Some people may not think that a guy stroking is really that submissive. There are, after all, plenty of articles about how to prevent it with things like male chastity and such.

But I’m one of those people who’s inclined to think a bit differently. I think a stroker can be a very submissive sort of guy. I believe if you enjoy taking jerk-off instructions (JOI) from a Mistress, you probably qualify as submissive.

I think guided masturbation was made for subs. A dominant man–or even most vanilla men–are not going to listen to someone else tell them how to stroke their dicks! They’re going to want to be the ones in charge of the hows and the whens. But a submissive guy? Oh, he’s going to absolutely love being told how to do his stroking for his Mistress.

He’ll say, “You mean, I get to do something to please my Mistress, not have to make any decisions, follow instructions, and also get off? Could there be anything better than this?”

Nobody but a submissive man is going to have that reaction to someone else controlling his stroking!

Of course, when I run into a submissive guy who’s interested in having his stroking directed, I have to tease him. I can’t help myself! It’s just a natural reaction on my part when I’m faced with a sub. He’s submissive; therefore, I have to tease him. It’s a universal law. I have no control over it.

So I’ll tease and tease for a while before I ever even let him take his cock out and start stroking. Then, when I finally do let him, I incorporate even more teasing by edging him a lot. I love driving him all the way to the edge and then backing off. It makes his orgasm better, and his reaction when he has to take his hand off his cock makes me chuckle a bit every time.

When I play with a sub who enjoys guided masturbation, I like to try to do something a little different every now and then. It’s fun to give him a taste of something he’s never done before. Of course, I can’t do that during every session, but I like to do it regularly enough that it keeps him on his toes.

This can include things like temporary chastity between stroking sessions, a little light CBT for those inclined toward masochism, cum eating for the really naughty, etc. It doesn’t really matter what I choose, as long as it’s something he’s never tried. I think that shaking things up makes a stroking routine much more interesting and sexy!

Plus, this just plays into the inherent submissiveness of a stroker. If he weren’t submissive, he probably wouldn’t find anything exciting about trying new things while getting off. He’d just want to do the same thing that he always does because it’s guaranteed to work. But a sub is much more adventurous than that when he’s in the hands of a capable Mistress like me.

So if you’re both submissive and into stroking for me, I’ve got a little assignment for you. I want you to do for yourself what I often do for my subs who call me. I want you to try something different when you’re stroking next time. It can be something as simple as just jacking off with your non-dominant hand. Or it can be something much more complex. It doesn’t matter what you choose, as long as it’s something you’ve never done. Then, I want you to report back to me, via phone or blog comment, how it went.

Think you can handle that for me? I feel certain you can. So go forth and try new things for Ms. Kay Marie!

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