💬 Show Notes

In this episode of Connected Parenting Minute, Will and CarrieAnn Standfest return for the much-anticipated part two of their brain science series. They continue to unravel the mysteries of the brain, focusing on the powerful concept of 'flipping one's lid.' With their signature blend of warmth and wisdom, the Standfests explain how the brain's processing systems—from the survival-oriented brainstem to the emotional limbic system and the logical cortex—can sometimes go offline during moments of stress, leading children (and adults) to react in survival mode, unable to access reasoning or language. They introduce the hand model of the brain, a simple yet profound tool to visualize these brain systems and their responses.

Will and CarrieAnn also provide practical, real-world strategies for parents to catch early signs of distress in their children, engage their thinking brains, and help them (and themselves) regulate before a full-blown lid flip occurs. They emphasize the importance of practicing these techniques outside the moment of crisis, ensuring that both parents and children are equipped to handle stress with grace and understanding. Whether it's using proprioceptive inputs like deep breathing and oral stimuli or modeling self-regulation by taking a step back during heated moments, this episode is filled with actionable advice.

Tune in to learn how to foster a sense of safety and resilience in your family, and remember, it's not about being perfect—it's about getting better one connected parenting minute at a time.

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In this brainy episode of Connected Parenting Minute, Will and CarrieAnn Standfest unpack the fascinating world of brain science and its profound impact on parenting. Ever wonder why your reactions and your children's behaviors unfold the way they do? The Standfests delve into the intricate workings of the brain, from the survival instincts housed in the brainstem to the emotional connections of the limbic system, and finally to the logical reasoning of the cortex. They illuminate how understanding these systems can foster empathy, grace, and better parenting strategies. Whether it's decoding a child's meltdown or fostering a safe environment for growth, this episode offers a crash course in brain science that will leave you equipped to navigate the complex pathways of parenting with newfound insight. Plus, they tease a part two that promises to introduce a handy model for remembering these systems. Don't miss this enlightening dive into the neurological underpinnings of connected parenting—it's an education for the mind and heart, one minute at a time.

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In this episode of Connected Parenting Minute, join Will and CarrieAnn Standfest as they explore the fine line between sweating the small stuff and setting healthy expectations for our children. They share personal stories and insights on how our reactions as parents become the blueprint for our children's sense of normal. From managing time to the nuances of parenting both biological and adopted children, the Standfests discuss the importance of recognizing our triggers and teaching our children to navigate life's little challenges. Whether it's dealing with slow mornings or learning to set the tone for a peaceful home, this episode is packed with thoughtful strategies and a reminder that every parent's journey is unique. Tune in as they also tease upcoming content, including their experience with a transformative training and their first speaking engagement. Remember, in the world of connected parenting, it's not about perfection, but progress—one minute at a time.

Season 2 Episode 8 of the Connected Parenting Minute Podcast

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In this enlightening episode, Will and CarrieAnn Standfest dive into the world of overreactions in children and how parents can skilfully navigate these emotional outbursts. From the cereal aisle meltdown to the scraped knee in the park, they explore why kids (and yes, adults too) sometimes respond more intensely than a situation warrants. The Standfests discuss the importance of emotional vocabulary, the science behind our brain's reactions, and the role of parents as calm co-regulators. With a blend of humor and practical advice, they offer insights into recognizing the difference between big and small problems, expanding your child's ability to express their feelings, and the patience required to see the fruits of connected parenting. Tune in to learn how to foster resilience and understanding in your family, one Connected Parenting Minute at a time.

Season 2 Episode 7 of the Connected Parenting Minute Podcast

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In this heartwarming episode, Will and CarrieAnn Standfest tackle the transformative power of the 'redo' in parenting. Discover how this simple yet profound tool can build resilience and teach children that mistakes aren't failures, but opportunities to learn and grow. The Standfests candidly share personal anecdotes, revealing how redos have shaped their family dynamics, fostering an environment where it's safe to be imperfect. They also turn the mirror on themselves, discussing the importance of parents giving themselves permission to try again, modeling humility and continuous improvement to their children. This episode is a treasure trove of insights for any parent seeking to create a nurturing home where everyone gets a second chance to get it right.

Season 2 Episode 6 of the Connected Parenting Minute Podcast

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Navigating the dinner table with a picky eater can feel like a culinary obstacle course. In this insightful episode, Will and CarrieAnn Standfest delve into the personal nature of food preferences and the challenges that arise when children turn up their noses at the family meal. They share their own experiences and practical strategies for dealing with picky eaters, emphasizing the importance of understanding that food issues are deeply personal and how they can be tied to past experiences.

Season 2 Episode 5 of the Connected Parenting Minute Podcast

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How do you parent 8 kids and stay (somewhat) sane?! In this fun and relatable episode, Will and CarrieAnn Standfest give fellow parents an inside look at the loving chaos of their big family. With plenty of humor about parenting fails and poignant honesty about struggles, they share their top 3 tips for balancing it all. Learn how shifting your mindset to let go of being "everything" to your kids frees you up for self-care and focusing on each child's unique needs. You'll come away laughing, nodding along, and reminded that imperfect parents can keep getting better, one Connected Parenting Minute at a time.

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Season 2 Episode 4 of the Connected Parenting Minute Podcast

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Emotions hijack logic, making it hard to respond well in heated parenting moments. In this episode, Will and CarrieAnn Standfest discuss the concept of "Scripting our Response." When we as parents practice empathetic phrases, we can avoid knee-jerk reactions when tensions run high.

As a parent, you get to decide how you react in a stressful situation, so make a plan to respond in a way you are proud of later.

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Season 2 Episode 3 of the Connected Parenting Minute Podcast

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We all want to be the best parents we can be, but how do we know if we're succeeding? In the latest episode of the Connected Parenting Minute, Will and CarrieAnn Standfest provide thoughtful insight into this parenting dilemma we all face. Sharing vulnerable stories and practical wisdom from their own parenting journey, they discuss the flawed and even harmful ways we often judge our parental success - by our children's behavior, other's opinions, or vague societal standards. With empathy and wisdom, they encourage parents to focus on their own development, rather than judging themselves by their child's behavior. By modeling mindfulness, empathy and compassion for our kids and ourselves, we create an environment where the whole family can flourish. Tune in for an uplifting and validating conversation on redefining parental success.

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Season 2 Episode 2 of the Connected Parenting Minute Podcast

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Every parent struggles when their child has a meltdown, or throws a fit/tantrum. It can be a difficult thing to handle with connection. When is a tantrum not a tantrum? When it's a fear based response. Listen in to this episode as Will and CarrieAnn Standfest discuss meltdowns, tantrums, and how we can respond to them as connected parents. Plus, enter our coffee giveaway!

Episode 1 of Season 2 of the Connected Parenting Minute Podcast.