Title: Graced Public Relations Part 1
Text: Titus 3:1-7
FCF: We often struggle being different and separate from the world.
Prop: Because we were of the world but were saved from it, we must live out the gospel.
Scripture Intro: ESV
[Slide 1] Turn in your bible to Titus chapter 3. I fear that I have done you a grave disservice. Two weeks ago, we completed chapter 2 of Titus. I have heard that some of you wrestled with the sermon there. Striving with the concept of grace giving a certainty of salvation rather than a potential for it. Then we took a week off and Eric Lundquist came and spoke. He also taught on God’s grace and the outcome of that being a changed life. And today I will begin a two-part message. So what is such a disservice to you? You won’t hear the second part of this message until May 2nd.
Added to that, the theology in the text today is deep. It is difficult. It is challenging. And so, I have done you a great disservice. I trust that in God’s providence, He will use this scheduling to allow these truths to sink deeply and that you are able to grasp and accept what is being said.
Up to this point in Titus, Paul has been emphasizing a lifestyle for the Cretans. A lifestyle made certain by the invasion of the grace of God. A lifestyle of righteousness given to those for whom Christ died.
In chapter 2 Paul urged Titus to teach living that goes with the gospel with respect to those within the church. In chapter 3, Paul will urge Titus to remind those same Cretans –to live a lifestyle that goes with the gospel, toward those outside the church. And he will give two exceptional reasons for why they should be reminded of this. First that they too were once like all the unbelieving Cretans around them. And secondly, that God has changed them by grace to be different.
I am in Titus 3. I’ll begin reading in verse 1. I am reading from the ESV, but you can follow along in the pew bible on page 1346 or in whatever version you have.
Transition:
What is our disposition toward an unbelieving world? How shall we relate to those who are ungodly and wicked? Are they the enemy? And even if they are – what does that mean? Such a truth is all the more relevant as Christianity becomes pressed on all sides. How shall we relate to those who actively oppose us?
I.) We were once just like the unbelieving world, so we must live out the gospel. (1-3)
a. [Slide 2] 1 – Remind them to be submissive to rulers and authorities,
i. Paul urges Titus to remind the Cretans that their good works, for which they should be zealous, are not turned only toward those in the church. They ought to be turned outward as well.
ii. And right off the bat we have an object of good works that wouldn’t have been popular in Crete, it hasn’t been popular throughout the history of the world, and it is certainly one of the most unpopular messages you can teach the church right now.
iii. Be submissive to rulers and authorities.
iv. Perhaps when we spoke of this in reference to slaves and their masters, you thought it was a stretch to take this concept to all human authorities.
v. Paul uses the exact same word he used in verse 9 of chapter 2 with reference to slaves and masters, as he uses here of being submissive to authorities.
vi. It is true, that words do not have static or unnuanced meanings. And it is certainly possible that Paul could mean something different here. But contextually, that is unlikely.
vii. Part of obedience to God, part of good works, part of being what God’s grace makes you to be, part of being what Christ is purifying you to be as His bride, is submitting yourselves to your rulers and authorities.
viii. In fact, the general disposition of all Christ’s people is...
b. [Slide 3] To be obedient,
i. We obey, we comply first.
ii. Not just to men, but also, and in an ultimate way, to God.
c. [Slide 4] To be ready for every good work,
i. In this way, we are ready for every good work.
ii. We are not opposed, kicking, fighting.
iii. Instead, we are ready to do all that God has asked of us.
d. [Slide 5] 2 - To speak evil of no one,
i. Oh boy.
ii. Wow.
iii. I think I am just going to let you look at those words for a few seconds.
iv. Now let me say, that this doesn’t mean that we cannot call sin sin, that we cannot rebuke someone, or that we cannot point out failures. Indeed, lovingly pointing out sin in another person is not speaking evil, but is instead speaking life. It is for their good.
v. But generally speaking, our lips should never utter complaints, murmurings, insults, cutting remarks, curses, or disdain for any who are outside of the church.
e. [Slide 6] To avoid quarreling,
i. It is hard to resist authority if you are trying to avoid quarreling isn’t it?
ii. It is hard to speak evil of someone if you are avoiding quarreling.
iii. It is hard to be ready for any good work while you are quarreling or quarrelsome.
iv. My friends… we must be
f. [Slide 7] To be gentle, and to show perfect courtesy toward all people.
i. There is no exception here.
ii. All people must have our respect, love, and gentleness.
iii. It doesn’t matter how wrong they are. It doesn’t matter how ungodly they are. It doesn’t matter how opposed to Christ they are.
iv. We are to show courtesy and gentleness toward them.. why?
g. [Slide 8] 3 – For we ourselves were once foolish,
i. You were no different.
ii. Let me say it again…
iii. You were no different.
iv. Again, my friends. THIS. IS. GRACE.
v. This is why it is not our choice that saves us, but rather the grace of God which gives us the ability to believe what He has done.
vi. Because if it was your choice to believe, then you ARE different than the ungodly. You ARE different than the wicked. You ARE different than all the rest.
vii. But no… it was not by choice but by Grace that we have been saved. Through faith yes, but a faith that was a gift of God, so none could boast.
viii. We can easily submit to our authorities, we can easily be obedient, we can easily be ready for every good work, we can easily speak no evil of them, we can easily avoid quarreling, we can easily be gentle and courteous to all people when we what?
ix. Realize that we were the same.
x. Not because we are human – not because we are made in God’s image… NO! Paul hangs the imperative of our gentleness and courtesy, our love toward all men, not on the equality of our origin, but rather on the equality of men in their depravity.
xi. We have absolutely no room to treat ANYBODY as if they are less than we are.
xii. Who is the most wicked person you can think of? Hitler probably, right? Sure. Hitler gets quite the pedigree for being the vilest person in history.
xiii. You were the same. I was the same.
xiv. How so?
h. [Slide 9] disobedient,
i. We did not love God’s law.
ii. We had no thought of God’s law.
iii. And even today, some who claim to be Christians STILL have no love of the law of God.
iv. It is astounding to think that a person who claims to be God’s child could hate His law.
i. [Slide 10] led astray,
i. We were all led astray.
ii. Every single one of us from birth up to and potentially including now, have had a crisis of skewed doctrine.
iii. Eric brought this out last week. He said that the Holy Spirit often needs to correct bad theology in the text of scripture. Why is that?
iv. Simply – we were born that way.
v. When we say someone is born in sin we do not mean that they were born in some act to which they sinned.
vi. Rather we mean that their natural condition is polluted, infested, and corrupted wholly by sin.
vii. Meaning that a child comes into the world never needing to be instructed how to lie, cheat, steal, hit, or otherwise selfishly want its own way.
viii. Their view of themselves, God, others, and the world is all wrong. And that didn’t happen because they were instructed in it by someone.
ix. No.
x. It happened because they were born into it.
xi. Just the other day, my wife and I were talking to our girls. Somehow the topic of being children of God came up. My daughter asked if she was a child of God. I said, “no. God has to adopt us into His family for us to become His children. And as of yet, God has not adopted you.” And so this led naturally to her asking what she was to God. I told her, “you are an enemy of God.” She was visibly shaken. She said, maybe when I grow up I’ll be His child. Kadie said, there is nothing we would want more than for that to be the case. After that the topic changed. It was clear that being God’s enemy wasn’t an urgent need for her to change at that moment. But keep praying for her. There are signs that she may be being drawn.
xii. All that to say – my child, a pastor’s child – has aberrant, terrible theology. Her doctrine is atrocious. Why? Did I teach her this? No.
xiii. It is her natural understanding to think that she would be God’s child. And it was her natural inclination to think that at some later time she hopes she would be His child. But until that status of being an enemy of God sticks… she is still lost.
xiv. So, I speak to her gently. Lovingly. Why? Because she is my daughter? Well, somewhat. But primarily, because I was just like her!
j. [Slide 11] slaves to various passions and pleasures,
i. Oh before Christ, before Grace, before being awoken to the truth – how often we dove in to the dumpster of sin for a cheap thrill.
ii. Why? Could we have quit anytime? Could we have said no.
iii. No. We were slaves. The whip of sin forced us on.
iv. Like Cain, we may have had chances to keep ourselves from sinning greatly. We may have hated but kept ourselves from killing. We may have lusted but kept ourselves from fornication. We may have been arrogant but kept ourselves from bragging.
v. But that didn’t mean we could stop sinning. Oh no.
vi. I worked with some recovering addicts at a previous church. They were going through NA. And even though all of them were fighting and being relatively successful in keeping themselves off narcotics – all of them were addicted to sugar, tobacco, exorbitant amounts of coffee, or other substances. All of them were still committing acts of sexual sin, lying, complaining, and arrogance. You see without Christ; you can keep yourself from sinning in a specific way… but you cannot keep yourself from sinning.
vii. Before grace, before Christ, we were slaves to our passions and pleasures. Many are this way in our world. “Follow your heart” is the Disney-fied mantra of those enslaved to their passions. “Trust your feelings” is the Star Wars motto of the slave master for your pleasures.
viii. Our heart and feelings are the problem though, not the solution. We who are in Christ – know this now, but we did not know it naturally.
k. [Slide 12] passing our days in malice and envy, hated by others and hating one another.
i. Every day without the grace of God is filled with anger, resentment, envy and strife.
ii. From where do disputes come? But from desiring what you do not have.
iii. This is who we were! But it is not who we are now.
l. [Slide 13] Passage Truth: Paul confirms to Titus and all the Cretans that they were formerly the same as all those outside the body of Christ. There is a human condition that they too possessed. They were foolish, wicked, enslaved, theologically rebellious, and violent people.
m. Passage Application: For Titus, this is motivation for him to remind the Cretans to submit to, love, and live peaceably with everyone, because they were no better.
n. [Slide 14] Broader Biblical Truth: Zooming out from this text, we understand that all men inherit sin through Adam. It is a doctrine called original sin and it can be traced back through the history of the church. Ignatius in the early 100s said, “all unbelievers, are incapable of doing the things of belief.” Or Justin Martyr who said – “no good thing dwells in us.” Or Origen who said, that “our human nature is not sufficient to seek God in any manner.” Or Paul who says that “no one seeks after God. No one is righteous. No one understands.” This is a truth from scripture and through the church ages. It has been challenged, but in every challenge the church has declared each opposing teaching to be heresy. Not just in its outright denial, such as Pelagianism. But also, in its half measure such as Semi-Pelagianism. The bottom line is this… mankind is dead in sin and unable to do anything about it. Any doctrine that does not teach this – is not from scripture.
o. Broader Biblical Application: What does that mean for us who have been made alive with Christ with reference to how we view unbelievers? We love them, we live at peace with them, we submit to them if they have authority over us. We are eager to do good for them. How can we not? We were once just like them. Shall we thumb our noses at them? Shall we consider ourselves better, higher, mightier, more pious or refined? Friends, we were the same. We have no grounds for boasting.
Transition:
[Slide 15(blank)] So how is it possible for us to love them, be gentle with them, avoid quarreling, and submit to their authority? Because God has justified us by His grace. He has made us new.
II.) God has justified us by grace so that we can be heirs of His promises, so we must live out the gospel. (4-7)
a. [Slide 16] 4 – But when the goodness and loving kindness of God our Savior appeared,
i. Before we dive into this, we should recognize the symmetry between what is said here in verses 4-7 and really on out to verse 11 to what was said in verses 11-14 of chapter 2.
ii. If we read these two passages side by side, which depending on your bible, you may be able to do, there is too many similarities for us to ignore.
iii. Paul is saying the same thing he has been saying but in different words.
iv. Recognizing this helps us to understand where Paul is going, by remembering where he has been.
v. So, when we come to the goodness and lovingkindness of God our Savior, and we see that this appeared, we recognize the echo of verses 11-14 of chapter 2.
vi. Another way of understanding the grace of God is to recognize it as the goodness and loving kindness of God. God’s goodness and loving kindness is lavished, not on those who were righteous, and not on those who believed, but on those who were yet depraved and wicked.
vii. Indeed, our belief is not even mentioned in this entire context until verse 7. And there it is only a whisper. Verse 8 is when it truly comes in.
viii. God acts in goodness and loving kindness toward those to whom He wishes. Toward those who are unable and unwilling to do and be what God desires– slaves to their passions, slaves to their hate, slaves to their ignorant theology, slaves to their wills – God, based on His will and choosing, lavishes upon His people goodness and loving kindness. It appears to them.
ix. To what end? That they would believe? That they would choose Him? NO!
b. [Slide 17] 5 – He saved us,
i. Grace appeared bringing salvation.
ii. Not potential but certain.
iii. God’s goodness, and loving kindness toward us does not bring potential salvation but assured salvation.
iv. He saved us. He alone. Why?
v. Because we were utterly incapable…
c. [Slide 18] Not because of works done by us in righteousness,
i. Jesus preached a message of two commands. To repent and to believe the gospel.
ii. To obey is a work (as Paul has just stated in this very text in verse 1.)
iii. To obey a command of Christ is indeed a work done in righteousness.
iv. And so, to think that repentance and faith is what releases God to save us is to upend what Paul preaches here.
v. No! God saves us by Himself. WITHOUT us. It is not by works done by us in righteousness. It is not by our obedience that we are saved. It is because of Christ’s obedience we are saved.
vi. It is NOT because of our belief that we are saved. It is because of the truth of what we believe that we are saved.
vii. You say – but what of verses that say whoever believes will be saved?
1. YES! Whoever believes will be saved AMEN!
2. What you have to understand is that when the bible says “whoever believes will be saved” it is not giving a formula for us to get salvation. It is not saying, if you wish to have salvation you need to do x,y, and z.
3. Rather it is stating a fact. God loved the world so much that he sent His unique son, why? So that All believing in him might have eternal life.
4. John 3:16 is saying that the purpose of God sending Jesus is to so that those who depend on Him might have the promise of eternal life. It is not saying whoever wants to be saved can believe on Jesus. Because if that were true, we have to see Jesus’ words to the rich young ruler, as a lie.
a. He asked Jesus, what more do I lack – Jesus said… not faith… not belief. What? He needed to sell all he had and follow Christ.
b. Now in a sense, that is faith. It is belief. But it is not belief in the sense of a choice. Rather it is belief in the sense of dependance.
c. And in that kind of belief, it most certainly is a work. And in the case of the rich young ruler, it was a work that meant his selling of all he had.
5. The call of Christ to produce good works is the appropriate call to a person who is unsaved. Why? Because if they are able to produce good works, then God has done something in their hearts.
viii. My friends we must get this through our heads.
ix. We undo our gospel presentations when we say – you cannot earn your salvation and then say, But if you say this prayer, believe all these things, then God will give His Spirit to you.
x. But, you say, the Philippian jailer asked Paul – “What must I do to be saved?” And Paul said believe on the Lord Jesus Christ! See – Paul is saying that is the secret formula to get salvation.
xi. Is he though?
1. Paul is simply saying what Jesus said to the rich young ruler. Depend, trust, rely fully on Christ.
2. But if he was a slave to sin, a slave to his passions, led astray in doctrine – could he do this? No. He would have walked away sorrowful. Instead, he invited the apostles to his home to speak of the matter further.
3. And that is where Paul perceived that the Philippian jailer may have been given grace by God already. All the signs were there. What signs?
a. He was trembling with fear. Not when he thought the prisoners had escaped, but after he had seen with his own eyes the destruction of the prison, and that all the prisoners were still there.
b. So what had him so afraid? What indeed.
c. The second sign that Paul had a suspicion, or even a certainty that God was doing something in the man, is that Paul and Silas predicted the salvation of the entire household. This does not happen in any other text of scripture where the household is predicted to be saved.
4. Imagine a baby entering the world. He comes out silent. No crying. But imagine he looks at the doctor and asks – what must I do to live?
5. A silly question, for he is already alive, but if he wishes to live he must do what? Breathe! So the doctor says – BREATHE! And smacks the child on the back.
6. So Paul said – BREATHE! To a new baby that had been born.
xii. Belief is not the catalyst to our conversion. Why? Because salvation is not by our works of righteousness.
xiii. But faith is the means by which God continues to save us. We continue to have faith in Christ… not faith in our faith in Christ.
xiv. All this must be true if we are to conclude that God’s salvation was…
d. [Slide 19] But according to his own mercy,
i. Mercy is when someone does not get the penalty for what they have done.
ii. The wages of sin is death.
iii. God’s mercy upon us is when he turns His wrath on Christ rather than on us. When Christ gets our death.
iv. But how do we attain this? How do we get God’s mercy to us? How are the benefits of Christ’s work given to us?
e. [Slide 20] By the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Spirit
i. We are cleansed of our sin, we are renewed, we are regenerated by the work of the Spirit of God.
ii. God’s goodness and loving kindness, shown in mercy, saves us by washing us clean of the filth of sin and regenerating us to life from the death of sin. We are made new in the power of the Spirit of God.
iii. And it was not a taste of the Spirit which He gave, waiting for us to believe. No..
f. [Slide 21] 6 - Whom he poured out on us richly
i. He dumped all of the Spirit’s cleansing, renewing, and regenerating power on us.
ii. It is a downpour.
iii. How was this made possible?
g. [Slide 22] Through Jesus Christ our Savior
i. Christ Jesus took our penalty and gave His infinite righteousness
ii. So that we could be cleansed, reborn, and given life.
iii. Why? To what end?
h. [Slide 23] 7 – So that being justified by his grace, we might become heirs according to the hope of eternal life.
i. So we would become heirs according to the hope or the faith, the trust of eternal life.
ii. We believe – why?
iii. Because we have been reborn and enabled to do so. Without the spirit’s washing, renewing, and regenerating, we would remain how Paul characterized us in verse 3. We simply could never depend on what Christ has done for us.
iv. But we have been justified by His grace!
v. The scriptures teach that we are justified by grace, faith, and works.
1. Here we are justified by grace
2. In Romans we are justified by faith (and grace Romans 3:24) – Romans 3:28
3. In James he says we are justified by works - James 2:24
vi. So which is it? Assuming the bible does not contradict – how can we be justified or how can we be declared righteous before God by all three of these at the same time?
vii. [Slide 24] How is our declared righteousness by grace?
1. Grace enables faith or dependence on Christ’s work, and Grace trains us in righteousness.
2. Raw faith and raw works could never save – because they would not be possible without God’s Grace. You saw what we were in verse 3. God’s grace was absolutely necessary for us to be declared righteous.
3. Therefore, justification must be by grace.
viii. [Slide 25] How is our declared righteousness by faith?
1. We depend on or have faith in Christ’s work and not our own. The nature of what Christ accomplishes necessitates our abandonment of hope in anything save His finished work.
2. So, a Grace that only has God giving us life but then leaves us to work it out for ourselves to the best we could, would only lead to our death. Without the cancellation of our sin and imputation of righteousness, we could not hope to be declared righteous.
3. Therefore, justification must be by faith.
ix. [Slide 26] Finally, how is our declared righteousness by works?
1. Works of righteousness as we have seen in almost every context of the New and Old Testament, is a natural byproduct of God’s power in someone.
2. To the extent that when someone does works of righteousness, and is obedient to God, we could never conclude that they do so without God having done something in them.
3. And so a grace that brings us to life and gives us favor and a faith that trades our sin for His righteousness, but does not actually save us from being a slave of sin, could not possibly lead to anyone being declared to be righteous.
4. Therefore, justification must be by works.
x. [Slide 27] What the writers of the New Testament mean when they say that justification is by grace, faith and works, is that it is all or nothing.
xi. If you are justified by grace, you will produce faith and works.
xii. If you are justified by faith, it was gifted by grace and it will produce works
xiii. If you are justified by works, it was trained by grace and established on the work of Christ to which you cling.
xiv. It is an unbroken chain.
xv. God has done all this so that those who are justified by grace could become heirs according to His promise which they have received through faith, a promise for eternal life in Christ.
i. [Slide 28] Passage Truth: Paul emphasizes the role of the Triune God in saving His people from their sin. The Father, in goodness, and loving kindness, fitting with his mercy, saves His people, without their aid, by washing them with regeneration and by renewing them with His Spirit. His grace declares His people righteous so that they might be heirs of the faith of eternal life.
j. Passage Application: So Titus must remind His people to be workers of righteousness, remembering who they formerly were, and the great lengths that God alone went to to rescue them.
k. [Slide 29] Broader Biblical Truth: Zooming out to all of scripture we understand that God alone acts to save His people. We do not contribute in any way. This is not to say that there are not any responsibilities upon us in the process of our salvation. Certainly, God calls us to do things. To live righteously. To repent and keep on repenting. To believe and keep on believing. But because of who we were before God acted, such expectations are beyond us until He acts.
l. Broader Biblical Application: So Paul’s point becomes clear. We live according to what he describes in verses 1 and 2 because verses 4-7 have made it possible. So for us here at CBC, the application still holds. We must live out the grace and faith we have been given, by loving God and others. We must demonstrate by our good works that we have had grace poured on us.
Conclusion:
There is no need for me to labor long here.
We ought to be shinning examples of God’s mercy and grace as we interact with unbelievers. We used to be as they are, but we’ve been changed. We’ve been saved. We’ve been washed and remade. So we cannot live like them. We must live like Christ toward them.
He ate with sinners. He healed the ungodly. He helped the gentile.
So should we. Not because we are better than they are. But because we were the same, and now we’ve been made to be like Christ.
What does that look like?
Verses 1 and 2. We ought to submit to authority, obey, speak kindly, gently, avoiding quarrelling, being eager instead to do good toward them.
May our conduct toward a world that hates us, be meek, mild, gentle, and loving.