Coming Up Clutch with J.R. Helping Pro and Executive Athletes maximize their success and significance

You ever catch yourself thinking…

"Why does this keep happening to me?"

"I've done everything right, so why do things keep going wrong?"

That's not just frustration. That's not just a bad attitude. That's the victim mentality and it's robbing you of your greatness.

In this 5-Minute Drill episode of Coming Up Clutch with J.R.™, J.R. breaks down why the victim mentality isn't an attitude problem and gives you a simple 3-step strategy to flip the script for good.

He shares the story of a conversation with a close friend mid-crisis…business tanking, marriage strained, health slipping…and the moment J.R. called him out mid-rant for playing the victim. He also goes back to his own college baseball days at the University of Iowa, where he started ahead of more talented teammates…not because he had more skill, but because he owned his adversity instead of waiting for things to go his way.

This episode is about one powerful truth:

You're not stuck. You're just forgetting who you are…and what you're truly capable of.

So stop asking "why is this happening to me?" and start asking what it's preparing you for.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• Why the victim mentality is an identity issue, not just an attitude problem.
• The story of J.R.'s conversation with a friend in crisis, and the moment he called him out for playing the victim.
• J.R.'s own story of walking onto a stacked D1 baseball roster and starting ahead of more talented teammates.
• What neuroscientist Dr. Andrew Huberman says about framing stress as a challenge, and how it changes your brain chemistry.
• Dr. Carol Dweck's research on growth mindset, and why it predicts resilience and performance.
• The story of Joseph in Genesis, betrayed and forgotten, who owned his process and was elevated by God.
• Romans 5:3-4 and why suffering isn't punishment…it's preparation.
• The Owner's Lens™, a 3-question Drill to reclaim agency and identity in any adversity.

What you'll walk away with…

You'll learn how to:

• Spot the difference between an attitude problem and an identity problem.
• Reframe adversity as fuel instead of evidence against you.
• Use the Owner's Lens™ to shift from Perspective to Power to Posture in real time.
• Refuse to let hard things own you… and start owning them instead.
• Show up with more resilience and ownership in your career, leadership, and home.

KEY QUOTES

• "When you know you're a warrior in training who is owning the adversity — that adversity becomes your fuel." - J.R.
• "Pain is part of your process. It's not punishment — it's preparation." - J.R.
• "It's about refusing to let the hard things own you. It's you owning them! That's the shift." - J.R.

NEXT STEPS

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You're hitting every number, checking every box, stacking win after win. So why does it still feel like you're one mistake away from being exposed?

That voice in your head keeps whispering the same lies:

"You got lucky."

"You don't actually belong here."

"It's only a matter of time before they see through you."

That's Imposter Syndrome talking. And it never works alone…shame is always riding shotgun.

These two don't care about your résumé or your results. They specialize in one thing: convincing high-capacity people they're frauds, even while everyone around them is taking notes. Left unchecked, they'll quietly drain your peace and stop your momentum cold.

That's exactly why I sat down with John Gallagher, Founder of Growing Champions. John spends his days inside the minds of Fortune 500 executives and elite performers…the ones who look like they have it all together, but are privately wrestling with the same internal battles you are.

This isn't a polished, surface-level conversation. It's honest, it's direct, and it's exactly what a lot of you need to hear right now.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• A 3-step framework for breaking out of your head and into decisive action
• Why even high performers hit walls of self-doubt (and how to push through)
• How to confront shame head-on and take back the narrative it's written for you
• The everyday structure that keeps faith, family, fitness, and finances all moving forward together

KEY QUOTES

• "Excellence only happens on purpose... If we haven't put the structure and process or disciplines in place, success will fall backward." - John Gallagher
• "Diluted focus will lead us to diluted results." - John Gallagher (quoting Rory Vaden)

CONNECT WITH JOHN

• Website: https://coachjohngallagher.com/
• Podcast: https://coachjohngallagher.com/podcast/
• Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/coachjohngallagher/
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachjohngallagher/

NEXT STEPS

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You ever catch yourself thinking…

"Am I good enough for this?"

"Can I really pull this off?"

"Can I come through when it matters?"

That's not honesty. That's a lie about who's actually in control. And it might be the very thing standing between you and the freedom you're searching for.

In this 5-Minute Drill episode of Coming Up Clutch with J.R.™, J.R. breaks down why self-doubt isn't a confidence problem and gives you a simple 3-step strategy to flip the script for good.

He shares the story of a private session with one of his MLB clients…a guy mid-season with sliding stats and spiraling confidence…and the one piece of truth J.R. told him that flipped his entire season.

This episode is about one powerful truth:

You're not lacking ability. You're lacking faith in the One who gave it to you.

So stop trying to control the outcome. Start managing what God already gave you to steward.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• Why self-doubt isn't just a mindset issue, it's a faith issue.
• The story of J.R.'s private session with an MLB client mid-slump, and the truth that flipped his season.
• Gideon's story in Judges 6, and how God called him despite his doubt, not because of his confidence.
• Why God stripped away Gideon's need for control before leading him into victory.
• The difference between control and management, and why that distinction unlocks freedom.
• The science behind the 3-step Drill, including metacognition and the psychological flexibility research J.R.'s guests Dr. Adam Wright and Dr. Nick Holton have discussed on the show.
• The most common mistake high-capacity men make when doubt creeps in, and why chasing full control only feeds it.
• The 3-step Drill to move from self-doubt to unshakable conviction.

What you'll walk away with…

You'll learn how to:

• Spot the difference between doubting your ability and doubting God's calling.
• Replace the trap of control with the freedom of stewardship.
• Use the 3-step Drill to move from doubt to declaration in real time.
• Speak truth over your circumstances instead of letting doubt drive your decisions.
• Show up with more faith and freedom in your career, leadership, and home.

KEY QUOTES

• "When you doubt your abilities… you're actually doubting the ONE who gave you those abilities." - J.R.
• "If you're putting in the work… If you're stewarding the gifts and talents and abilities God gave you… Then doubting yourself isn't a humility issue. It's a faith issue." - J.R.
• "Control is about ownership. Management is about stewardship. And last I checked, we're called to be stewards, not saviors." - J.R.

NEXT STEPS

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You don't need a title to lead. You need a decision.

I used to think leadership was something you "got"… a promotion, a corner office, a name on the door. Then I sat down with a guy who built his from nothing.

Tim Lupinacci is the CEO of Baker Donelson, a Top 100 U.S. law firm, and the author of Everybody Leads. But before any of that, he was just a guy who decided to show up better… one car ride, one conversation, one small commitment at a time.

Today he's leading 1,300+ people and pouring into underserved communities through his nonprofit work. On this episode, he breaks down exactly how that happened…and how it can happen for you too.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• Why your title has nothing to do with whether you're actually leading
• The myth of "work-life balance" (and what to chase instead)
• What courageous leadership actually costs
• How Tim turned around a $500M firm…and finally wrote the book he kept putting off

KEY QUOTES

• "Everybody's a leader." - Tim Lupinacci
• "Waters never part until your feet get wet… You have to take that step and believe in yourself." - Tim Lupinacci
• "Work-life integration isn't about balance. It's about harmony." - Tim Lupinacci
• "Courageous leadership is being confident, out front, unshakable, resilient, adaptable, having a growth mindset, and encouraging others." - Tim Lupinacci

CONNECT WITH TIM

• Book: Everybody Leads (USE code TIMLEADS for a discount)
• Website (Baker Donelson): https://bakerdonelson.com
• Website (non-profit): https://everybodyleads.org
• Linkedin: in/Tim-Lupinacci
• IG/FB: @timlupinacci

NEXT STEPS

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You ever catch yourself thinking…

"Am I having a midlife crisis?" "Have I peaked?" "Is this just the start of breaking down?"

That's not honesty. That's a cultural myth talking. And it might be standing between you and the very breakthrough you're on the edge of.

In this 5-Minute Drill episode of Coming Up Clutch with J.R.™, J.R. busts the cultural myth of the "midlife crisis" and reveals what's actually happening in this season of your life.

He shares the raw story of his own 2017 season…a stalled business, a father in and out of hospitals hundreds of miles away in Chicago, and the season that taught him to stop asking, "What's wrong with me?" and start asking a much better question.

This episode is about one powerful truth:

You're not breaking down. You're being built.

So stop calling it a crisis. Start calling it what it actually is: a transition into who you're becoming.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• Why the idea of a "midlife crisis" is a cultural myth, and what the actual research says about it.
• The story of a Clutch Club member who joked about his own "midlife crisis" while quietly carrying the weight of losing both of his parents.
• J.R.'s own 2017 season of feeling stuck…a stalled business, a father in and out of hospitals, and a mind buried in fog.
• What Dr. Margie Lachman's landmark study at Brandeis University reveals about midlife, and why "crisis" isn't the right word for it.
• The neuroscience behind why your 40s and 50s are actually prime time for clarity, wisdom, and leadership.
• Moses' story in Exodus 3, and how what looked like a 40-year breakdown was actually 40 years of preparation.
• The most common mistake high-capacity men make in this season, and why numbing the discomfort only prolongs it.
• The 3R Framework, a simple Drill to move from fog to focus, and from pressure to peace.

What you'll walk away with…

You'll learn how to:

• Spot the difference between a true crisis and a season of transition.
• Replace the lie of "I'm breaking down" with the truth that you're being built.
• Use the 3R Framework to navigate seasons of fog, pressure, and doubt.
• Stop numbing discomfort with overwork, isolation, or escape, and lean into it instead.
• Show up with more clarity, peace, and presence for your family and team.

KEY QUOTES

• "You're not breaking down. You're upgrading." - J.R.
• "You're not in a midlife crisis. You're in a midlife transition." - J.R.

NEXT STEPS

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Ever win the day on paper, but still feel like you're losing somewhere? Hitting your numbers at work while your family feels the distance? Staying disciplined with training and diet while your friendships quietly fade? Every "yes" seems to cost you a "no" to something that matters just as much.

That low-grade guilt and pressure isn't a calendar problem (and it isn't a willpower problem). It's a mindset issue, and it's one of the most common things holding high performers back without them realizing it.

Dr. Nick Holton, one of the top voices on human flourishing and anti-fragility, joins J.R. to unpack why so many driven people feel stretched thin and stuck at the same time.

The root cause: we default to either/or thinking in a world that actually requires both/and leadership.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• How either/or thinking quietly traps high performers in a no-win cycle
• Why your biggest limitations are usually ones you've placed on yourself
• The hidden link between burnout and a disconnect from your core values
• The 4% rule… and how it builds resilience that compounds over time
• How to sit with discomfort and keep moving instead of checking out

KEY QUOTES

• "Where do we do our dot connecting? We do it when our mind is wandering. How do you get your mind to wander? Turn it the hell off." - Dr. Nick Holton

CONNECT WITH DR. NICK

• The Antifragile Athlete: https://theantifragileacademy.com
• FlourishFM Podcast: flourishfmpodcast.com
• Instagram: @Dr.nickholton
• Twitter: @dr_nickholton
• Linkedin: /in/nickholton

NEXT STEPS

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You ever catch yourself saying things to yourself you'd never say to your wife, kids, or someone you lead?

"You suck."

"You're never gonna get this right."

"Why even try?"

That's not "keeping it real." That's hostility aimed at yourself. And it's killing your momentum.

In this 5-Minute Drill episode of Coming Up Clutch with J.R.™, J.R. tackles the self-talk that's quietly running in the background of your day (and quietly running you into the ground).

He shares a story from a night watching Netflix's The Clubhouse with his two sons…a moment that turned into an unexpected teaching opportunity about how MLB players talk to themselves under pressure, and what it taught his boys about their own inner dialogue.

This episode is about one powerful truth:

Momentum is connected to your mouth.

So speak life. Speak truth. And let that shift fuel your next win.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• Why the way you talk to yourself may be the #1 reason you're stuck, scattered, or self-sabotaging.
• The story of an MLB player's self-talk meltdown…and the lesson J.R. taught his sons in that moment.
• What neuroscience reveals about how negative self-talk activates pain centers in your brain and spikes cortisol.
• What a 2020 Journal of Sports Sciences study found about athletes who use positive self-talk under pressure.
• The Biblical principle behind Proverbs 11:9 and how your words either build you up or tear you down.
• What Gideon's story in Judges 6 teaches us about speaking defeat over yourself versus aligning your words with your purpose.
• The most common excuse high-performers use to justify their inner bullying and why it's a trap.
• The 4-step "Trust the Truth" Drill to replace self-sabotaging language with truth you can act on daily.

What you'll walk away with…

You'll learn how to:

• Spot the self-sabotaging language cycling through your head.
• Replace negative self-talk with truth rooted in Scripture.
• Build a daily habit that rewires your mindset and reclaims your edge.
• Stop confusing "beating yourself down" with "keeping it real."
• Show up with more patience and presence for your wife, kids, and team.

KEY QUOTES

• "Whether you realize it or not, your words are either driving your momentum or destroying it." - J.R.
• "Your negative self-talk doesn't just sting you. It kills your clarity. It kills your focus. It kills your flow." - J.R.
• "Don't confuse beating yourself down with keeping it real." - J.R.
• "Your words matter. Not just the ones you speak out loud — But the ones on loop in your mind." - J.R.
• "Momentum is connected to your mouth. So speak life. Speak truth. And let that shift fuel your next win." - J.R.

NEXT STEPS

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What's your mindset when the pressure is ON? Do you freeze? Overthink? Choke? Or do you get present, dialed-in, and ready for the moment no matter how big it is?

Let's be real. Most people say they're built for pressure. But behind the scenes, they're terrified of blowing it. They're obsessed with the outcome instead of the opportunity.

That's why J.R. sat down with 2-time World Series Champion, Jonny Gomes.

Jonny's life is a masterclass in pressure-tested performance. Before age 22, he survived a tragic car accident that claimed the life of his best friend, suffered a heart attack, and endured more adversity than most people experience in a lifetime. Yet somehow, he found a way to rise and come up clutch when it mattered most.

Known as one of baseball's ultimate clubhouse leaders, Gomes helped lead both the Boston Red Sox and Kansas City Royals to World Series titles. But what made him special wasn't just what he did on the field. It was how he approached pressure, preparation, leadership, and life.

In this powerful conversation, Jonny shares the mindset shifts that helped him thrive under pressure, the importance of self-evaluation, and why focusing on opportunities instead of outcomes may be the key to unlocking your best.

If you've ever felt overlooked, underestimated, or weighed down by pressure, this episode is for you.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• Why focusing on the opportunity (vs. the outcome) is the secret to performing under pressure
• How self-evaluation became Jonny's greatest performance advantage
• Why the mirror may be the best coach you'll ever have
• The powerful mindset shift from proving doubters wrong to proving supporters right
• Why shrinking your circle can dramatically increase your impact and influence
• How to become more present in the moments that matter most
• What today's athletes and parents are getting wrong about grit
• Why sports (and life) are harder than most people realize
• The importance of winning the respect of the person next to you
• How to build a championship mindset without becoming obsessed with results

KEY QUOTES

• "I never set my goals on the outcome... I just wanted the opportunity." - Jonny Gomes
• "The best coach that you'll ever surround yourself with is the dude in the mirror." - Jonny Gomes
• "Stop trying to prove the haters wrong. Start proving the people in your inner circle right." - Jonny Gomes
• "It's not about remembering. It's about storing... the more you self-evaluate, the more storage you put in your brain." - Jonny Gomes

CONNECT WITH JONNY

• Instagram (personal): @jonnygomesusa | https://www.instagram.com/jonnygomesusa/
• Instagram (business): @indieproagency | https://www.instagram.com/indieproagency/

NEXT STEPS

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You ever feel like God's been stripping things away…and you're left wondering what you did wrong?

The contract falls through.

A longtime friend ghosts you.

That "safe" comfort zone? Gone.

Your first thought?...

"What the heck did I do?"

But what if the loss you're experiencing isn't punishment? What if it's preparation?

In this 5-Minute Drill episode of Coming Up Clutch with J.R.™, J.R. tackles one of the hardest realities high-performing, faith-driven men face: Navigating seasons when God removes something they thought they needed.

Whether it's a relationship, opportunity, job, client, or season of life, loss has a way of making us question ourselves, our future, and even our faith. But what if God isn't stripping something away because you're failing? What if He's pruning you because He wants you to become more fruitful?

This episode is about one powerful truth: God doesn't multiply what you cling to. He multiplies what you surrender. And if you learn how to navigate seasons of subtraction the right way, you may discover they're actually setting the stage for your next breakthrough.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• Why loss isn't always rejection (and is often God's process of refinement).
• Two personal stories from J.R.'s life that revealed where he was placing his trust.
• The Biblical principle of pruning and why God sometimes removes good things to prepare us for better things.
• What Joseph's story teaches us about divine subtraction before multiplication.
• The neuroscience behind the "amygdala hijack" and why setbacks often trigger emotional overreactions.
• The science-backed PRY Framework to help you process loss without falling apart.
• Why surrendering outcomes can reduce anxiety, increase resilience, and improve wellbeing.
• A powerful mindset shift that will help you stop seeing every setback as a sign that you've messed up.

What you'll walk away with…

You'll learn how to:

• Respond to loss with clarity instead of panic.
• Regulate your emotions when life blindsides you.
• Reframe setbacks through both a Biblical and psychological lens.
• Discover what God may be preparing you for (or protecting you from).
• Let go of control and move forward in faith.
• Trust that God may be setting you up for your next breakthrough.

KEY QUOTES

• "Stillness is spiritual strength training. You can't be still with an upregulated nervous system." - J.R.
• "You need to start seeing things from heaven's perspective, not hell's perspective." - J.R.
• "God doesn't multiply what we cling to. He multiplies what we surrender." - J.R.

NEXT STEPS

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What do you do when your team is full of talent, but you're still carrying all the weight?

You know what I'm talking about…that moment you realize you're the one pushing every conversation forward. Holding everyone accountable. Keeping the mission alive.

It's exhausting.

Let's be honest: you're not leading a team. You're dragging one. That's why J.R. sat down with leadership expert, executive team coach, and #1 New York Times bestselling author, Keith Ferrazzi.

Keith has coached some of the most elite executive teams in the world, including the turnaround of General Motors, the national strategy of Bhutan, and some of the fastest-growing Unicorn startups on the planet. His latest book, Never Lead Alone, challenges one of the biggest myths in leadership:

The best leaders don't carry the team. They build teams that rise up and lead alongside them.

In this powerful conversation, Keith shares the leadership shifts that separate average teams from elite teams, why conflict avoidance is quietly destroying performance, and how leaders can stop feeling isolated at the top.

If you've ever felt like you're carrying the organization, the family, or the mission on your back, this episode may completely change the way you think about leadership.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• The most important leadership shift elite teams are making right now
• Why high-performing teams cross the finish line together
• How conflict avoidance creates politics, mistrust, and division
• A practical framework for creating accountability without damaging relationships
• The difference between giving directives and providing input
• How to create psychological safety while still challenging people to grow
• Why many leaders feel lonely at the top (and how to change that immediately)
• The power of peer-to-peer feedback and accountability
• How to move from leadership to "teamship"

KEY QUOTES

• "High-performing teams cross the finish line together." - Keith Ferrazzi
• "Most teams avoid difficult conversations, but true high-performers challenge each other in real time. The result? More trust, faster growth, and stronger teams." - Keith Ferrazzi
• "The struggles of your life can be solved with the people around you—it's a more enriching way to do it." - Keith Ferrazzi
• "Leaders must shift from focusing on leadership to teamship, where you expect the team to level up and meet you in leadership." - Keith Ferrazzi
• "You don't think your way to a new way of acting. You act your way to a new way of thinking." - Keith Ferrazzi
• "If you feel lonely at the top, that's on you. You are choosing to isolate yourself from people who are ready to love and support you." - Keith Ferrazzi

CONNECT WITH KEITH

• Connected Success: https://www.connectedsuccess.com/ (This is Keith's 9-week program that explores how meaningful relationships shape opportunity, impact, and fulfillment. The program provides a practical framework for building connections that unlock greater career success and personal potential.)
• Never Lead Alone (Book): https://amzn.to/4bLusra
• Never Eat Alone (Book): https://amzn.to/4hIACdb
• Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/keithferrazzi/
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/keithferrazzi/
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• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@keithferrazzi

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