The Parenting Reframe

Consequences vs. Punishments: Why Kids Need Boundaries, Not Fear


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What You’ll Learn in This Episode
  • The key differences between consequences and punishments
  • Why kids need consequences to feel safe and learn boundaries
  • How punishments often come from a place of reactivity and dysregulation
  • The role of natural consequences (like forgetting a water bottle) and logical consequences (thoughtful parent responses)
  • Why the boundary itself often is the consequence
  • How to implement breaks/resets (instead of timeouts) to help kids regulate
  • The importance of creating safe struggles to build resilience
  • When redirection works best (and why it backfires with older kids)
  • Scripts and phrases you can use to give your kids autonomy while holding limits
 Resources & Links
  • Explore coaching and parenting support at The Parenting Reframe
  • Book a free discovery call to see if 1:1 coaching is right for your family

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