Welcome, beautiful Diva. I’m Shay, and in this episode, we’re diving deep into the truth about love, connection, and the science behind attraction. So many women lie to themselves about what they truly want, but I’m here to tell you—it’s okay to admit you desire love, marriage, and your soulmate. You were already created as a wife, and when the right man finds you, he finds a prize.

I’ll guide you through the phases of attraction and courting, explain how oxytocin and vasopressin shape how men and women fall in love, and reveal why timing, discernment, and your feminine energy are everything. This isn’t about playing games—it’s about understanding your power, moving with wisdom, and allowing yourself to receive without guilt.

If you’ve ever wondered why men bond more slowly, why giving too soon sabotages your relationships, or why successful men crave women who let them provide, this episode will transform how you see love forever.

Ladies, let me learn you something—because this right here will save you from years of heartache. In today’s episode, I’m breaking down exactly how you know if a man is who he really says he is. And let me tell you, it’s not about what comes out of his mouth—it’s about time and tests. That’s called vetting, and baby, you can’t rush it.

We’re diving into the science of bonding hormones, why men lose interest after sex too soon, and how your unhealed childhood wounds might be making you a magnet for the wrong type of man. I’m going to teach you why men can spot your insecurities faster than you can, and how to shift your vibration so you no longer attract low-level, Build-a-Bear type relationships.

This episode is about reclaiming your power in love. No more rushing. No more ignoring red flags. No more being easy prey. I’ll show you how to create a game plan, put men through the right kind of tests, and stand in your worth like the high-value woman you are.

So grab your journal, lean in, and let’s talk about how you can truly discern a man’s intentions and protect your heart while still being open to love.

Ladies… have you noticed what’s happening in the dating world right now? More ghosting. More men expecting you to prove yourself. More “build-a-bears” walking around wanting to be earned instead of stepping up as providers. It’s not just you — the dating game has shifted, and not in your favor. But here’s the truth...

I used to get played — lied to, cheated on, even ended up marrying a man who wasn’t even legally single. I went from heartbreak to heartbreak, found myself homeless with a child, and realized I was stuck in the same generational cycles my mother and grandmother went through. So I made a promise to my daughter: I would break the pattern. And I did.

In this episode, I share how I went from being overlooked to deeply valued — from men disappearing on me to men showing up with cars, homes, and real commitment — and I didn’t have to compromise my values or give away anything sacred to receive it.

I’ll walk you through the science of attraction, the six core needs of a man, and the top mistake so many strong women make: choosing from a place of pain rather than power.

If you’re tired of being stuck, confused, or playing small in love — this episode will help you shift. The dating world has changed, but you can change your experience with strategy, healing, and a deep sense of self-worth.

Let me show you how.

I used to believe that once I hit a certain financial milestone—once I made that million dollars in a single month—I’d feel on top of the world. But when I got there, the high never came. Instead, I found myself sitting in a dark, hollow space wondering… what is all of this really for? That moment forced me to reevaluate everything.

Then I received an email from one of my most difficult clients—Deirdre—and her story pulled me straight out of that darkness. She had been living in pain, disconnected from her children, surrounded by clutter, and preparing for death. And through our work together, she didn’t just shift—she transformed. Her body, her home, her relationships, her entire spirit was renewed. That’s when it hit me: this is what I was put here to do.

In this episode, I open up about the moment I reconnected to my real mission. I share what it means to feel your soulmate approaching, how our choices align—or misalign—with our timelines, and what happens when we hesitate instead of choosing ourselves. This isn’t just about love or success—it’s about honoring the divine timing of your life and refusing to let self-sabotage steal your future.

If you’ve ever felt the pull toward more, if you've felt your soulmate before you've seen him, or if you’ve questioned your path even at your highest moment—this is the episode your soul's been waiting for.

Ma'am… if you don’t know who you are, you’re going to attract love from the lowest version of your story—your trauma, your insecurity, your broken expectations. And then you wonder why the connection drains you.

In today’s episode, I’m breaking down the truth most women were never taught: men are not all the same—and they’re not all in the same stage. Some are stuck in their Knight phase, chasing fun with no vision. Others are Princes, ready to build—but only with the right kind of woman. And then there are Kings… the ones who give, lead, and provide from a place of purpose and healed masculine energy.

I’ll walk you through:

• Why asking for “the bare minimum” is costing you everything

• The energetic mistake women make when choosing partners

• The difference between a man who’s ready and a man who’s comfortable

• How your nervous system might still be wired for men who keep you guessing

• What it really takes to attract a man who wants to give you the castle, not just visit yours

If you're tired of dating men who say all the right things but show up with the wrong energy… this is the conversation your heart has been waiting for.

Press play—and let’s recalibrate your standards, your energy, and your love life.

Ladies… let me talk to you real quick.

If you’ve ever found yourself falling too fast, getting attached to a few sweet words and a little chemistry, and then wondering why he disappears, this episode is your wake-up call.

I’m breaking down the science behind why you bond before he even begins to care, and why that keeps putting you in relationships where you overgive, overthink, and end up overlooked.

You’re not crazy. You’re not needy. You’re wired to fall fast — but you were never taught how to date from your feminine power.

In this episode, I’m going to show you the energetic and biochemical traps that most high-achieving, heart-centered women fall into — and how to recalibrate your dating approach so you’re no longer drawn to men who drain you.

We’re talking:

• Masculine vs. feminized men (and how to spot the difference fast)

• Why dinner dates might be setting you up to bond too soon

• What’s really happening in your body when you feel “chemistry”

• And how to start dating in a way that protects your energy and aligns with the love you actually deserve

It’s time to stop being impressed by potential and start being chosen by alignment.

What’s the difference between a woman who looks feminine and a woman who embodies feminine energy?

In this episode, we go deep into the subtle energetic shifts that separate a woman who draws high-value masculine men toward her effortlessly—and one who constantly finds herself being ghosted, misunderstood, or left feeling like “pretty” just isn’t enough.

We’re not talking about performing softness, dimming your light, or using femininity as a tactic. We’re talking about recalibrating your energetic field so that love doesn’t just notice you—it chooses you.

You’ll learn: ✨ Why feminine embodiment creates magnetic polarity (and how to activate it) ✨ The #1 turn-off for masculine men (and how to shift it without losing your power) ✨ What it really means to create space for love, not just success ✨ How to stop attracting men who drain you—and start aligning with the one who wants to pour into you

This isn’t about changing who you are. It’s about coming home to the version of you that love is already looking for.

Hey Queens 💋 It’s Shay, and in today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the exact shifts that took me from attracting emotionally unavailable, feminized men… to being fully magnetized to masculine, high-value providers who lead, protect, and pour into me.

I’m not holding back. Because the truth is—it’s not about your looks, your degrees, or how “healed” you think you are. It’s about your energetic alignment. It’s about what your nervous system is subconsciously choosing on autopilot.

In this episode, I’ll walk you through:

👑 The real reason smart, spiritual, powerful women keep attracting men who drain them 👑 How your childhood conditioning is secretly creating your love patterns 👑 What it actually means to embody feminine energy and stop overfunctioning 👑 Why the love you’re dreaming of is waiting for you to realign with it—not chase it 👑 And the three codes you must activate to become the woman love is already seeking

Listen… you are not too much. You are not too late. You are simply overdue for a recalibration of your love blueprint.

So turn this all the way up, grab your journal, and let’s get into the divine strategy that will rewrite the love story your body has been carrying.

Because baby girl—when you’re energetically aligned, you don’t chase love... you attract it.

Ladies… we need to talk.

If you’re still calling it “talking” after three months, I love you—but you are playing yourself. There is no such thing as “talking” in grown-woman dating. That’s just a holding pattern for a man who’s keeping his options open.

In this episode, I’m breaking it all the way down. We’re going deep into why so many high-potential women get stuck in situationships, why you’re still attracting emotionally unavailable men, and how your nervous system might be addicted to the chaos you think is chemistry.

Here’s what we’re covering: — What it really means when he hasn’t claimed you by Month 3 — Why butterflies are not romance—they’re a trauma response — The science of bonding: when a man actually falls for you — How to stop settling and start dating with divine standards — The 5 non-negotiable levels of compatibility you must vet for

Listen, I’m not here to sugarcoat anything. I’m here to help you stop wasting your time, heal your love blocks, and finally attract the man who’s ready to love, lead, and claim you.

So if you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the right things and still ending up disappointed—press play. You’re not crazy. You’re just not dating with the tools you were never taught to use.

This episode will change that.

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the real reason so many high-value women stay single, situationshipped, or endlessly heartbroken — and it has nothing to do with your looks, your past, or your worth.

We’re diving deep into: The 5 phases of every relationship — and the exact spot where most women get stuck The science of masculine bonding (and why you fall fast while he falls slow) The truth about testosterone, oxytocin, and what’s really happening in his body when he says he’s "just not ready" Why being amazing isn’t enough to be chosen — and how to shift from “situationship energy” into becoming the woman he instinctively wants to commit to How to release outdated dating patterns and start embodying the version of you that aligned love is already looking for

If you’ve ever felt like love skips over you — or that men adore you but never fully claim you — this episode will feel like turning on the lights in a room you’ve been stumbling through for years.

This is not about chasing, fixing, or shrinking. It’s about remembering who you are… and moving like it.