Episode 31: Control vs. Capitulation

-        Cyndi Doyle, law enforcement officer’s wife and licensed professional counselor, talks about how control can be perceived very differently in relationships, especially with first responders.   -        Intro and Outro music by Big State “Bad Timing / Bad Luck” -        Control Versus Capitulation: Perception, Need, Unhealthy Signs -        Are You Controlling or Not: 1. Do you make a request or demand? 2. Are you stating any feelings? 3. State Your Need. 4. Be Ready to Compromise. -        If You’re Capitulating: 1. Get Curious. 2. Don’t Personalize. 3. Gently Confront. -        Sponge Podcast: http://code4couples.libsyn.com/episode-13-its-not-about-the-sponge-stories-we-tell -        My website: www.code4couples.com -        Social Media: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/cyndidoylelpc/           Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/cyndi_doyle/?hl=en           LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/cyndidoylelpc/           Pinterest - https://www.pinterest.com/cyndidoylelpc/pins/                         Twitter - https://twitter.com/cyndidlpc                         YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCo8lSBy00E7vJnmh096Svog