Many ladies are putting men first in their lives instead of chasing their paper and being a money maker..Stay focus on everything you do in life. Don't waste time.

The aged man has low self-esteem...many dont groom anymore or clothe themselves..You still have a chance for a new life.

It's so important to keep a positive relationship. When things go wrong stay positive..when the marriage or relationship is not good stay positive.

Many women have wasted their hard-earned money on a man that didn't even want them. A good woman get used all the time by men that do not want her. he moves in with her, cooks her food uses her finances when he knows he doesn't love her or want her.

Making and/or carrying out threats to do something to harm you. Threatening to commit suicide. To report to welfare. Making you drop charges.

The abuser will prevent you from getting a job or keeping one. Making her an allowance Taking her money.

In domestic violence the abuser treats you like a servant. Being the one to define men and women roles. Makes all the big decisions.

The abuser will use threats and intimidation to take the children..

Making light of the abuse and not taking her concerns about it seriously. Many abusers have denied the abuse of their partner.

Some women have been isolated from their abuser. Isolated from family, friends, education etc..