In this episode, hosts Fatima, Grace and Liz sit down with Tomika Rayford, a symbol of resilience and hope from Selma, Alabama. Tomika shares her experiences battling kidney failure and type 2 diabetes, and how holistic healing transformed her life. The discussion highlights the significance of self-trust, purposeful living, and proactive health management. She introduces her upcoming book, 'How the Decision to Die Saved My Life' and her community initiatives in Selma, Alabama.
This conversation delves into personal growth, overcoming trauma, and the importance of self-consideration amidst life's challenges. Enjoy.
03:42 Tomika's Early Life and Friendship with Fatima
07:07 Facing End-Stage Renal Disease: Choosing Life Without Dialysis
12:30 The Emotions Around the Decision
14:37 Eliminating Animal Protein
17:06 Diabetes Diagnosis and Dietary Changes
19:02 More on Kidney Failure
20:07 Exisiting vs. Living
21:26 Reflecting on Childhood, Parentification
26:19 Realizing Self-worth and Value
29:17 Recognizing Your Own Needs
31:29 Deciding to Never Marry or Have Children
34:49 Reflections on Writing Her Book
37:30 Relationships with Parents
42:13 COVID-19 and the Path to Holistic Health
48:37 Circadian Rhythm and Our Bodies
51:38 The Misconception of Breakfast
53:18 Evening Digestive Processes
54:51 Personal Journey with Obesity
56:00 Liver Diagnosis and Decision to Stop Medication
59:26 Discovering a Broken Spine
01:03:41 Connecting to a Past Injury
01:09:53 Progression Therapy
01:12:37 Black Womens’ Reproductive Health and Diet
01:17:55 The Industrialization of Food and Its Effects
01:21:15 The Food Desert Dilemma
01:23:02 Trusting Yourself and Your Journey
01:25:07 Obedience as a Superpower
01:33:20 Upcoming Book and Final Thoughts
01:38:20 Community Initiatives in Selma
01:39:43 Gratitude and Call to Action
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Today's show was edited by our co-host Grace Chung.