In this episode, Jacinda Patty sits down with marketing specialist Lisa Greensill to unpack what it truly means to step out from behind the screen and command a room. If you are a business leader drowning in the noise of AI homogenization or holding yourself back because you don't fit a corporate mold, this conversation is your wake-up call.

Lisa pulls back the curtain on her own physical and mental shift, moving from a self-described "fizzy brain" hiding in part-time freelance writing to stepping onto a massive industry stage at the FAAA Congress. Together, Jacinda and Lisa break down how authority is built from the inside out: by setting intentional energetic boundaries, mastering the choreography of physical pauses, and shifting your framework from a self-focused performance to an audience-first rescue mission.

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• The Homogenization Trap: Why AI is making everything sound identical, and why raw humanity is the ultimate leadership competitive advantage.

• Shifting the Focus: The exact moment Lisa stopped trying to look "perfectly polished" and embraced the StoryBrand framework—making the client the hero and herself the guide.

• The "Banana Suit" Realization: How trying to fit a posh, corporate mold holds you back, and why owning your distinct frequency draws your ideal audience to you.

• The 4-Part Confidence Blueprint: A deep dive into journaling your future feelings, choosing who you help, and guarding your physical and mental energy.

• Stagecraft and the Fizzy Brain: Lisa shares the raw reality of standing on a massive stage at the FAAA Congress, dealing with racing thoughts, and using physical pauses to anchor her authority.

• The Choreography of Connection: Jacinda breaks down how words, body movement, and slides must work together as a fluid choreography to permanently change how an audience feels.

Guest: Lisa Greensill

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• Website: Brandover

Host: Jacinda Patty

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• Command Your Presence (CYP) https://www.commandyourpresence.com/

Stop letting hidden variables dictate your presence. In this episode, Jacinda sits down with event producer and video specialist Dave Power to tear down the wall between back-of-house technology and front-of-house leadership . Dave shares his journey from lugging high school Handycams and burning VHS tapes to producing high-stakes experiences for CEOs and corporate leadership teams . This isn't a conversation about gadgets; it's an exposé on how venue commissions, silent power dynamics, and production gatekeepers can dilute a leader's message before they even step up to the microphone . Dave reveals how to spot the invisible compromises in a room, why true authority requires total transparency, and the physical resilience needed to navigate live-production curveballs without breaking character . Whether you are planning a corporate roadshow or stepping onto a stage yourself, this episode is a masterclass in taking absolute ownership of your physical environment . Scene Map (Timestamps)

[00:01:16] – The Handycam Heritage: Dave reflects on how capturing early subcultures on VHS laid the foundation for modern spatial storytelling and digital walkthroughs . [00:10:48] – The Technology Handover: Moving past food service to technical care—helping corporate elites cross the bridge from analogue legacy to digital fluency .

[00:20:45] – The Roof Light Extortion: A breakdown of a high-pressure moment on a corporate stage where hidden venue fees threatened to leave a client literally in the dark .

[00:30:54] – The 48-Hour Fringe Collapse: Jacinda shares a raw, unvarnished story of production betrayal, creative stamina, and what happens when an artist refuses to be fleeced .

[00:41:13] – Owning the Room: Strategic advice for C-suite executives on bypassing rigid in-house AV models to maintain creative control over their corporate identity .

Guest: Dave Power

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• Website: https://powercreative.com.au/

Host: Jacinda Patty

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What happens when you are dropped into the middle of nowhere with two hours of rehearsal, a pat on the back, and a puppet that's supposed to terrify children but ends up moving like a hovercraft? In this episode, we unpack a wild journey to Charleville, Queensland, to reveal a fundamental truth about leadership: "Ready" is a complete myth . True presence isn't built in the comfort of a rehearsal room; it is forged when you have no choice but to survive . Learn how to lower the stakes in your own mind, stop focusing on your internal panic, and channel 100% of your energy into serving the room .

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[00:00:03] The Red Dirt Shock: Flying into remote Queensland with zero preparation time .

[00:02:11] The Hovercraft T-Rex: Laughing through the chaos of a live performance gone wrong and relying on stagecraft survival instincts .

[00:04:21] The Illusion of Ready: The neuroscience behind why we use "preparing" as a hidden commitment to delay launching .

[00:05:25] The "You'll Be Right" Method: How high-stakes leaders use low-stakes energy to regulate their team's nervous system .

[00:06:30] Stop Shaking, Feed the Puppet: Shifting your focus away from your own nerves and entirely into your message, client, or offer .

Host: Jacinda Patty

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• Command Your Presence (CYP) https://www.commandyourpresence.com/

Stop talking just to be heard . In this episode, former technologist turned professional speaker AJ breaks down why traditional executive presence is broken and why the future of leadership belongs to those who drop the robotic facade and choose to care . Moving past the superficial "look at me" stage dynamics, Jacinda and AJ dissect the physical and mental shifts required to step off the corporate hamster wheel and optimize for true humanism at work . From reading a room full of hungover executives to breaking the literal physical "box" of corporate body language, this conversation is an unfiltered masterclass in owning your story, taking up space, and creating a genuine ripple effect of impact .

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[00:01:07] The Noise in the Notes: Why the greatest speakers spend an extraordinary amount of time listening, not talking .

[00:02:22] The Melodic Instrument: Breaking down the vocal range and how corporate trends are killing our natural inflections . [00:04:47] The Death of the Ego: AJ shares the exact transition from wanting 300 people to look at him, to measuring success by how he supports the room . [00:13:58] The 3-Step Presence Framework: Step-by-step tactics to find where your audience is at, serve them, and accept their pace .

[00:18:47] The Heart-Centered Differentiator: The critical operational difference between empty pandemic empathy and real, actionable care .

[00:25:48] The Shoulder-Line Trap: The fascinating physical manifestation of corporate compartmentalization—why executives never raise their hands above their shoulders .

[00:36:04] Slaughtered in the Lion's Den: The brutal reality of trying to humanize a top-tier Melbourne law firm and getting fired before reaching home .

[00:43:24] Garbage Industry Advice: Why the standard "speak on every stage" rhetoric will stagnate your career growth . [00:51:12] The Video Ref Analogy: Why relying on AI and analytics to pre-read your audience creates a barrier to real-time performance adaptability .

Key Takeaways:

The 3-Step Connection: You must diagnose where the room is, determine how to serve them, and remain entirely at peace with their speed of execution Empathy vs. Active Care: Empathy is just understanding where someone is at; care is the physical action of getting into the trenches with them . Break the Box: Rigid corporate environments condition you to limit your physical range . Embodying authority means breaking out of "robot land" .

Connect with AJ

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• Website: https://ajkulatunga.com/

Host: Jacinda Patty

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• Command Your Presence (CYP) https://www.commandyourpresence.com/

In a world obsessed with $1 billion valuations, authors Wenee Yap-Derricott and Thomas Derricott bring a grounded, gritty, and uniquely Asia-Pacific perspective to the founder's journey . This isn't a lecture on tech, it's a masterclass in Business Reincarnation. We dive into the "Specialist Trap," the "Pyramid of Priorities," and why your physical and emotional work ethic is Australia's greatest global export . If you're a solo entrepreneur feeling the burn, this episode is your map to finding joy in the suffering and building a business that actually makes money . SCENE MAP [00:01:25] The Silicon Valley Mirage: Why chasing $1B valuations is the "wrong dream" for APAC founders . [00:03:15] The Spartan Method: How Australia's capital efficiency creates the world's toughest warriors . [00:11:58] The Specialist Trap: Why lawyers and experts often become the biggest "flame outs" in business . [00:13:20] The Pyramid of Priorities: How to triage today's cashflow vs. tomorrow's legal structures . [00:21:40] "Never Say the Worst Thing": The high-stakes relationship advice that saved a marriage and a book deal . [00:43:55] AI vs. EI: Why emotional intelligence—not artificial mimicry—is the survival tool for 2030 . Connect with Wenee Derricott-Yap and Thomas Derricott

• LinkedIn: Wenee / Thomas

• Book: Riding the Unicorn: The Startup Guide You'll Want to Read

Host: Jacinda Patty

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• Command Your Presence (CYP) https://www.commandyourpresence.com/

True presence isn't the absence of nerves; it's the mastery of your internal physics when the external world is literal chaos . Drawing from a high-stakes circus performance at the Canberra Floriade festival—balancing on a colleague's skull amidst screaming children and festival crowds—Jacinda Patty breaks down why leadership is a feat of acrobatics . Whether you are 10 feet in the air or in a high-pressure boardroom, your ability to stay centered depends on three physical pillars: breath, gaze, and the courage to stop micromanaging your balance . SCENE MAP [00:00] The Circus Scene: Performing a "boat" act in the middle of a chaotic flower festival . [00:02] Physics of Panic: Why driving your weight through your "center line" is your only safety . [00:04] Leadership Alignment: Why focusing on the "crowd's reaction" causes a fall in business and acrobatics . [00:06] The Delegation Lesson: How micromanaging your balance makes it impossible for your team to support you . [00:08] The Head-to-Head Framework: Breathing regulation, avoiding overcorrection, and the power of the gaze . [00:11] Proprioception: Maintaining situational awareness without losing your line .

Host: Jacinda Patty

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• Command Your Presence (CYP) https://www.commandyourpresence.com/

We call it "performance integrity," but often it's just the dangerous lie of "you'll be right" while you are drowning . In this episode, I'm joined by Tim Hewson, founder of Mongrels Men, to discuss the brutal reality behind the corporate mask . We pull back the curtain on why "Yoga Thursdays" won't fix burnout and how to move from performative wellbeing to radical, human-centric leadership . If you're a leader carrying the weight of the world, this episode is your blueprint for building resilience that actually lasts .

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[00:26:10] The force to change: how divorce and the desire to be a present father forced a total reinvention of self.

[00:26:10] Positive Masculinity: Redefining the narrative through storytelling and intergenerational connection .

[00:44:00] The Trainer's Framework: Tim's 3-step protocol for building mental resilience .

[00:54:30] 2026 Leadership: Why vulnerability and self-awareness are now your most critical professional assets .

Connect with Tim Hewson

• LinkedIn: [Link]

• Website : Mongrels Men

Host: Jacinda Patty

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• Command Your Presence (CYP) https://www.commandyourpresence.com/

Financial advice doesn't have to be "fancy and unapproachable." In this episode, Trish Gregory, a specialist in life and business insurance, reveals her transition from a "prim and proper" corporate suit to an authentic, high-impact communicator . We dive deep into why "Imposter Syndrome" is actually a social phenomenon, the physical discipline of stage presence (yes, posture matters for more than just photos), and why the future of leadership belongs to those who "catch up to kindness" .

Trish shares how her "incapable of lying" nature became her greatest professional asset and why being yourself, whether you like bees, chickens, or just being real, is the ultimate way to command your presence .

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[00:01:45] The Advisor Exodus: The alarming reality of why 10,000+ financial advisors have left the industry due to changing rules and "hoops" to jump through .

[00:05:30] The Authenticity Shift: Why being "incapable of lying" became Trish's greatest professional asset, and why she ditched the "prim and proper" corporate act .

[00:13:30] Syndrome vs. Phenomenon: A masterclass in re-framing imposter feelings as a societal byproduct rather than a personal defect .

[00:20:45] Leadership 2026: Trish's take on why AI won't replace you, but a leader using AI will—plus, why being a "sh*t boss" is no longer an option . [00:33:45] The High-Pressure Panel: Managing the "mental ramble" when you realize you've left your notes behind on stage . [00:42:30] The Posture Pivot: How Trish's conscious decision to sit up straight for "good photos" accidentally became her signature sign of authority . Connect with Trish Gregory

• LinkedIn: [Link]

• Podcast: "Money Talk Real Talk" with Suzanne Alexander

Host: Jacinda Patty

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• Command Your Presence (CYP) https://www.commandyourpresence.com/

True presence isn't just visual or verbal, it's energy . In this episode, Jacinda sits down with Chaldee, an energy healer and teacher who transitioned from a stifled corporate career to a life of "Oprah moments" and spiritual authority . Chaldee breaks down how to reclaim your right to be seen, the necessity of building a "Tribe" and the visceral reality of commanding space when the stakes are literally life and death . If you've been playing in the shadows, it's time to step into the light and learn how to physically and energetically own every room you walk into .

Guest: Chaldee Amelia

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• Instagram: @chaldeeamelia

Host: Jacinda Patty

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• Command Your Presence (CYP): www.commandyourpresence.com

The world isn't just challenging; right now, the mood is heavy and, frankly, fucked . In this episode, therapist and author Andrew Sloan explains why smart, capable leaders feel like they are drowning despite their proficiency . We move beyond "toxic positivity" to explore the structural systems of disconnection that have unplugged us from our own nervous systems . Andrew reveals how to move from the "accelerator pedal" of stress into the "green zone" of ventral vagal safety, the literal neurobiological infrastructure of presence . This isn't a mindset talk; it's a survival guide for remaining human in a digital-chaos-wrapped world . 00:01:15 – Why "Modern Challenges" wasn't enough: Choosing the title "Why Things Feel F**ked" to match the world's heavy mood . 00:04:30 – The Power of Pantone: Using color (Pantone 801) as a tool for commanding presence and communicating calm through a book cover . 00:08:30 – The Crisis of Disconnection: Why leadership burnout is a structural result of hundreds of years of systemic disconnection . 00:16:30 – The Neuroscience of Presence: Moving from "Go Mode" into the Ventral Vagal complex—the biological infrastructure of safety . 00:27:00 – Invitational Language: How changing your vocabulary from "should" to "invite" shifts power dynamics from domination to connection . 00:33:45 – Four Survival Guides for 2026: A roadmap for uniqueness, choice-making, high-quality relationships, and nature . 00:51:30 – The 30-Minute Presence Rule: Why "slowing the fuck down" in one-on-ones is the number one driver of high performance . 00:58:30 – Befriending the Imposter: Why you should treat procrastination and your inner critic as "wisdom" rather than enemies . 01:07:30 – The Thrill of a Frill: Andrew shares a vulnerable story of personal uniqueness and how it catalyzed deep presence in a room of 130 people .

Guest: Andrew Sloan

• Website: www.andrewsloan.com.au

• Instagram: @hello_andrewsloan
• The Book: Why Things Feel F**ked (Available at www.andrewsloan.com.au/my-book and major retailers)

Host: Jacinda Patty

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• Command Your Presence (CYP): www.commandyourpresence.com