?” challenge for you! LDW has a fantastic event planned for September 7, 2024. It is our 2024 Stroke-a-Thon.

Imagine sitting in a private room, which happens to be in Skype, with 25+ Mistresses, sitting in front of your computer, stroking for us. Imagine the most intense tease and denial session you’ve ever had and then multiply it by those 25+ women. We Mistresses have a goal of making you cum before the end of the stream of us using our best techniques to get those juices flowing outward. If you ever wanted to do a 25+ Mistress call, this is your opportunity! This is a fantastic way to get to hear the other women and note (with your mind, not your jerking hand) which Mistress you might want to call next.

There will be other guys and gals (sissies and T-girls) in that private room, too, but you can just ignore anyone you want.

You simply must show off your masturbation skills so we can also note who we would love to hear from one day. Spoiler: ALL OF YOU!

Why, yes you may, but the challenge of the entire project is to see who cums last. Are you someone who requires permission to orgasm? This is right up your alley! Do you think you are UP for the ordeal… er, the Contest? I meant Contest. It shouldn’t be an “ordeal” for you guys and gals who beg us for a great deal of tease and denial… or tease and delay? Since we will want you to cum… eventually… I suppose it is a “delay,” right?

You may not wear a cock ring (or shoelaces or anything tied around your cock), but some of you have asked if you could bring your vibe or if it’s okay to use lube and both of those are a “YES, PLEASE!”

Of course you can cum! You can cum anytime during the event. But you won’t win the prizes. Darn!

Can you imagine the intense joy and mischievous glee we Mistresses are going to have tormenting you? I have goosebumps just writing this! In fact, I feel myself squishing in my panties, too. This is such a turn-on for this Mistress.

It’s easy peasy to get your place in that private room. All that is necessary is a one hour call with a Mistress… and your place is guaranteed! You only need (and get) one entry into the contest, so that’s easy enough, yes? Be sure to keep checking the Mistress’ blogs about the Stroke-a-Thon because so many of us have great deals and specials related to the competition.

1st Place is for whomever is the Last Person to Cum after 60 minutes of torment, uh… teasing. The winner gets 60 FREE Minutes with the Mistress of his or her choice.

2nd Place winner gets a delicious 30 FREE Minutes with the Mistress of their choice.

3rd place, the third to last to cum for us gets a delightful 20 FREE Minutes with the Mistress of his or her choice.

In the Daily Cock, there’s a great FAQ for all to peruse. Click on the Daily Cock link here and scroll down to find the FAQ.

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to email [email protected] and someone will help you with whatever you need.

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Are you interested in learning how to last longer in bed? How about increasing your pleasure to levels that are so far beyond what you’re currently capable of experiencing that it’s almost unimaginable? Would you be interested in all the positive benefits of orgasm control? I think you would be, because you’d have to be pretty committed to a straight edge celibate lifestyle to be disinterested. Let me cocktease and tempt you away from that never-nut life, and bring you into the light of intense pleasure.

Let’s start with the temptation by exploring exactly what orgasm control is, and what it’s not. Most of the time when you’re masturbating your goal is to finish cumming as soon as possible, right? With this sort of guided masturbation game the goal is to increase your enjoyment and enable you to last longer in all sorts of sexual games. The root of cock control is the control; in this case, you hand over control to me, or to your chosen partner on the phone, and we exert control by guiding your masturbation. We’ll tell you when and how to stroke, how fast, how hard to grip, even what technique to use as you’re stroking yourself off. And you do as we direct, instead of following your own whims and desires. The end result is a guided masturbation session that leaves you feeling more fulfilled and sated.

I can practically hear the denied sluts out there getting very excited over the idea that orgasm control means they get to finally cum for me. Hold your impatience, because I’m about to split a fine hair. There’s a difference between orgasm and ejaculation, as you well know! A big part of these sorts of guided masturbation games is the slowly dawning realization for many strokers and sluts that it is possible to have an orgasm without actually cumming all over yourselves. Orgasm is the feeling of pleasure, the euphoria of an energetic explosion arising from intense stimulation. Ejaculation is the expelling of fluids associated with sex. Learning to control your orgasm can mean learning to have that ecstatic moment without losing your erection or spewing cum everywhere. And that’s what I really mean when I tell you about ‘unimaginable pleasure’.

What would you do if I could teach you how to orgasm two, three, or more times in a row? Would you be willing to give up ejaculation to achieve this absolutely amazing level of pleasure and euphoria? I think you might be tempted. The process isn’t all that difficult, it’s just a bit much for some men, especially in the beginning stages. There’s a lot of arousal and horny feelings with not very much fulfillment. You have to prime the engine, so to speak, really work up a head of steam or arousal, before we can make you orgasm again and again for us. If it were easy, no one would need guided masturbation and orgasm control to get there, you’d just do this naturally as part of your usual sexual routine. This is a learned skill, and it does take a teacher to help you along. And you’re going to have to study hard, and apply yourself, and there may be some late nights as you contemplate the allure of a quick wank to take the edge off. But don’t! Keep that edge, that’s what we want, so that you can become the multi-orgasmic slut you could be.

The tradeoff is that you undergo a few weeks of guided masturbation training, with very few ejaculations (none, by preference), and at the end you get to experience ultimate orgasm control. You can learn to orgasm on command, to orgasm repeatedly, and you’ll learn to endure wave upon wave of pleasure and sexual arousal. Seems like a pretty decent tradeoff to me. I’d love to teach you to orgasm untouched and on command. It’s so sexy to see, if you’re willing to show me on cam, or to just listen on the phone as you obey men and experience the ultimate in cock control and submission to me. Let me control your orgasm. You’ll like it, I promise.

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Ps: don’t forget to leave comments! You can get a Participation Prize just for telling me how much you’re looking forward to my utter and complete control over your orgasms.

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