Have you ever said, “I’m just being real” or “I’m speaking the truth in love”? We’ve all been there — but sometimes what we call truth is really frustration, opinion, or insecurity in disguise.
In this episode, Jennifer Spivey unpacks what it really means to “speak the truth in love” the way Paul intended — with humility, grace, and identity rooted in Christ. Learn how to use your words to heal instead of harm, and discover how living from security instead of insecurity frees you from competition and comparison in ministry.
When we speak truth with love, our words build up, not tear down. Our leadership becomes safe, not stressful. And our ministries begin to reflect the heart of Jesus.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why “speaking the truth” isn’t about being blunt — it’s about being Christlike.
How insecurity fuels competition in ministry.
What the story of Haman in Esther teaches us about pride and comparison.
How to use your words to build others up in their God-given identity.
Let’s keep this conversation going! Leave a comment below — what helps you keep your words rooted in love and humility?
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