Love On Command

Coffee Over Dinner: The High-Value Woman’s First Date Rule


Listen Later

In this episode, I’m breaking down why FaceTime and dinner dates are not enough—and how too many women are unknowingly setting themselves up to be consumed like a buffet instead of being savored like fine dining. I’m walking you through the psychology, the energetics, and the strategy behind holding your value from the very beginning. Because here's the truth: if you're giving him access to all of you too soon—your time, your energy, your body—you're killing the very desire you're trying to build.

We’re talking about setting a standard that says you are high-ticket, high-value, and not everyone gets the privilege of your presence. I'm also diving into the six phases of a relationship, the science behind male attraction, and what actually creates that magnetic pull that keeps him thinking about you long after the date ends.

If you've ever wondered why he pulled back after dinner, why he stopped putting in effort after you gave him your time, or how to cultivate real feminine power without chasing or overgiving—this episode is your blueprint.

Listen in, take notes, and let this be the last time you show up to a first date hoping to be chosen. From now on, you are the one doing the choosing.

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Love On CommandBy Shay Levister

  • 5
  • 5
  • 5
  • 5
  • 5

5

13 ratings


More shows like Love On Command

View all
The School of Greatness by Lewis Howes

The School of Greatness

21,281 Listeners

Love Life With Matthew Hussey by Matthew Hussey

Love Life With Matthew Hussey

2,695 Listeners

Slay Girl Slay by Ashley Leggs

Slay Girl Slay

2,721 Listeners

MINDSET MAGIC & MANIFESTATION Podcast by Mikayla Jai

MINDSET MAGIC & MANIFESTATION Podcast

838 Listeners

Brown Girl Self-Care by Brown Girl Self-Care

Brown Girl Self-Care

1,240 Listeners

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice by Dr. Morgan Anderson

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

1,124 Listeners

Affirmations for Black Girls by Tyra The Creative

Affirmations for Black Girls

1,133 Listeners

Date Yourself Instead by Lyss Boss

Date Yourself Instead

2,356 Listeners

Dating Intentionally by Cloud10

Dating Intentionally

436 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

20,416 Listeners

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women by Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski

Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

595 Listeners

The Sabrina Zohar Show by The Sabrina Zohar Show

The Sabrina Zohar Show

4,705 Listeners

BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko by Margarita Nazarenko

BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko

1,435 Listeners

I Wish You Knew by Adam Lane Smith & Andrey Korikov

I Wish You Knew

45 Listeners