conVersate After Dark

On this episode of Conversate After Dark, Marv B and Tay get into it. Marv tells the story of the time a church acquaintance invited him to "hang out" and it turned into a pyramid scheme pitch, complete with "freedom papers." Tay explains the difference between an MLM and a pyramid scheme, and whether you can actually make money selling Pure Romance or Paparazzi. Then the gloves come off: Marv says women are the worst gift givers, and Tay isn't having it. They also cover sentimental vs. romantic, Valentine's chocolate on the 15th at half off, sexual compatibility, and the one thing neither of them would forgive.

Grown folks talk only.

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0:00Intro
0:45Enhancing sex
2:30Adult stores
4:00MLM vs. pyramid scheme
6:30Susus and the Lotus scheme
9:00"Freedom papers"
13:00Learning from others
14:30Dating an MLM seller
17:30Marv's Paparazzi story
18:30Paparazzi profits
20:30$5 birthday jewelry
22:00Christmas vs. birthdays
24:30Mismatched expectations
27:00Worst gift givers?
29:30The GoPro story
32:00Gender wars
36:00Gifts and knowing someone
38:00Sentimental vs. romantic
40:00Valentine's on the 15th
41:00Sexual compatibility
45:00The HBO movie
48:30Chemistry vs. compatibility
50:00The baby dealbreaker
54:00Marv's mom
56:00The Moesha twist
57:30Closing


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Would you stay with someone who's cheating with an AI chatbot? On this episode of Conversate After Dark, Marv B and Tay get real about what makes them hard to date, whether the man should love harder than the woman, and the new rules of modern dating in the age of AI.

They break down AI relationships and loneliness, using AI to "strategize" a relationship, who your friends should side with after a breakup, the fraternity brothers double date dilemma, when pursuit becomes stalking, why consent is as simple as one question, and the question everybody has an opinion on: would you tell your partner your body count?

Viewer discretion advised. This episode contains explicit language and adult topics.

Recorded live with the chat.

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00:00Intro
01:00Icebreaker: The Hardest Thing About Dating Us
04:00Are You Nonchalant in Relationships?
07:30Texting Styles and the One Word Response
09:15How Many Times Have You Really Been in Love?
12:00Should the Man Be More in Love?
15:15The 24 Hour Rule, Memes and Reels
19:30Would an AI Side Piece End Your Relationship?
23:30The Netflix VR Episode and the Loneliness Problem
27:30Using AI to Strategize a Relationship
31:00After the Breakup: Do Friends Have to Pick a Side?
34:30The Fraternity Brothers Double Date Dilemma
38:00The Homeboy Hug Lesson
40:30Pursuit vs. Stalking and Missing Rites of Passage
44:00Undercover Creeps and MeToo
47:00Gold Diggers, Mixed Signals and Reading the Room
49:30Consent Made Simple
51:30Body Count: Would You Tell?
54:30What Counts as Hoish Behavior? and Outro


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Everybody had rules in their 20s. A body count formula. No men with kids. A height minimum. A complexion line you would not cross. Most of those rules did not survive contact with real life.

This episode starts with an honest answer about hooking up out of boredom and turns into a full conversation about the rules we set, why we set them, and what actually happened when we tried to keep them into our 30s and 40s. Then we get into flirting, whether it can be taught, who actually has game, and the question that closes the show: would you sleep with someone to advance your career?

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00:00Cold Open and Icebreaker
01:00"Because I Was Bored": Regretted Hookups
04:00Do Women Do It Too, or Just Not Say It?
07:30The Body Count Math I Ran in My 20s
10:30Rules That Didn't Survive Your 30s
13:30When Her Kid Is Younger Than Your Grandchild
16:00Complexion Rules and What We Were Really Thinking
18:30"You're a Natural Flirt" and Other Accusations
21:30Southern Hospitality vs. Actual Flirting
23:30Can Flirting Be Taught?
26:30Who Actually Has Game
29:30Flirting Just for the Fun of It
32:00The Facebook Group Date Game
34:00Tease, or Something Worse?
35:30Sexting, Phone Sex, and Minimum-Words Texting
37:30Would You Sleep With Someone to Advance Your Career?
39:00The Coworker Who Had the Whole C-Suite Open
40:15The Adultery Double Standard
41:00Outro


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This week on conVersate After Dark: an icebreaker turns into a real conversation about what actually makes you feel loved, a "do you really know me" quiz exposes who's paying attention in a relationship, and a hypothetical about $15,000 in hidden debt turns into a full debate — lying or cheating, which one really breaks trust?

Mature audiences only. This episode contains explicit language and adult themes.

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00:00 Intro + Where to Find Us
00:45 Icebreaker: What Makes You Feel Loved?
03:30 Her Answer: Being Heard & Remembered
07:00 The Best Valentine's Day Gift Ever
09:30 The "Do You Really Know Me" Quiz
14:00 Does Weight & Looks Change How You Feel About Someone?
18:00 Big Chops, Bad Haircuts & Big Reactions
23:00 Growing Apart: When Personalities Stop Matching
26:00 Marriage Pressure & Why "I Do" Changes Everything
29:30 Would You Rather: $15K Hidden Debt or Getting Cheated On?
36:00 He Backed Out on the Last Day of Premarital Counseling
40:00 Would You Stay If the Sex Is Good But They Can't Finish You?
43:00 Grown Folks Talk: Adult Film Throwbacks
49:00 Closing Thoughts + Where to Find Us


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On this episode of conVersate After Dark, Marv and Tay reunite in person for the first time in a while and discuss childhood discoveries in their parents' rooms, whether relationship podcasts are actually helping people, agreeing to disagree vs. compromise, getting fired (twice), what it's really like dating someone who's unemployed, and an honest breakdown of their experiences with ethical non-monogamy — rules, boundaries, veto power, and where family and friends fit in.

Mature audiences only. This episode contains explicit language and adult themes.

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0:00 – Intro / catching up in person
2:30 – Icebreaker: what you found in your parents' room
10:00 – Condoms, "Spanish fly," and gas station pills
14:00 – Do relationship podcasts actually help people?
20:00 – Agree to disagree vs. compromise
26:00 – The married couple exaggeration story
30:00 – Who cleans the house / gender roles at home
33:00 – Getting fired stories (telemarketing + bowling alley)
40:00 – Dating someone unemployed: hustle vs. excuses
46:00 – "You get more women when you're unemployed"
48:00 – Ethical non-monogamy: how men vs. women approach it
54:00 – Rules, boundaries, and veto power
58:00 – Would you stay or leave: family at a swinger party
1:00:00 – Outro / where to find us


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On this episode of Conversate After Dark, Tay and Marv get into it starting with the icebreaker: the sexual thing you tried once and never needed to do again.

From there the conversation goes deep — arranged marriages and whether you'd trust your parents to pick your spouse, matchmakers vs. dating coaches, the "traditional man" trap on Married at First Sight, solo trips and ownership in marriage, Pinky Cole and Slutty Vegan's "friendly competition," MC Hammer's bankruptcy and what it actually means, family members who keep score, and a "would you or wouldn't you" celebrity crush round with Lorenz Tate, Idris Elba, Mary J. Blige, and Tocarra Jones.

Mature audiences only. This episode contains explicit language and adult themes.

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00:00 – Intro / what's up with Tay 
00:45 – Icebreaker: a sexual thing you tried but couldn't get into 
01:00 – Analingus, the "eating groceries" trend, and the 69 scam 
05:30 – Fleece Johnson and the "eating groceries" origin story 
09:00 – Anal sex, prostate talk, and the prep problem 
15:00 – Prep, gay relationships, and "I'm YOLO so I'll try it eventually" 17:00 – Arranged marriage: a coworker's story 
23:00 – Would you trust your parents to pick your spouse? 
27:00 – Hitch: dating coach vs. matchmaker 
30:00 – Being too picky, past setups gone wrong 
32:30 – Married at First Sight and matchmaking on paper 
36:00 – The "traditional man" mixup and chauvinism debate 
38:30 – Marriage dynamics: solo trips and not "owning" each other 42:00 – Pinky Cole, Slutty Vegan, and competing with your spouse 
44:00 – Vegan food rant: the "chick-naan" nachos story 
46:00 – MC Hammer's bankruptcy, explained 
48:30 – Family members who keep score 
50:00 – Would you or wouldn't you: Lorenz Tate, Idris Elba, Mary J. Blige, Tocarra Jones 
51:00 – Outro / where to find the show


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Grown and unfiltered. On this episode of Conversate After Dark, Marv and Tay get into the honest stuff most people will not say out loud. They open with a wild icebreaker, then get into exhibitionist versus voyeur, how trust and comfort unlock real intimacy, and the difference between jealousy and intuition. From there it turns into astrology, overthinking, and why everybody has a tell, before the debate everyone has an opinion on: the work wife and work husband, and whether there is always a hierarchy in relationships.

They close with the fun stuff, celebrities pulling fans on stage and where the line is, a hilarious Tank meet and greet story, celebrity crushes that get a pass, and the ultimate would you or wouldn't you: could you date someone who cannot stand your favorite artist.

Mature audiences only. This episode contains explicit language and adult themes.

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00:00 Intro and where to find us

01:00 Icebreaker: intimacy behind the wheel

04:30 Why some risks are not worth it

07:00 Exhibitionist or voyeur

10:00 Where it started, first exposure and experiences

12:30 The couple exchange and learning to trust

16:00 Comfort, initiating, and opening up about fantasies

19:00 Jealousy versus intuition

22:00 Signs, astrology, and reading people

25:00 Everybody has a tell

27:00 The work wife and work husband debate

30:00 Is there always a hierarchy

31:30 Celebrities, the stage, and where the line is

34:00 The Tank meet and greet story

37:00 Celebrity crushes and who gets a pass

39:00 Would you or wouldn't you, the favorite artist test

41:00 Stevie Wonder and the great sight debate


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On this episode of Conversate After Dark, we get into the stuff people feel but don't always say out loud. We open with doing nice things for yourself, why it's so hard for the dependable one to set a boundary, and the difference between saying no and just backing away from people.

Then it gets fun. We trade our worst date stories: the drunk date who got tossed from a Charlie Wilson show, the night a date pulled over to confront her other man, and the lunch-on-the-beach that turned out to be a married man holding checks hostage. Plus the question everybody has an answer to: would you wait if your person had to do a bid, and what does holding somebody down actually mean?

We also get into crazy-chick red flags, why "good guys finish last" is a choosing problem, and the line between hood and street.

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00:00 Welcome back and where to find us
01:00 Icebreaker: the last nice thing you did for yourself
03:30 Being a man's man and learning to receive
05:30 Caretaking and protecting your weekends
08:30 Being the dependable one who gets used
11:30 Learning to say no without backing away
15:00 Courtesy dates and who pays
17:30 The date that pulled over to confront her man
21:00 The drunk date at Charlie Wilson
26:00 Almost fighting at the Erykah Badu concert
30:00 Good dates: the WNBA night
32:00 Lunch on the beach with a married man
36:30 Would you wait if he had to do a bid?
40:00 Crazy-chick red flags and good guys finishing last
43:30 Hood vs. street, and wrap up


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Are finances tearing couples apart before they even get started? Marvin and Tay get into the real conversations people avoid: loaning money to family, who should have a say in how your partner spends, and whether marriage actually benefits men or women. Plus, would you stay in a relationship just because your family loves your partner? And what happens when your ex is still treated like family? This episode hits every nerve. Subscribe and drop your thoughts in the comments.

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00:00 Icebreaker: What Would Your Mom Disown You For?
06:45 Parenting Standards: Raising Sons and Daughters the Same Way
14:20 Loaning Money: Where Do You Draw the Line?
27:10 Should Married Couples Clear Every Financial Decision Together?
38:00 Does Marriage Benefit Men or Women More?
48:30 Would You Stay Because Your Family Loves Them?
55:15 Exes as Family: When Does It Cross the Line?
59:00 Lifestyle Misconceptions and Wrapping Up


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Once trust is broken, can you ever really get it back? Mar B and Tay go deep on rebuilding trust, lying in relationships, what it means to be equally yoked, dating someone without a strong male role model, and whether asking your partner to cut off opposite-sex friends is controlling or just smart. Plus a would you or wouldn't you that gets real very fast. This is Conversate After Dark — no filter, all the way Black.

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00:00 — Intro + show open
01:00 — Icebreaker: Once trust is broken, can you get it back?
05:30 — "I used to lie and cheat" — Mar B's confession and accountability
09:00 — Small lies vs big lies: where does it start?
13:30 — Equally yoked: background, class, and who your family approves of
20:00 — Raised on love vs raised on survival
26:00 — Would you date someone with no strong male role model?
33:00 — Cutting off opposite-sex friends: controlling or valid?
41:00 — Men see things women don't and vice versa
46:00 — Would you or wouldn't you: skinny dipping + naturist lifestyle
51:00 — Outro + where to find CVAD


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