Series: What I Wish I Knew Before Getting Married

In this episode, we’re diving into a big question: How do we grow in intimacy as a couple?

Do you find yourself avoiding difficult conversations with your spouse—especially around intimacy? And what does healthy sexual intimacy really look like?

Physical closeness is one way we express love, but sexual intimacy is more than that — it's a language, — a form of communication. So, let’s talk.

Our host, Hosanna Nazar, is joined by Raymond and Jenny Teo, founders of Ten Butter Fingers and a couple married for 25 years. They encourage couples to explore and learn together. Even after marriage, it’s okay to say, “We’re still figuring it out.” Because intimacy is not about pressure or performance —it’s about growing in trust, humility, and openness.

▶ Watch the Connect2 Vodcast series to engage further—just click the link to uncover so much more.

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Marriage is one of the most rewarding things in life. Yet navigating marriage as newlyweds or an engaged couple can sometimes get overwhelming. Whether it's managing expectations of the in-laws, getting a good grasp on your family finances, or establishing good habits of communication and healthy conflict. Visit www.family.org.sg/C2MarriagePrep for more information today!

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Series: What I Wish I Knew Before Getting Married

In this episode, we’re tackling a question many couples wrestle with: How can I get along with my in-laws?

As we step into fresh roles in marriage and family life, it’s important to remember that our parents and in-laws are also navigating their own transitions. Just as we were never formally taught how to be spouses or parents, they too were never taught how to be mothers-or fathers-in-law. We’re all learning—together.

Join our host, Hosanna, as she speaks with Raymond and Jenny Teo—founders of Ten Butter Fingers and married for 25 years—as they recall how managing in-law relationships was a major source of tension early in their marriage. With many responsibilities, even scheduling a simple meal with both sets of parents felt overwhelming—and they realised they had little time for themselves. But learning to see things from their parents’ perspective reshaped how they responded. They chose to love and honour their parents while finding solutions that worked for their family.

Watch the Connect2 Vodcast series to engage further—just click the link to uncover so much more.

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Marriage is one of the most rewarding things in life. Yet navigating marriage as newlyweds or an engaged couple can sometimes get overwhelming. Whether it's managing expectations of the in-laws, getting a good grasp on your family finances, or establishing good habits of communication and healthy conflict. Visit www.family.org.sg/C2MarriagePrep for more information today!

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify, Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.

You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Please note that if you are based in Singapore, as a donor-supported charity with Institution of a Public Character status, all monthly and one-time donations of $50 and above, will qualify for 250% tax deduction.

Series: What I Wish I Knew Before Getting Married

From budgeting styles to spending habits, our personal views on money shape expectations in marriage—and those expectations can sometimes lead to tension.

But what if financial conflict is actually an opportunity to pause and ask, “Where is this coming from?”

In this episode, we explore the idea of stewardship—using money wisely while learning to appreciate how your partner expresses love through financial decisions. It’s not just about dollars and cents; it’s about values, communication, and trust.

Our host, Hosanna Nazar, is joined by Raymond and Jenny Teo, who are married for 25 years and are the founders of Ten Butter Fingers. They share how they’ve come to see that while money can bring comfort and even happiness, true joy comes from shared values, intentional time together, and wise choices—not just spending.

▶ Watch the Connect2 Vodcast series to engage further—just click the link to uncover so much more.

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Marriage is one of the most rewarding things in life. Yet navigating marriage as newlyweds or an engaged couple can sometimes get overwhelming. Whether it's managing expectations of the in-laws, getting a good grasp on your family finances, or establishing good habits of communication and healthy conflict. Visit www.family.org.sg/C2MarriagePrep for more information today!

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify, Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.

You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Please note that if you are based in Singapore, as a donor-supported charity with Institution of a Public Character status, all monthly and one-time donations of $50 and above, will qualify for 250% tax deduction.

Series: What I Wish I Knew Before Getting Married

Managing household responsibilities isn’t just about splitting tasks—it’s about creating a home that reflects what truly matters in your marriage. It’s about tapping into each other’s strengths, communicating expectations clearly, and acknowledging the often- unspoken mental load that one spouse may carry.

Join our host, Hosanna Nazar, as she sits down with Raymond and Jenny Teo, founders of Ten Butter Fingers, married for 25 years. They share how chores are less about keeping score and more about teamwork in different seasons of life. Whether it’s reassessing priorities or outsourcing when needed, the goal is to build a home that supports connection, rest, and purpose—without letting housework become the main thing that defines your relationship.

▶ Watch the Connect2 Vodcast series to engage further—just click the link to uncover so much more.

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Marriage is one of the most rewarding things in life. Yet navigating marriage as newlyweds or an engaged couple can sometimes get overwhelming. Whether it's managing expectations of the in-laws, getting a good grasp on your family finances, or establishing good habits of communication and healthy conflict. Visit www.family.org.sg/C2MarriagePrep for more information today!

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify, Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.

You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Please note that if you are based in Singapore, as a donor-supported charity with Institution of a Public Character status, all monthly and one-time donations of $50 and above, will qualify for 250% tax deduction.

How do you build a marriage that feels safe—physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually—as you prioritise open and honest communication?

In this episode, host June sits down with couple therapists and clinical psychologists Jared and Joyce Tan to explore how couples can process their thoughts and feelings and express the deepest parts of themselves to their spouse. 

They discuss why emotional safety is essential for intimacy and growth, and how self-awareness and attunement help couples navigate differences and strengthen connection. The conversation also highlights how unspoken expectations and family backgrounds can create emotional distance—and how understanding each other’s inner world can build a stronger, more secure bond. 

Safety in marriage isn’t about avoiding conflict, but about cultivating care, humility, and repair. Whether you're adjusting to new rhythms or working through challenges, this episode offers practical insights to help you create a relationship where both partners feel seen, supported, and safe. 

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify, Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.  

You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Please note that if you are based in Singapore, as a donor-supported charity with Institution of a Public Character status, all monthly and one-time donations of $50 and above, will qualify for 250% tax deduction.

“Self-care is about bringing our best selves into a healthy, shared marriage space.” – Jared

“We’re relational beings—sharing our burdens supports well-being.” – Joyce

In this episode, host June chats with couple guests Jared and Joyce Tan, both trained couples' therapists and clinical psychologists, about the importance of self-awareness and mutual accountability in marriage. They explore how expressing personal needs and navigating life’s transitions can strengthen connection.

Caring for yourself is not selfish—it’s essential. Everyone recharges differently, so take time to reflect and reconnect. Self-care can be a shared journey that uplifts both you and your spouse, creating space for deeper connection, growth, and meaningful service to others.

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify, Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.  

You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Please note that if you are based in Singapore, as a donor-supported charity with Institution of a Public Character status, all monthly and one-time donations of $50 and above, will qualify for 250% tax deduction.

What does it mean to raise a family while growing your marriage partnership? 

In this episode, we're joined by Mark and Sue, counsellors from The Social Quotient, whose work focuses on marriage and parenting. They share how embracing complementary roles as father and mother strengthens both their parenting and their marital bond. 

“That’s the legacy we hope our children carry into their own relationships and marriages—a strong foundation of love, trust, understanding, and mutual respect.” – Mark and Sue 

Their conversation highlights the importance of putting the marriage first—modeling unity and commitment that children can carry into their own future relationships. It’s a reminder that when couples grow together, the whole family thrives. 

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify, Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.  

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In this episode, we take a closer look at what male leadership in the home really means—leading not with dominance, but with humility, love, and respect. We're joined once again by Mark and Sue, counsellors from The Social Quotient, whose work focuses on marriage and parenting. They share practical wisdom and insights from their own marriage journey.

We talk about how both husbands and wives have a part to play in creating a balanced and loving home.

Sue reminds us, “Even when things are not done perfectly, a thankful heart can build up rather than tear down.”

And Mark shares, “Husbands, love your wives—even in their most emotional moments.”

This conversation encourages couples to reflect on how mutual love and respect, even when goals are not aligned, can help anchor the marriage in purpose, empathy, and partnership.

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify, Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.  

You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Please note that if you are based in Singapore, as a donor-supported charity with Institution of a Public Character status, all monthly and one-time donations of $50 and above, will qualify for 250% tax deduction.

Because the hardest conversations often lead to the strongest connections. 

In your marriage, do you sometimes forget to affirm your spouse or show that meaningful conversations matter? Connection takes intention—we need to practice, make time, and walk through it together. 

If you’ve ever struggled to express what’s on your mind—especially during tough decisions—and found yourself stuck in blame or misunderstanding, you’re not alone. 

In this episode, Delia continues her conversation with Wai Hoong, a Life and Marriage Coach. They explore how asking the right questions and truly listening can spark curiosity, deepen understanding, and rebuild emotional safety. Vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s the doorway to a stronger, more connected marriage. 

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“I was all ready to quit after seven years of marriage. The endless communication breakdowns, deep-seated misunderstandings, and growing resentment in me has taken its toll.” 

- Tricia (Name has been edited to protect the client’s privacy)

Life can be overwhelming. Having a listening ear can bring relief, help you feel supported, and improve relationships. Make an appointment with a counsellor today. Find our more www.family.org.sg/counselling.

Fees apply.

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify, Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.  

You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Please note that if you are based in Singapore, as a donor-supported charity with Institution of a Public Character status, all monthly and one-time donations of $50 and above, will qualify for 250% tax deduction.

Why do some conversations with your spouse feel so difficult? 

Is it because we assume certain intentions—or are we avoiding conflict out of fear of what might happen? 

In this episode, Delia speaks with Wai Hoong, a Life and Marriage Coach, to explore what truly makes difficult conversations challenging. They share insights on how assumptions, fear, and unspoken values can create tension, and how staying open and curious can lead to deeper understanding. 

Discover practical ways to keep communication flowing and learn how to approach tough topics with courage and compassion. You don’t have to avoid the hard stuff—there’s a way through it. 

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“I was all ready to quit after seven years of marriage. The endless communication breakdowns, deep-seated misunderstandings, and growing resentment in me has taken its toll.” 

- Tricia (Name has been edited to protect the client’s privacy)  

Life can be overwhelming. Having a listening ear can bring relief, help you feel supported, and improve relationships. Make an appointment with a counsellor today. Fees apply. Find our more www.family.org.sg/counselling. 

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Sign up here to create an account with Focus on the Family Singapore to access a wide range of marriage and parenting resources designed to nurture and strengthen your family relationships.

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify, Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/connect2podcast to share with your friends.  

You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Please note that if you are based in Singapore, as a donor-supported charity with Institution of a Public Character status, all monthly and one-time donations of $50 and above, will qualify for 250% tax deduction.