Coffee & Counseling: with Cherlette & Cristina

Welcome to Coffee and Counseling Podcast with your hosts Cherlette McCullough and Cristina Ally. We have a great show for you today. Today we are talking about Hypnotherapy. What is Hypnotherapy? Is it effective? Is it covered by insurance? These are the questions we will be answering for you during this show. Today we have two special guests who we will be interviewing to help us give you answers to these questions. On today’s show we will take you along with us for an interview with Jesse Lyon, MS, LMHC, and Ernest Strain, MS, LMHC, NCC.

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Jesse Lyon, MS, LMHC - Contact Info

https://lyoncounseling.care

(321) 430-5966

[email protected]

Instagram: @lyonmentalhealth

Ernest Strain, MS, LMHC, NCC - Contact Info

www.hdcounseling.com/

 (863) 582-5735 

Trauma-Focused Hypnotherapy 

www.traumafocusedhypnotherapy.com 

Instagram: @traumafocusedhynotherapy

Contact Us

• If you would like to reach Cherlette directly you can visit her website at www.cherlettemccullough.com.
• If you would like to reach Cristina directly you can visit her website at www.cristinaally.com.
• Feel free to reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know how you were impacted by this episode!
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Welcome to Coffee and Counseling Podcast with your hosts Cherlette McCullough and Cristina Ally. We have a  VERY SPECIAL show for you today! On April 19, 2020, at 2 PM, Cherlette and I were able to host or first LIVE Mental Health Chat to our listeners. During this chat, we were able to connect with YOU and hear about how you are navigating COVID and the changes we have experienced. If you were able to join us, let this episode serve as a great reminder of some of the valuable things we discussed. If you didn’t get a chance to join us, well listen in! We had some great discussions about mental health at a time like this. Some of the questions we discuss is how have adjustments been beneficial for you? Is our nation actually ready to release the quarantine orders? What are you doing that is working for you to stay mentally and emotionally well? And what are some of those free resources out there to get us moving and taking care of ourselves at a time like this? These are just a few of the questions we got to discuss today. So, if you’re ready for a great show, LET’s get started!....... 

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FREE Resources

• Laura’s LIVE Events - www.vitalessencebodyworks.com 
• iCeeFitness - weekly FREE LIVE workouts!- https://www.facebook.com/CeeTheTrainer/

Contact Us

• If you would like to reach Cherlette directly you can visit her website at www.cherlettemccullough.com.
• If you would like to reach Cristina directly you can visit her website at www.cristinaally.com.
• Feel free to reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know how you were impacted by this episode!
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Welcome to Coffee and Counseling Podcast with your hosts Cherlette McCullough and Cristina Ally. We have a  VERY SPECIAL show for you today! On April 5, 2020, at 2 PM, Cherlette and I were able to host or first LIVE Mental Health Chat to our listeners. During this chat, we were able to connect with YOU and hear about how you are navigating COVID and the changes we have experienced. If you were able to join us, let this episode serve as a great reminder of some of the valuable things we discussed. If you didn’t get a chance to join us, well listen in! We had some great discussions about mental health at a time like this. Some of the questions we discuss are how is this impact introverts versus extroverts? Should I get dressed every day? What's the value of touch? And why do we need other people in or lives to feel good, connected and satisfied? These are just a few of the questions we got to discuss today. So, if you’re ready for a great show, LET’s get started!.....

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Resources

• Laura’s LIVE Events link
• Follow @vitalessencebodyworks on Instagram for more virtual gathering options!

Contact Us

• If you would like to reach Cherlette directly you can visit her website at www.cherlettemccullough.com.
• If you would like to reach Cristina directly you can visit her website at www.cristinaally.com.
• Feel free to reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know how you were impacted by this episode!
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Welcome to Coffee and Counseling with your hosts Cherlette McCullough and Cristina Ally. We have a great show for you today. By listening to this Season 2 Trailer, you’ll have a great idea of what to expect this upcoming season and feel even more connected to us as your awesome podcast hosts as we share both professional and personal updates! 

Our favorite resources for this episode:

• M A C Lipstick Heroine
• M A C Lipstick Ruby Woo
• M A C Lipstick Taupe (Nude)
• Our Instagram: @coffeecounseling (not @coffeecounsel :] )
• Studio 17 Collab friends: @studio17podcasts 
• Patreon: Support us on a monthly basis at: www.patreon.com/coffeeandcounseling 
• Facebook page: Join our FREE Online Community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2055141668124524/
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Contact Us

• Instagram: @coffeecounseling
• Twitter: @coffeecounsel
• Facebook: “Coffee & Counseling Podcast” Public Group 
•  If you would like to reach Cherlette directly you can visit her website at www.cherlettemccullough.com.
• If you would like to reach Cristina directly you can visit her website at www.cristinaally.com.
• Email: [email protected] - let us know how you were impacted by this episode!
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Welcome to Coffee and Counseling with your hosts Cherlette McCullough and Cristina Ally. We have a great show for you today. Today we are talking about toxic relationships. While no relationship is picture perfect, whether its family, romantic or business it could be TOXIC. But for the most part, a good relationship should make you feel heard, secure, happy, cared for, respected, and free to be yourself. Toxic relationships are ones that make you feel angry, drained, depleted, and sometimes confused.

So today, we will talk about what a toxic relationship looks like, how to handle a toxic relationship, how to end a toxic relationship, dating after a toxic relationship has ended and more importantly how to take ownership if you are the toxic person in the relationship.  So, if you’re ready for a great show, let’s jump right in!...

Our favorite resources for this episode:

• Support us on a monthly basis at: www.patreon.com/coffeeandcounseling
• Book Suggestion: Toxic People: 10 Ways of Dealing with People Who Make Your Life Miserable
• Book Suggestion: 200 Ways to Love the Body You Have
• Power and Control Wheel - http://www.ncdsv.org/publications_wheel.html
• Ted Talk: Leslie Morgan Steiner “Why Domestic Violence Victims Don’t Leave”
• Book Suggestion: Crazy Love by Leslie Morgan Steiner
• National Center on Domestic and Sexual Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY)

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Contact Us

• If you would like to reach Cherlette directly you can visit her website at www.cherlettemccullough.com.
• If you would like to reach Cristina directly you can visit her website at www.cristinaally.com.
• Feel free to reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know how you were impacted by this episode!
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Welcome to Coffee and Counseling with your hosts Cherlette McCullough and Cristina Ally. We have a great show for you today. Today we are going to talk about SEX. Sex is such a taboo topic however we wanted you to take a  rare peek into what we as clinical therapist feel are some relevant topics when it comes to sex.  Our goal is to give quick tips and tools to help destigmatize sexual differences or sexual preferences and to encourage you o`ur listeners to connect with your own sexual story and desires.

So today, we are going to dive right in and get this hot discussion started. And most importantly we will talk about sexual dysfunctions and desires. So, if you’re ready for a great show, let’s jump right in!

Our favorite resources for this episode:

• The Married Guy’s Guide to Great Sex by Joyce and Clifford Penner
• Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel
• The Gift of Sex: A Guide to Sexual Fulfillment by Joyce and Clifford Penner
• Sexual Anorexia: Overcoming Sexual Self-Hatred by Patrick Carnes
• Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction by Patrick Carnes
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CONTACT US 

• Visit Cherlette's website at www.cherlettemccullough.com.
• Visit Cristina's website at www.cristinaally.com.
• You can also reach us at [email protected] and let us know how you were impacted by this episode!

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Welcome to Coffee and Counseling with your hosts Cherlette McCullough and Cristina Ally. We have a great show for you today. Today we are going to talk about Anger in Women and most importantly we will talk about what steps you can take to begin managing your anger well. So, if you’re ready for a great show, let’s jump right in!

Our favorite resources for this episode:

• ReWind ReWire ReLive Affirmation Journal
• ReWind, ReWire, ReLive Affirmations for your Marriage: Affirmations for your Marriage 

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Connect with us!... 

If you would like to reach Cherlette directly you can reach her at 407-230-4582 for a FREE 10-minute phone consult or for more information. You can also visit her website at www.cherlettemccullough.com.

If you would like to reach Cristina directly you can reach her at 407-630-7529 for a FREE 10-minute phone consult or for more information. You can also visit her website at www.cristinaally.com.

Other ways to connect!... 

• Visit us at www.coffeeandcounseling.org!
• Feel free to reach out to us at [email protected] 
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Welcome to Coffee and Counseling with your hosts Cherlette McCullough and Cristina Ally. We have a great show for you today. Today we are going to talk about The Impacts of Childhood Sexual Abuse and most importantly we will talk about what steps you can take to begin your healing process. So, if you’re ready for a great show, let’s jump right in!

Important Reminder: Please be advised, the content provided in this episode is for psychoeducational purposes only and is not meant to be a substitute for counseling or for the help of a licensed mental health professional in your life.

Our favorite resources for this episode:

• RAINN.org (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network)
• Sexual Abuse Statistics provided by the CDC 
• Victim Service Center (Orlando, Florida area)
• 211.org
• PsychologyToday.com
• Listen to our episode on Season 1, Episode 1: “What to Expect In Your First Therapy Appointment”
• 200 Ways to Love the Body You Have
• The Courage to Heal Book 
• The Courage to Heal Workbook
• The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk
• Trauma and Recovery by Judith Herman
• 101 Trauma-informed Interventions by Linda Curran (for clinicians)

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Additional Sexual Abuse Recovery resources: 

Need help?

Call 800.656.HOPE (4673) to be connected with a trained staff member from a sexual assault service provider in your area.

How does it work?

When you call 800.656.HOPE (4673), you’ll be routed to a local RAINN affiliate organization based on the first six digits of your phone number. Cell phone callers have the option to enter the ZIP code of their current location to more accurately locate the nearest sexual assault service provider. You can also access 24/7 help online by visiting online.rainn.org.

Has your life been impacted by a blended family dynamic? Then this show is for YOU! Talk with experts Cristina Ally, Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Cherlette McCullough, Registered Marriage and Family Therapist Intern, discuss 5 Things You Need to Know About Blended Families, Stepparenting and Communicating with Ex-Spouses. Topics such as what is a blended family, putting intentional effort into your marriage, the importance of communication in a blended family, why blended families fail, why getting help is important for you, how to interact with your ex-spouse and a few tips on how to handle stepparenting.

Here are a few of the resources we mention in the podcast:

• Child’s Bill of Rights Link  
• DivorceCare for Kids
• DivorceCare for Adults
• TED talk: The impact of divorce on children: Tamara D. Afifi
• Listen to our Coffee and Counseling Boundaries episode here!

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What type of boundaries do you have? Mental health experts Cristina Ally & Cherlette McCullough explore the definition of boundaries, why you need them, and the three main types of boundaries. They also review Cloud and Townsend’s Boundary Checklist so you can create change in your relationships. Listen in to learn more about your boundaries!

Book Suggestions

• Boundaries book 
• The Power of Vulnerability book
• Codependent No More book 

Boundaries Checklist

• What are the symptoms? 
• What are the roots? 
• What is the boundary conflict? 
• Who needs to take ownership? 
• What do you need?
• How do you begin?
• Build your skills 

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