Our lives are full of “have to’s” and “got to’s” and “need to’s”.
Let’s face it we are busy people; things to do, places to go, people to see.
What we say and how we say has an impact on our attitude to what we are doing.
“Got to”, “have to”, “must do” “need to” all imply no choice; a compulsion to comply. They bring with them a reluctance and a lack of will.
Creating at a subconscious level, a negativity and a submission to victimhood, and this will play out at a conscious level too.
So, let us change the inner dialogue. Let us challenge that negativity. Let us turn this submissive mindset to a positive, constructive and grateful mindset; after all , we do have a choice.