If we live long enough, we will go through a significant life transition. Some are rites of passage - such as high school and college graduations & weddings - all of which are disrupted right now. Then there are life transitions that, though common, are unexpected. These can be walking through a parental divorce, going through the breakup of a friendship or romantic relationship, recovery for substance use or mental health disorder, or professional burnout, to name a few. We explore an expanded stages of grief model as we discuss the reality most of us will face in walking through unexpected life transitions.