We live in a culture where individuality and authenticity are, quite possibly, our highest values. None of us want to see ourselves as “just like everyone else.” We want to be independent thinkers who carve out our own path, and (as Fleetwood Mac might have said) “go your own way.” Philosopher Byung-Chul Han refers to modern people as “entrepreneurs of the self”.
We all want to be our authentic selves, which we mostly take to mean - I want to be “true to myself”. Whatever desire I feel, I don’t want to repress it. Whatever feels right to me at the moment, it would be a “lie” to not act on it. And most importantly, other people can’t tell me who I am or who I should be.
But interactive life with God is the journey of being shaped in the image of Christ. Which doesn’t erase our individual identity, but it incorporates our identity “in Christ”. We join our lives to the life He’s currently living. This is a process of allowing the Spirit of Christ to be fully embodied in our thoughts, words, and actions.
And since our faith is embodied, we often need examples to follow. Though Christ is certainly our prime example, there’s something helpful about having examples before us in our Church community who can help us to see what Christ-likeness looks like in a lived-example.
In Paul’s letter to the Philippians, his focus has been about the need for the church to be united, and this will only happen when each person exhibits the humility of Christ - doing everything without grumbling or selfish ambition. Paul then concludes this section by saying that he will be sending two of his partners in ministry - Timothy and Epaphroditus - to the Philippian church.
Paul says of Timothy, “I have no one else like him, who will show genuine concern for your welfare. For everyone looks out for their own interests, not those of Jesus Christ.” Timothy is a living example of the others-centered, Christ-like humility that Paul has been saying is critical for the unity of the Philippian church. If Paul can’t be with the Philippians himself, he wants Timothy to lead the way for them in this.
Epaphroditus had actually been sent to Paul from the Philippian Church to aid Paul in prison, and now Paul is sending him back. Epaphroditus has now suffered for the cause of Christ, and can be an example to and leader in this Philippian that might now (or soon will be) facing persecution. Paul knows the value of embodied examples of the faith, so that believers can follow in their footsteps.
And even though we live in a culture of individuality and authenticity, which may not value following the example of others, this is a critical part of our discipleship to Jesus.