I'm guessing that most of us have heard the phrase "contention is of the devil."  But why is that?  Contention is different than disagreement, and understanding that difference can make a big difference.

In today's episode, we will talk about some of the main elements that make contention more damaging than disagreement and what we can do when we feel contention towards our spouse.    

We will also explore three ways to communicate our own opinions that are different from our spouse's in a way that is healthy, respectful, and free from contention.  We will finish up the episode by discussing the sad and far reaching effects of one couple's contention, and challenge ourselves to do better.

What will you stir up after listening to this episode?  Contention or compassion?  Choose wisely, as it will have a ripple out effect on your own family, and then others.