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Hybrid Mistress Controlled Orgasms? Step into my dark den of delicious domination, where orgasms aren’t just orgasms, they’re exquisite punishments and intoxicating rewards. As a Femdom Hybrid Mistress, I wield the power to turn the mundane into the mind-blowing, and nothing does that better than coerced, ruined, and delayed orgasms after a teasing, prolonged edge. They’re not just stronger, in fact, they’re sublime explosions of sensation that traditional orgasms can only dream of matching.

First, let’s talk about the beauty of a coerced orgasm. This isn’t about sweet surrender or a willing release haha, oh no. Actually, it’s about control, command, and that electric tension when I decide you will cum. The point of whether your body screams “yes” or your mind protests “no.” The delicious conflict between resistance and inevitability turns every nerve ending into a live wire. It’s like being made to walk the razor’s edge of pleasure and humiliation, where the orgasm arrives not as a gentle bloom but as a fierce, shattering crescendo. The mind fights the body, and that battle makes the eventual release so much more intense.

Ruined orgasms, on the other hand, are the exquisite torture of “almost.” I bring you to the brink, then snatch the climax away—leaving you gasping, aching, and desperate. This isn’t failure; it’s a cruel tease that rewires your pleasure centers. The frustration builds, thick and relentless, until the next time you’re allowed to cum—and when that moment finally comes, it’s not just an orgasm; it’s a release that reverberates through every fiber of your being. Ruined orgasms teach patience, obedience, and a delicious kind of suffering that only makes the final payout sweeter.

Now, orgasm edging—the art of prolonged teasing—sets the stage for the ultimate delayed orgasm. I stretch out the anticipation, playing with your limits, making every second feel like an eternity. When I finally allow you to release, the orgasm isn’t just a moment; it’s a tidal wave. All the pent-up energy, every ounce of desire, explodes in a way that traditional orgasms simply can’t replicate.

Your body is primed and trembling, every nerve on fire, and the sensation crashes through you like a storm unleashed. The delay amplifies everything—intensity, pleasure, and the intoxicating feeling of complete surrender. Why are these orgasms so much stronger? It’s all about control and contrast.

Traditional orgasms are often too quick, too easy. They don’t carry the weight of anticipation, the delicious torment of denial, or the raw power of a delayed release. When I take control, when I manipulate your pleasure and pain, your frustration and release, I’m not just giving you an orgasm. I’m creating an experience that lingers, that haunts you, that rewires your very understanding of pleasure.

Finally, let’s not forget the psychological thrill. The mind is the biggest erogenous zone. Being dominated, edged, teased, and controlled turns the orgasm into a powerful symbol of submission and obedience. It’s deliciously humiliating, wildly empowering, and utterly addictive. You learn that sometimes the best way to enjoy pleasure is to give up control and let someone else decide when, how, and if you get to orgasm.

So, if you think all orgasms are created equal, think again. Coerced, ruined, and delayed orgasms after edging are the Mistress’s secret arsenal—a blend of cruelty and care that makes pleasure a breathtaking, unforgettable experience. They’re not just stronger; they’re the ultimate proof that when control is in the right hands, even pain and denial can become pure, unadulterated ecstasy.

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I love controlling your orgasm, my my my. Look at you, poor little thing. I notice that you are so ready to empty your balls. Look at them, full and enlarged, lol. But I didn’t give you permission to cum now, did I? And if you are not aware of this, you need to ask for my permission to cum.

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I’m sure pretty much everybody has had a ruined orgasm at some point in the liirfe-whether intentional or not-but have you ever had a coerced orgasm? Or, better yet; multiple coerced orgasms in a row?

We hear all the time that women are multi-orgasmic and men are not but the truth of the matter is, men can be multi-orgasmic too, it just takes a different approach. The key is to involve the biggest sex organ- your brain! Well, that and also vary the sensory stimulation.

It isn’t always easy to listen to the brain when your horny and looking for that release but it is exponentially harder to listen to the brain immediately after an orgasm. For this reason, most men never even try to go further to see if they can have multiple orgasms. It’s simple, really.

The “I got that release so now I can move on” attitude coupled with the “It hurts to keep stroking” mindset create the perfect storm to wash thoughts of second orgasm right out to sea. Maybe you’ve thought about it when you weren’t horny and/or right up until the split second your orgasm but have you ever thought about a second orgasm immediately after the first?

Ruined orgasms tend to have negative connotations associated with it but honestly, when done intentionally-particularly after long bouts of denial or after a long orgasm edging or gooning session, a ruined orgasm can be quite exciting. It does still require a measure of self control or quite simply, obedience to your Femdom Mistress, to actually follow through on ruining your orgasm. It goes against all natural instincts. It also takes a good bit of practice to find exactly where the abandonment sweet spot.

Even on their own, without the continuing on to coerced orgasm(s), coerced orgasms, ruined orgasms are a good form of tease and delay. As a Mindfuckery Mistress, I enjoy making my submissives beg me to ruin their orgasm even as every fiber of their being wants that explosive orgasm they have been anticipating for so long. It goes against what their brains and bodies are telling them they want but carries the excitement of giving that control to someone else which is another reason the ensuing ruined orgasm turns out to be more exciting than you expected it to be.

That is not to say intentional ruined orgasms are everybody’s cup of tea but everybody should experience an intentional ruined orgasm at least once because far more actually enjoy the experience than don’t. A ruined orgasm is also a good way for wannabe cum eaters who lose their desire out at the moment of orgasm to still be turned on enough that they don’t fully lose the desire to eat their cum. Cum eating is a whole other topic- albeit one I enjoy as you’ll see when you go check out cumeatingfantasies.com.

As I mentioned, they can be, with practice and the proper mindset. Before you have your next orgasm, start changing your mindset from a “one and done” to “how many orgasms in a row can I have?

When you next have an orgasm, ruin it. Completely abandon stroking and do not touch again until after that abandoned ejaculate oozes out. Once it stops, massage it into your cock as lube. Here is where you start experimenting with varying pressure and techniques based on sensitivity and excitement levels.

While doing this, use your other hand to stimulate other parts of your body to both take your attention away from the sensitivity and to help bolster excitement levels. Additionally, you could add anal stimulation or stimulation from a vibrator.

If you’ve tried doing this before and not been successful, you just haven’t found the right formula and if you’ve never tried it before but always wanted to or if you’ve never thought about it until you’ve read this post, give me a call. I am just the right amount of sweet and sensual and strict and demanding, switching between the two as needed, to ensure success.

If you’ve done this before, either on your own or as part of a D/s scenario, it’s always more exciting to switch things up so your body isn’t able to create it’s typical expectation of “what next?” that dulls the sensations simply because everything is anticipated. That, coupled with the fact, that I am unique in my approach sensual/strict, sweet/demanding approach so you never know which of those to expect have made for many off-the-charts exciting orgasm control sessions.

    Click the image to hear Mistress Hunter’s Instructions for you

Ready to give me a call and find out firsthand how good a ruined orgasm followed by coerced orgasms can be?

Until then~

Your Intelligent Fantasies Mistress

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I hear you, strokers, begging and pleading to cum and cum and cum. I get it, you’re horny! But, hold on just a little bit longer and then all your please will be answered. The 2026 Stroke-A-Thon is here, and you’ve been unwittingly training for it all along, with your denial and delay and learning to hold off just a little longer. Are you ready for the big event? The time to make sure you’ve got all your Stroke-A-Thon preparation on lock is here!

Here’s what you need to know to get ready for the Stroke-A-Thon. The big event is on May 23, 2026 at 8 pm Eastern, and takes place in the Enchantrix Empire Discord server. To join you’ll need to either do a thirty minute session with one of the FIFTEEN participating Mistresses, or purchase the ticket to the Stroke-A-Thon in our Assignment Store. From there, you’ll want to email our [email protected] to let them know the time, date, and name of the Mistress you sessioned with, and that you’d like to join the fun! Yes, you do need a Discord account, but they’re free to make, so what’s holding you back? You have until midnight, Eastern time, on May 22, 2026 to get yourself in, but you’d better train hard in the meanwhile.

In a private space in the Enchantrix Empire Discord server you’ll be instructed to touch, stroke, rub, and, yes, CUM. That’s the game, fellas. I know, usually you’re begging to be allowed to cum for us, but in this game, you’ll be trying to hold out despite everything these fifteen talented Mistresses can throw at you. It’s our job to make you erupt, and your job to try to resist with all your might. Right up to the end, after all fifteen of us have had a chance to try to make you loose control over yourselves, at which point the game suddenly changes. If there are multiple strokers who make it to the end, we enter ‘Sudden Cum Off’, and the first person to cum wins.

The Stroke-A-Thon is all about finding out how well you can control your own orgasm. This means you need to practice and prepare ahead of time. A lot of our denial and delay fans are really not in the habit of disobeying their Mistress. We’re usually telling you ‘no, not yet, wait a little longer’. This event flips that script on its head! We’ll be begging YOU to cum for us, and you’ll have to resist for as long as you can. The Stroke-A-Thon is so much fun for everyone. Think of it as a massive group session with fifteen Mistresses all commanding that you cum, and cum NOW, while you stroke that cock and work the head and generally masturbate right up to the edge.

Keep an eye out in the Erotic Audio Store, because the Ladies are working on training audios for you to enjoy. Collect all the Stroke-A-Thon Training audios and make a playlist, and then we’ll see how long it takes for you to pop like a champagne cork! Arrange some pass the penis sessions with us, and train for the Stroke-A-Thon with us. At least this time, you know the answer to ‘May I cum?’ is going to be ‘YES’. Will you obey?

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When you think of cock control, what do you think of? I think of it as sensual surrender, where you feel that simmering desire for hours. You know what I’m talking about, don’t you? That simmering heat in your groin, the way your cock twitches with a mind of its own when you’re idle. You know the excitement isn’t just about the finish line, it’s about the torment of the race itself. I love playing orgasm edging games. When you appreciate the art of the tease, then you’re in the right place!

Let’s begin with this. Wrap your fingers around the base of that cock and squeeze. You ‘can’ stroke but only about an inch of the shaft, stay at the base, and feel the buildup of your erection. Savor the weight, appreciate the fullness. Explore with your fingertips, rather than frantically stroking.

Let’s talk about the frenulum – that spot on the underside of the penis – where the foreskin intersects with the head. I call this the sweet spot because whew it feels so good. Rub that spot with the tips of 2 fingers. Now pinch it (not for pain, for sensation). Try various sensations right on that area. I like the pinch and twist move. When you do this with fingers slippery with lube your finger tips naturally slide off when you twist ‘too far’ and it’s a delicious feeling. So sensual, so erotic, and yes even frustrating.

Slow down your breathing. Sync your breathing with the rhythm of your touch. As you inhale, slide your grip up your shaft. Let the tension build. As you exhale slide down. Experiment with this move. Start with pacing with your breath and then experiment with speeding up your stroking. For example, Do 2 up/down strokes on the inhale, pause and then 2 up/down strokes on the exhale. The key to this move is to make you slow down and savor the sensations.

My jerk off instructions will always have you stroking in ways to make your balls full, heavy and tight. Feel that? It’s the undeniable urge to thrust, to speed up, to chase the inevitable. That is the moment of truth. That is the edge. And I’m telling you to step back from the edge. Slow your hand to a near standstill. Keep just enough pressure to remind you of what you’re holding, but not enough to get to the point of no return.

What is the most edges you’ve ever done in one sitting? I want you to double that number so you experience edging for a long time. You can do this with the number of edge or the length of time edging before release. Choose one and then double your previous effort. Yes, it will be a challenge. But, let’s face it, if it’s easy then it’s boring! I want you to earn the reward of release. Your ability to deny yourself, because I have asked you to, is the ultimate act of devotion. Cock control is a form of devotion.

Take your hand away from that cock. Notice how it’s standing alone, throbbing, leaking pre cum, and twitching with need. Feel the delicious frustration, the buzzy energy coursing through your body. Focus and breathe. Really savor the sensations as you feel your cum building and building and building. This is called riding the edge of orgasm and it can become addictive in the best kinds of ways!

Well, of course you do! I mean, you’ve just edged for a long time. You ‘will’ get a reward, I promise, but first I want you to click on this erotic audio with your final instructions. Remember, it might not be the reward you want but I know what you really need in order to have an unforgettable orgasm!

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In order to really have a good time with my subbies and generate multiple orgasms, I want to decrease the refractory period- that pesky period between orgasm and their next erection. And just so you know- it’s not just men who have a refractory period- all humans do. It’s just part the human sexual experience- but that doesn’t mean we can’t play with it a bit. And luckily for the ladies, our refractory periods are much shorter than our masculine counterparts. So, what’s really happening during the refractory period? Well according to Male Excel, in an article entitled “What Exactly Is the Refractory Period, And Can You Minimize It?“, the release of our feel-good hormones like serotonin and oxytocin block the nerves of the penis from experiencing another erection. But let’s get to the good stuff- how do we make this period as short as possible, so I can play cock control games with my boy toy once again?

Testosterone, which aids erections, can also reduce post orgasm. Men high in testosterone are likely to have a shorter refractory time, so balancing your hormones could help, especially as we age. Age does tend to influence the refractory period in a negative manner, and our hormones can become unbalanced with age. I have a girlfriend who tests her hormones and she is actually on testosterone because her levels are low. She loves it and says she has so much more energy overall now that she takes it, so there are more health benefits than just a shorter refractory period.

People with higher sex drives recover more easily, as well as people who are very aroused. Many times when people are playing with me genuinely become surprised at the shortening of their typical refractory period, but heres the thing: I make literal fantasies come true. Now I am vain as fuck, thats true, but even I dont think its simply because I am a sex goddess (though I am)- its because people are able to stop pretending and fulfill their authentic sexual fantasies with me. They dont have to pretend, they can be soft and allow the parts of them they hide from others be witnessed. And that is wildly sexually exciting to most, so they are more excited, more responsive, and more aroused- all of which leads to a shorter refractory period.

Your general physical health can greatly impact your refractory period, especially your heart health. Staying fit and healthy is one of the best ways you can shorten the refractory period. Anything you can do to support your heart health and cardiovascular system is good to shorten the refractory period. Ensure you are eating well, that you are well hydrated, and that you exercise- all these factors can shorten or lengthen the refractory time. Additionally, drinking alcohol is a great way to lengthen your refractory time, as well as give you some performance issues.

Just as we see with physical health, our mental health can impact our libido. Not only do many of the medications people may take to control the symptoms of anxiety and depression- or any other number of conditions people face- the actual neurochemicals associated with them can also inhibit erections. Stress management, mindfulness techniques, meditation, somatic techniques to drop you into your body to process anxiety- all these are excellent tools for reducing the refractory period. After sex, some people can experience post sex blues- people report feelings of anxiety, guilt, shame, etc that can really negatively impact their mood- and for sure impacts their ability to experience arousal. Having an arsenal of tools that you can use to combat the post nut blues can really help- from positive self talk to affirmations to breathing exercises and more. Using these tools will support both your mood and your ability to shorten the refractory period.

Now of course if you are having problems with a really long or intrusive refractory period, you can explore ED meds with your doctor. Though there is no medication specifically prescribed to shorten the refractory period, that is a side effect noted by many people who take them.

By squeezing your pelvic muscles, you can prevent the release of semen. The orgasm actually occurs before the release of semen, and if you work your pelvic muscles, and with some practice, you can have multiple orgasms in a row with NO refractory period.

You can have multiple orgasms with prostate orgasms, as it happens. The orgasms tend to be more intense, stronger, and more frequent than a penile orgasm… which sounds fun, right? But you don’t have to listen to little old me- hear it directly from the men who have experienced prostate milking (CLICK HERE).

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There is a reason the phrase controlled orgasm resonates so deeply with you. It isn’t just a kink, a fantasy, or a passing curiosity—it is a mindset shift. When you ask Mistress Laurel for permission to cum, you are choosing structure over chaos and intention over impulse. You are choosing to place your pleasure into capable, commanding hands. And once you experience that, there is no going back.

A controlled orgasm is not rushed, careless, or accidental. It is deliberate, and it is shaped by anticipation, restraint, and obedience. When you surrender your timing to me, your desire becomes focused instead of scattered. You stop chasing release and start craving approval. That craving is powerful because it connects your pleasure directly to my authority.

Many men believe that being in control means acting whenever they feel the urge. In truth, that is the weakest kind of control. Real discipline is the ability to wait and real devotion is the willingness to ask. And real submission is trusting Mistress Laurel to decide when you are allowed to cum. A controlled orgasm teaches you patience, awareness, and self-mastery through obedience.

When you ask for permission, something important happens mentally. You acknowledge that your pleasure is no longer automatic. It becomes intentional and earned. You recognize that I am guiding the experience—building the tension, slowing the pace, and deciding the moment of release. That is why a controlled orgasm feels so much more intense than anything you give yourself. The anticipation sharpens your senses. The waiting deepens your hunger.

Obeying my commands is what completes the dynamic. When I tell you to stop, to breathe, to wait, or to hold yourself right at the edge, you learn that restraint does not weaken desire—it strengthens it. A controlled orgasm isn’t just about climax. It is about the obedience that leads you there. Every instruction reinforces your role and my control.

And when permission finally comes, it is unmistakable. It doesn’t feel rushed or empty. But it feels deliberate, focused, and deeply satisfying. A controlled orgasm given by Mistress Laurel carries meaning because it is granted, not taken. Your body responds differently when release is earned through obedience rather than seized through impulse.

There is also accountability in asking permission. You become aware of your urges instead of being ruled by them. And you learn to pause before acting. You learn to listen closely. Over time, you realize that obedience heightens pleasure instead of limiting it. This is why men who experience a controlled orgasm often crave that structure again and again.

Mistress Laurel doesn’t take control away from you—I refine it. I help you understand how intoxicating it feels to follow instructions, to wait patiently, and to trust my guidance. When you ask for permission, you are saying you want more than release. You want direction and you want structure and you want connection.

A controlled orgasm also builds intimacy. It creates a shared moment of trust where anticipation and obedience intertwine. You are not alone in your pleasure—you are guided through it. That guidance makes the experience linger long after it ends. Your mind remembers the waiting and your body remembers the discipline.

Asking for permission changes the way you think about desire. You stop treating it as something urgent and start treating it as something valuable. Also, you learn that pleasure is richer when it is delayed, directed, and earned. A controlled orgasm becomes a symbol of trust, patience, and surrender done right.

Mistress Laurel doesn’t rush you. I don’t tease without purpose. I don’t give permission lightly. Every command, every pause, every moment of waiting is intentional. Obedience isn’t about loss—it’s about focus. And focus is what makes pleasure powerful.

A controlled orgasm is the ultimate blend of desire and discipline. It is surrender without shame and obedience without fear. And obedience—true obedience—is how you show that you are ready.

If you’re ready to stop rushing and start listening, you already know what to do.

Ask.
Wait.
Obey.

Until Later Mistress Laurel, signing off.

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Hi, guys, are you familiar with Pass The Penis? If so, you already know how much fun it can be! If not, allow me a moment to explain.

Pass The Penis is an exciting game that originated here at LDW (as far as I know!) that we Masturbatrixes enjoy playing with guys just like you.

Essentially, Pass The Penis is an extended orgasm edging game. What we do is pass you around among multiple Mistresses. Each one uses her own methods to edge you. Before you begin your game of Pass The Penis, you and the dispatcher set it up together. You tell the nice dispatcher how many Mistresses you’d like to play with. You can choose as many or as few as you like, though three is usually considered the minimum. Then, you can decide in which order you’d like to speak with these ladies, or the dispatcher can choose the order for you.

Once you’ve determined all this preliminary stuff, then the dispatcher will send you to your first Mistress. You’ll tell this Mistress that you want to play Pass The Penis, and the game will begin!

Now, Pass The Penis is, as I mentioned before, an edging game. That also means it’s necessarily an orgasm control game, too. You are not allowed to cum while you’re in the middle of the game. You must hold back your orgasm by whatever means necessary while you’re talking to the first Mistress(es).

However, when you get to the last Mistress in your game, it becomes a game of chance, too. Will she let you cum to end your bout of Pass The Penis? Or will she deny you and leave you to stew in your own blue balls, lol? It all depends on who you talk to and what she thinks you need most.

Some ladies are very kind. They’ll let you cum every time. Others are very strict and won’t let you cum at the end, no matter how many times you play. Most are like me, though. We choose whether or not you get to cum based on a number of things; for instance, the vibes of the game, how obedient you’ve been so far, what we think you need, or just what kind of mood we happen to be in.

Personally, I love playing Pass The Penis. And as far as I know, all the ladies here do! But what I like most is being the last Mistress through whose hands your cock passes. It’s fun being one of the edging Mistresses in the middle, sure. But it’s even more fun being the one who holds your orgasm in her hands!

I know that when I’m the last Mistress, you’ve probably been through it before you got to me. You’ve demonstrated an immense amount of control over yourself and your cock. And that means a lot, honestly. Self-discipline is a good virtue to cultivate, after all. And your obedience at not cumming without permission also tips the scales a little bit in your favor when it comes to whether I let you cum or not.

But in the end, the age-old question of “May I cum?” boils down to how I feel. If I don’t feel strongly either way, I may flip a coin to decide. We’ll leave it up to the Universe to choose if you cum or not. But usually, I do feel strongly one way or the other. And which way I lean will determine your ultimate fate in this game of Pass The Penis.

Want to play? Excellent! Give some of the other LDW ladies and me a call to begin your game. You won’t regret it!

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I know it may seem like I’m answering the perennial question here by giving you cum eating tips on the May I Cum? blog. But I promise that you may or may not actually get to finish yourself off by the end of this post. I just like the idea that if you get to cum, you’ll be prepared to properly lick up your mess like the good, eager slut that you are. Not a slut? Well, I can fix that, too. Keep reading to learn how to get past the aversion that is so common, and prevents so many stroker sluts from proving their ultimate obedience.

If we start from the assumption that you’re a good, obedient, slutty stroker, and then go from there, then it follows that you would want to obey your Mistress, stroke until your brain stops working, and then lick up your cum (if you’re allowed to spurt) at the end. I mean, that’s obvious. Of course a good gooner stroke slut wants to clean up their mess! But a lot of supposedly ‘good gooner stroke sluts’ just don’t quite manage to finish off every drip of their load. An aversion to eating cum is common, so much so that cum eating training is often very focused on helping people get past said aversion! So here’s my top three methods to bring you beyond the ‘yuck’ and into the ‘Thank you, Mistress, I love it’. Grab your cum eating affirmations and try some of these tips today.

As with many cum eating tips, this one starts with a little preparation ahead of time. You’ll need a plate, and some honey. Drizzle your honey onto your plate, and when you finally get to stop edging and gooning, cum onto your sweetened plate! Lick up every drop of your brand new salty/sweet treat. Along the same line, when you’re trying to eat your own cum, try adding it to something. Yogurt is a good choice, because it’s already got a strong taste and looks very similar to a puddle of jizz, but you can add a little ‘extra seasoning’ to pretty much anything. Try smearing your load on some toast, and eating it that way!

If your post orgasmic aversion is too strong to overcome, try skipping the ‘post’ part of the equation! Save a load by masturbating yourself into a ziplock baggie, and storing it in the freezer or your fridge. When you’re ready to masturbate again, prepare your saved load by floating it in a mug of warm water, and then, as you edge and stroke and goon yourself stupid, lick up your load like the cum drunk slut you yearn to be. Try scooping it up on your fingertips, dipping a dildo into it and sucking a real cock flavored silicone dick, or using something to replicate a Fun Dip experience (biscotti, mini carrots, cookies, or something else yummy you can dip and enjoy your salty treat on.) If you eat a load before you cum, it still counts as cum eating!

The last, and best, tip for cum eating I have is to reach out for some help! If you need the firm guiding hand of your Femdom Mistress to help you follow through with your cum eating aspirations, there’s no shame in that! Get her to help you bow your head and lap up your mess. Think of it as a good bonding exercise between you and your Mistress; she gets to encourage you to obey and submit, and you get to be encouraged, and, of course, you get to obey, submit, and eat your cum by following her cum eating instructions. There really is nothing better than playing dirty kinky fun games with someone else, so, pick up your phone and contact your Mistress today. If you beg to eat your cum, at least you know you’ll likely get to actually cum! Otherwise you’re stuck still asking “Mistress, may I cum?!”

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Some people may not think that a guy stroking is really that submissive. There are, after all, plenty of articles about how to prevent it with things like male chastity and such.

But I’m one of those people who’s inclined to think a bit differently. I think a stroker can be a very submissive sort of guy. I believe if you enjoy taking jerk-off instructions (JOI) from a Mistress, you probably qualify as submissive.

I think guided masturbation was made for subs. A dominant man–or even most vanilla men–are not going to listen to someone else tell them how to stroke their dicks! They’re going to want to be the ones in charge of the hows and the whens. But a submissive guy? Oh, he’s going to absolutely love being told how to do his stroking for his Mistress.

He’ll say, “You mean, I get to do something to please my Mistress, not have to make any decisions, follow instructions, and also get off? Could there be anything better than this?”

Nobody but a submissive man is going to have that reaction to someone else controlling his stroking!

Of course, when I run into a submissive guy who’s interested in having his stroking directed, I have to tease him. I can’t help myself! It’s just a natural reaction on my part when I’m faced with a sub. He’s submissive; therefore, I have to tease him. It’s a universal law. I have no control over it.

So I’ll tease and tease for a while before I ever even let him take his cock out and start stroking. Then, when I finally do let him, I incorporate even more teasing by edging him a lot. I love driving him all the way to the edge and then backing off. It makes his orgasm better, and his reaction when he has to take his hand off his cock makes me chuckle a bit every time.

When I play with a sub who enjoys guided masturbation, I like to try to do something a little different every now and then. It’s fun to give him a taste of something he’s never done before. Of course, I can’t do that during every session, but I like to do it regularly enough that it keeps him on his toes.

This can include things like temporary chastity between stroking sessions, a little light CBT for those inclined toward masochism, cum eating for the really naughty, etc. It doesn’t really matter what I choose, as long as it’s something he’s never tried. I think that shaking things up makes a stroking routine much more interesting and sexy!

Plus, this just plays into the inherent submissiveness of a stroker. If he weren’t submissive, he probably wouldn’t find anything exciting about trying new things while getting off. He’d just want to do the same thing that he always does because it’s guaranteed to work. But a sub is much more adventurous than that when he’s in the hands of a capable Mistress like me.

So if you’re both submissive and into stroking for me, I’ve got a little assignment for you. I want you to do for yourself what I often do for my subs who call me. I want you to try something different when you’re stroking next time. It can be something as simple as just jacking off with your non-dominant hand. Or it can be something much more complex. It doesn’t matter what you choose, as long as it’s something you’ve never done. Then, I want you to report back to me, via phone or blog comment, how it went.

Think you can handle that for me? I feel certain you can. So go forth and try new things for Ms. Kay Marie!

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