Hey there ColorBeams!!

In this episode, Suni and Liv unpack the people who always insist “It Wasn’t Me”—no matter the situation. From love and family to career and friendships, we explore how a lack of accountability shows up, why some folks avoid responsibility, and the impact it has on relationships. Plus, we share ways to set boundaries, protect your peace, and build healthier accountability in your own life. A real, honest, and relatable conversation you don’t want to miss.

Have you ever dealt with someone who refuses to take accountability? Or realized a moment when you were the “It wasn’t me” person?

Share your experience in the comments, we love to hear y'alls perspectives, AND look forward to y'all joining the conversation on our socials—we want to hear your stories!

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Hey there ColorBeams!!

In this episode Suni and Liv dive into one of the most sensitive and impactful topics in relationships: Financial Insecurity.

Money can be a source of stability, but it can also cause anxiety, conflict, and fear—not just in ourselves, but in the way we show up for others. What happens when someone’s actions are altered by financial struggles or the fear of losing money? Can those insecurities spill over and affect loved ones?

We’re asking the tough questions:

- What does prosperity truly look like to you?

- Should your financial status be used as a “superpower”?

- Does money change people—or simply reveal who they already are?

-How much do childhood experiences shape the way we handle money as adults?

We’ll unpack how financial habits, prosperity mindsets, and even past traumas play a role in how we value money, security, and partnership.

Join us as we talk openly, laugh honestly, and explore the real issues that money brings into love, marriage, and everything in between.

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Hey there ColorBeams!!

This week we dive into the old saying: “Do as I say, not as I do.” We’re unpacking why so many parents use this phrase, even when their actions directly contradict their words.

Should parents expect children to follow advice that they themselves don’t live by? Is it fair to tell kids to behave one way while modeling the complete opposite? And is this just a hypothetical parenting tool—or a confusing way to raise children that leaves them questioning trust and accountability?

Join us as we share personal stories, raise thought-provoking questions, and challenge the idea of leading without example. Let’s talk about the impact this mindset can have on children, family dynamics, and future relationships.

If you’ve ever been told “do as I say, not as I do” by a parent, this conversation is definitely for you.

And don’t forget to post the saying that you remember being told as a child that had you looking at your parents sideways.

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Hey there ColorBeams!!

This week we dive into a spicy, unfiltered conversation about women who identify as straight—yet they have had and continue to have same-sex experiences. We’re talking about the ones who say, “It didn’t mean anything” or “I’m still straight, I just like to play sometimes.” 👀

Is it curiosity? Is it fluidity? Or is it denial?

We explore the deeper questions:

• Should these women disclose their same-sex experiences to their current (or future) spouse?

• Why is it seen as normal or acceptable for two women to explore each other, but when men do it, it's instantly labeled as gay?

• Are we upholding a double standard in how society views queerness—especially when it’s “cute” for women but shameful for men?

No shade, just truth. This one’s raw, real, and ready to stir the pot.

Join the conversation and let us know:

Is sexuality really a spectrum for everyone—or just when it's convenient?

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Hey there ColorBeams!!

This week we dive deep into identity, growth, and the unseen tug-of-war between who we were, who we are, and who we’re becoming.

We’re exploring the three versions of YOU:

➡️ The Past You – the one with the mistakes, trauma, lessons, and wins.

➡️ The Present You – who’s trying to navigate life while carrying the weight of the past.

➡️ The Future You – the version you’re either protecting, neglecting, or not even thinking about yet.

Are you making today’s choices based on yesterday’s wounds? Is your present self trapped in a pattern your past self created? And more importantly, are you consciously shaping a better future YOU—or leaving it up to chance?

Tune in for a vulnerable, empowering conversation about self-reflection, growth, accountability, and healing the past so you can show up fully today and thrive tomorrow.

💬 Share this episode with someone who’s been stuck in the past or scared of the future.

👇 Comment below and share your story: Which YOU are you working on most right now?

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Hey there ColorBeams!!

In this week's episode "Love Yours" we’re unpacking a tough but necessary conversation: Why do so many of us struggle to love where we are in life—our relationships, careers, or even just ourselves? Why does it feel like everyone else has it better?

We’re diving deep into the comparison trap and the myth of "greener grass"—whether it's envy over your friend’s partner, their promotion, or their seemingly perfect life. Do we really celebrate our friends' wins, or do we sometimes secretly wish we were in their shoes? And here's the kicker: are some friends subtly rooting against you just to level the playing field?

Join us for some real talk on self-worth, jealousy, sabotage, and how to stay grounded in your own journey. The truth is—loving yours is the real flex.

🎙️ Hit that subscribe button, leave us a comment, and share this episode with someone who might need to hear it—especially the ones stuck in comparison mode. We’re all trying to figure it out.

👉🏾Share your story in the comments.

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Hey there ColorBeams!!

In this episode of Package Deal, we're unpacking the other parts of your relationship—namely, the people who come with your partner. 👀 From in-laws with no boundaries to navigating blended families, we're diving into what it really means when you marry someone... and their entire village.

✨ Should you have to deal with your partner’s family?

✨ How do you set healthy boundaries with in-laws, exes, and anyone else with access to your household?

✨ And when it comes to dating with kids—how soon is too soon to introduce your child to a potential partner? Is it okay to bring your kid on a first date? Where’s the line?

Share this convo with anyone trying to love smart and protect their peace while still building a healthy, honest relationship.

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Share this episode with a friend who needs to hear it!

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Let’s talk co-parenting after the love is gone—including how to survive the baby mama drama without losing your mind—and still make sure the kids get all the love, snacks, and stability they deserve from both sides.

In this episode, we dive into what it takes to co-parent when the romantic connection fades but the parenting partnership has to stay strong. From managing boundaries to handling tough emotions, we’re giving you tools, laughs, and a little tough love to get through it.

✨ Real-life insight.

✨ Lesbian-centered parenting talk.

✨ No fluff—just truth and support.

🔔 Have you been through baby mama drama? Or figured out how to co-parent in peace?

👍 Like if you've survived (or are surviving) the co-parenting rollercoaster.

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✨💬 We want to hear from you, so drop down on the comments and share your stories!!💙💜💙💜

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Hey there ColorBeams!!

Have you ever had a best friend who felt like your soulmate—who could read your mind, your mood, finish your sentences, and knew your favorite order? That connection felt safe... until one moment changed everything. You crossed the line from friends to lovers. And suddenly, it wasn’t so simple anymore.

Did the emotional intimacy of the friendship make you blur boundaries? Did romance reveal things that friendship never required you to confront? What happens when the spark fades, but the bond remains? Can you go back to being "just friends"... or is that line gone forever?

This episode is a vulnerable, colorful look at the thin, fragile line between friendship and romance. It’s honest. It’s layered. It’s Complicated. Let’s talk about it.

Have you ever crossed the line? Tell us your story — your insight might be featured in a future episode! We want to hear from you!!💙💜💙💜

🔗 Listen now and follow us for more real talk about love, marriage, and everything in between.

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Share this episode with a friend who needs to hear it!

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Hey there ColorBeams!!

Ever feel like you're being taken advantage of by the people closest to you—family, friends, or even your partner? In this episode we’re asking tough questions like: Did WE roll out the welcome mat for mistreatment?🤔

Sometimes we don't realize how our need to please, avoid conflict, or be the “strong one” teaches others how to treat us. And without boundaries, it’s easy to go from being kind… to being walked on. Let’s talk about how to take your power back, set clear expectations, and stop inviting the kind of treatment you never signed up for.

If you’ve ever felt like a doormat in your own life, this episode is for you. Don’t just watch—reflect, reclaim, and reset. 💥

👇 Drop a comment if you’re learning to say NO without guilt.

👍 Like if this hit home.

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Your boundaries are the welcome mat to your peace. Set them. Protect them. Live

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