Discovery of the moment or moments that allow you to express yourself emotionally & physically are never planned. It’s more of a click of nature that’s turned on inside of you. We live our lives full of exploration & attraction to self & others and that is a fundamental part of evolving to find comfort & confidence in our own skin. Dancer from the Dance takes you up & away in the drama of coming out , living your gayest life & most of all finding love , it’s all about LOVE!

Time is of the essence… & don’t you forget it! Gifts come with grace & when they are shared with love & trust the rest is simple. All involved can really enjoy the fruits of building something new together & when honesty becomes woven into a situation a foundation forms. As we dive in deeper into the fictional world of Dancer from the Dance, Sutherland schools the newbie as she reigns court in the club & the moment Malone makes his entrance under the disco light …the lust is instant, the desire is electric & one by one they all wanna SWALLOW him up in the darkness of the sex fueled halls & stalls!

The Ferry awaits so grab ahold of your clutch & pearls … all aboard to Fire Island ! Andrew Hollerans’ 1978 novel Dancer from the Dance is a tale of gay men celebrating the summers on Fire Island & will take you to the edge of the dance floor ! The land of the Loss & where Legends were born it was a time to LOVE & LIVE!

You can’t dance at every ball! Don’t be so hard on yourself I tell ya! The coffee gon’ brew another day boo! For the record the list of dos as a parent can be so daunting & having an insouciant child makes it even harder! Let’s take a minute & get lost in a book together, the meet up at Bootsies Book Club & Such has a seat just for you!

A message in a bottle Mary… say what? A lemonade in the shade on Barbie Island … sign me up! Brad & a side of TEA & ME ? Yes Mamah ! What a KIKI it has been this season COCOPUFFS & you’ve kept up with all the checks & balances in the Queendom of COCOISM! As we wrap season one of the ISM don’t you forget that on this planet of too many things let’s blow a kiss & be too many things together! The block stay hot & season 2 is cooking, can you handle it … I don’t know!

From codependency to setting ourselves free from entangled relationships, it’s really contrast & complacency at work here. Are we this or that ? In whatever capacity we place ourselves in a relationship, how do we tame one or the other or simply shift our reactions & behaviors? To recognize who we are & become self-aware of how we play a role in this is a step of many steps in healing & protecting our being from emotional harm. Give your shift purpose & make the most important thing you have YOU!

As summer continues to unfold the moods stay shifting in the wind. I’m left asking myself, Am I the Drama? Behold the uncertainty of today & brace yourself for what’s next. Pull up them chaps & tighten that corset like never before because we must lean into our boundaries more than ever right now. Our environment is our teacher & clarity is brought to each of us by the flexibility we give ourselves in every moment.

Escapes can bring in the least expected sometimes like Brad Pitt speeding so fast my eyes watered & my wig went flying! Shifting perspective on relationships & taking initiative in the part you play can change everything. Only we can change how we see a situation, person & relationship right? You’re never going to know until you make your move & allow the narrative to switch. You can wake it up!

Welcome Tiffany Totah marriage & family therapist. A woman who transcends boundaries & embodies life in a way that gives insight on how we can navigate ourselves on the journey we are on! At times guardrails are needed to help us with our balance in life’s choices. Building resilience comes in many ways & having a support team led by trust, love & fearlessness will get us to a place of letting the guardrails come down at the right moment.

2 most wanted Coco & Boots revvin’ past the red lights, bound for a limitless route to curious conceptual creativity. Blowing bubbles into the sky we float through the cosmics bursting with wonder & kaleidoscope dreams.… Can you imagine that?