In this episode, Susan Lager deals with the seven most common mistakes couples make when trying to have productive conversations, especially about emotionally loaded topics. Based on her many years of experience as a couples therapist, she teaches listeners (in an "open microphone" format), some key 5-minute remedies for better clarity about intentions, improved listening, enhanced mutual understanding, and better problem solving. Callers are encouraged to share specific communication dilemmas they have with their partners, and will be guided through role-play "fixes". Call in and join the conversation with your own communication problem - you'll see you're not alone!