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I'm excited to be lauching my.forst coaching webinar and i want you to be a oart of it. The Webinar aims to deliver an interactive and reflective session, where you experience coaching first hand, for free. You have nothing to lose, connect with me via email to receive your registration link and invite. [email protected]

Bad attitude vs defensive attitude

It's easy to dismiss someone as having a 'bad' attitude as opposed to showing an interest to know why they behave in a certain manner. We all have past experiences, and some lend themselves to a negative emotion and we build emotional walls. But, by not dealing with the defense mechanisms our emotions put in place, we're subjecting ourselves to an uncontrolled state of being, resulting in what others perceive as a 'bad' attitude.

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Season 2 kicks off with a segment called 'Marriage and Me'. My co-anchor is my wife Zureenah Sulaiman. This segment is our journey as a married couple, sharing topics around marriage that could assist you, either in your marriage or decision towards 'I do'. Be sure to follow me on Facebook 'Objective Coaching' for video updates and inspiration. Register for my Free Webinar Caoching session happening soon...

We can easily distinguish between rich and poor, based in monetary value, we can also see who's perhaps hungry and full - it's visible, tangible and perceivable.  But what if I told you that even a rich person can be poor and starved, and a poor person can be rich and fulfilled...  Today's reflection is about mental well-being, power and richness.  To bring meaning to this I always refer to a famous passage reading by Robert Kiyosaky, author of Rich dad Poor dad - if you're faced with adversity, saying 'I can't...' starves your mental capacity, as opposed to saying 'how can I...?' which stimulates your mental capacity and fulfillment - the one question takes away any responsibility and ownership and the other places you in a position of control.

So how mentally poor and starved are you, when faced with adversity?

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Emotional fear can cause paralysis of the mind, that can leave you feeling 'stuck', unable to progress and resulting in unsettled feelings and anxiety. Visit and like my Facebook page - Objective Coaching - Independence, Authenticity, Purpose - for daily inspiration and videos. Reserve your seat for my upcoming Webinar Masterclass and don't forget to book your Free 1st session today!

With rach experience we have an associated emotion and feeling that mold our overall character. Negative experiences are usually associated with an instict to protect, building walls and defense mechanisms that 'protect' our true and vulnerable self - have you built up defenses that hamper your authentic self? Visit and like my Facebook page - Objective Coaching - Independence, Authenticity, Purpose - for daily inspiration and videos. Reserve your seat for my upcoming Webinar Masterclass and don't forget to book your Free 1st session today!

Since birth you have learnt how to navigate life through lessons, observations, and experiences. Up until a point where you question and understand why you act and feel a certain way, you're operating on what you've inherited - so does it serve you with healthy or unhealthy emotions and behavior? Visit and like my Facebook page - Objective Coaching - Independence, Authenticity, Purpose - for daily inspiration and videos. Reserve your seat for my upcoming Webinar Masterclass and don't forget to book your Free 1st session today!

We use a flashlight to light up the dark and shine one a path or place we want to venture or see. Similarly we have a mental flashlight used on ourselves and others, either by shining and focusing in negative or positive aspects - what do you shine your flashlight on? Visit and like my Facebook page - Objective Coaching - Independence, Authenticity, Purpose - for daily inspiration and videos. Reserve your seat for my upcoming Webinar Masterclass and don't forget to book your Free 1st session today!

Do you comply to gender specific roles or can your relationship do with a difference towards your co-journey? Visit and like my Facebook page - Objective Coaching - Independence, Authenticity, Purpose - for daily inspiration and videos. Reserve your seat for my upcoming Webinar Masterclass and don't forget to book your Free 1st session today!

We all have the same 24hours in a day, but we use it differently - wasting it, running out of it, spending it on people, places and situations....but how often is your time used to satisfy your authentic self? Is your time being wasted on people and places in expectation or because you want to be there? Visit and like my Facebook page - Objective Coaching - Independence, Authenticity, Purpose - for daily inspiration and videos. Reserve your seat for my upcoming Webinar Masterclass and don't forget to book your Free 1st session today!