Where were you at midnight of 31st December 1999?

It’s been 25 years since the world held its collective breath on that night. People prayed, panicked, and prepared for what they thought would be the end of the digital world. But when the clocks struck midnight — nothing happened.

The lights stayed on. Planes didn’t fall. Life simply continued.

Reflecting on how far we’ve come, what fear taught us, and why faith — even in uncertain times — never crashes

Boundaries

Have you ever seen a hamster running in its cage? Round and round, legs flying — but it’s not really going anywhere. Lately, that’s exactly how my life has felt.

And it’s all down to not setting boundaries.

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The people children trust the most; parents, relatives, teachers, and leaders, are meant to protect them. What happens when those trusted protectors become the very source of harm?

Abuse is not always committed by strangers; too often, it comes from the familiar, cloaked in silence and betrayal. We uncover the painful reality of broken trust and challenge the silence of adults who look away.

Protecting children means more than love - it demands courage, truth, and accountability.

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“You’ve heard the saying, ‘beauty is only skin deep.’ Well… the beauty industry has turned that into a multi-billion-dollar reality. We’re talking creams, serums, facials, treatments - each promising the kind of skin that’ll make you feel unstoppable.

But here’s the thing… are we really buying better skin, or are we buying self-esteem? And if confidence has a price tag, what are we actually paying?

Today, I’m looking at the skin industry through the eyes of a skin specialist, Bukky Eyinade, and we’re going to talk about what’s really going on beneath the surface.”

I sat down for coffee with Clinical Psychologist, Lola Bade-Aluko to talk about what depression really looks like in adults — how it shows up, how it feels, and why it’s not always easy to spot.

It’s August, and this month is all about women. I’ll be taking time to look at us — our experiences, our stories — through different angles and environments.

“Why am I not married?”

It’s a question so many women have asked—and have been asked—over and over again. It’s gotten to the point where the idea that a woman could actually be happy without a husband isn’t even part of the conversation.

For a lot of women, the thought of never getting married feels scary. Almost like something is wrong if it doesn’t happen.

But here’s something worth asking:

“Do I actually want to be married?”

Not should I be… not when will I be… but do I really want it?

It’s a different kind of question—and it might lead to a very different kind of answer..

I had a long and productive interview with Clinical Psychologist Kelebongile Lebo Mojanaga-Masilele on the increasing number of children struggling with mental health issues.

The Mental Health Crisis You Can’t See

In this episode, we’re opening up the conversation on children’s mental health.

Why are so many kids struggling? What signs are we missing? And how can we show up better as parents, caregivers, and mentors?

They are carrying things we don’t always notice.

They laugh, they play, they show up—but underneath, many are hurting in ways we can’t see.

Anxiety, fear, pressure to be perfect… it’s all there, behind the smiles and screen time.

Let’s talk about the things that matter—the stuff that doesn’t always come up at bedtime or in the car, because sometimes the quietest kids are the ones screaming for help.

Let’s talk about virginity.

The word itself simply means untouched, unused — in its raw form. But when we talk about virgins, we’re usually not talking about olive oil or hair. We’re talking about people — specifically, women — and their sexual status.

How far will you go to remain a virgin?

Is there a cost too high? Or is there no cost too high?

🎙️ Fatherhood: Remix

Not your today’s young dad — but the dad you pray for.

All for one and one for all. My guest today is Mlue Maguba. He has embraced the role of fatherhood with passion, purpose, and presence. He’s rewriting the narrative of what it means to be a young father — and doing it with heart.

Insignificant: too small or unimportant to be worth consideration - yet we seems to be consumed with it!