Your helpmeet is supposed to be there to lift you up when you are down.
However, the strength of your helpmeet will determine how well they can lift you in your down seasons.
As a husband, if something terrible happens and you fall, you will fall to the level of your wife.
She can only catch you at the level at which she is standing financially, spiritually or otherwise.
Therefore, if you don’t lift her to your level or at least close to your level, your fall will be great in such seasons because you will only be able to depend on her resources to stay afloat until you start rising again.
As a husband, you should endeavour to empower your wife to become a helpmeet to you indeed. Stay safe out there!!