The pain you may feel after disappointment can be real.  Many times our brains will process many of those experiences as events that undermine how we move forward with being vulnerable.  This episode reflects on how Roxy and Bella guard/protect theirselves when it comes to being disappointed while dating. Communication sometimes is lacking, which can ultimately help with the actions of being let down.  After that continuously happens, it becomes difficult to have high expectations for someone who is looking to care about you. 

"Be a man of your word!"