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Cold Hard Truths: What Would We Do? Social Media Edition 4


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Hosts Julianna Scott and Kelley Jensen dissect real social media posts from autism parenting communities, examining everything from questionable professional advice to the parent coaching industry loophole. They tackle "my house, my rules" parenting strategies, expose the unregulated world of social media parent coaches charging thousands without licenses, and address the challenge of childhood boredom in autism families. With their signature blend of validation and practical wisdom, they emphasize the importance of context in advice-seeking, warn against unlimited screen time habits, and share creative solutions like theme weeks for managing summer boredom and limited attention spans.

Key Takeaways

  1. Context matters in advice: Vague posts seeking validation without full context make it impossible to give meaningful guidance.
  2. "My house, my rules" isn't enough: Autistic children need explanations, alternatives, and understanding beyond authoritarian parenting approaches.
  3. Parent coaches lack regulation: Social media influencers can charge thousands monthly as "parent coaches" without licenses, training, or standardized oversight.
  4. Certification doesn't mean licensed: Coach certification programs are often run by other coaches, not accredited institutions.
  5. Insurance won't cover coaching: Parent coaches can't bill insurance because they lack professional licenses.
  6. Advice is often rebranded ABA: Many parent coaches are teaching behavioral principles without proper training or calling it what it is.
  7. Boredom requires active management: Children with autism often can't self-entertain and need structured activities every 20 minutes.
  8. Theme weeks work: Creating themed activity schedules helps manage short attention spans and reduces meltdowns.
  9. Screen time creates habits: Unlimited screen access leads to children who can't leave their rooms or engage in other activities.
  10. Professional help is worth it: Licensed therapists and ABA providers offer structured support that DIY approaches can't replace.

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Refrigerator MomsBy Kelley Jensen, Julianna Scott