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About Mike Montague: Mike Montague is the Director of Community Engagement and a Certified Trainer at Sandler, where he hosts the How to Succeed podcast, Sandler Summit, and other live events. He is also the author of LinkedIn The Sandler Way and numerous courses and content on sales and leadership. In addition, Mike is a podcaster at Playful Humans, a community designed to help the burned-out and bored get re-energized and engaged with life. He is a contributing writer on the Sandler blog and many other international publications, including the Thinking Bigger Business, Hubspot, and LinkedIn sales blogs. Also, he has entertained and educated thousands of audiences as a professional speaker, on-air radio personality for Mix 93.3 and 105.1 JACK FM, and MC for other live events. Mike has also been an opening act for Billy Idol and Frankie Valli as a DJ and was named one of Kansas City’s Rising Stars of Business in 2015. Check out the latest episode of our Conversational Selling podcast to learn more about Mike.
In this episode, Nancy and Mike discuss the following:
Key Takeaways:
"So as human beings, we can only keep track of about 150 to 250 relationships at any given time, we just don't have the bandwidth. And it's an interesting number. It's through a lot of scientific research. It goes back to even when humans were in tribes, wandering the planes and stuff. It was like at about 150, you see them start to split off because you just can't know everybody, and you can't keep close to relationships with that many people. So, what happens with salespeople is... They start getting weaker relationships. They start chasing weaker deals and they start missing things from their ideal clients because they're not paying attention to them. " – MIKE
"It is interesting to me that when you take yourself and your work less seriously, you can become more productive. People equate hard work with success. And I don't think that's true. It depends on the work you're doing. If you're building a deck or a brick wall - sure. The more work you do, the higher the wall is going to get, but in selling, that's not true. And selling the harder you try to sell, the less likely you are to get that. " – MIKE
“Do not be afraid to be yourself. So, whether that's in sales, in social selling with LinkedIn, or the kind of personal branding and play work that I do with Playful Humans, I think we try to fit in often too. And that makes us boring and the same as everybody else. That is when you embrace your weirdness and your silliness and your personality, and then go find people that want that rather than trying to make yourself into something that other people want. I think that's a really powerful lesson.” – MIKE
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About David H. Mattson: Dave Mattson is the CEO and President of Sandler Training, a global training organization with more than three decades of experience in providing training to companies of all sizes throughout the world. His key areas of focus are sales leadership, strategy, and client satisfaction. Since joining Sandler in 1988, Mr. Mattson has guided the firm to its position as a global provider of sales and management training with over 250 operating units in 25 countries. Under his leadership, the company has also been recognized four times in the Top 20 Sales Training Companies by TrainingIndustry.com, and nine times by Entrepreneur magazine’s “Franchise 500” as the number-one sales training company in the United States. He is a best-selling author, sales, and management thought leader, keynote speaker, and leader for sales training seminars around the world. Check out the latest episode of our Conversational Selling podcast to learn more about Dave.
In this episode, Nancy and Dave discuss the following:
Key Takeaways:
"Good salespeople are like doctors. The doctor comes in and they're super smart, but they say “Nancy, why'd you come in today? Tell me a little bit about the problem that you're experiencing”. They ask questions, right? The value of a salesperson is determined by the information you gather not dispense. If you think about that. Because of that, if I use the doctor analogy if I were to go in, the other doctor doesn't do that. They say “Nancy, thanks for coming in today. Hey, before you say a word, let me show you, my diplomas. Let me tell you about the universe that I went through. And I am at the top of my class. Let me show you the tools that I use when I operate”. And I do this data dump and you're like, who cares? Let me tell you about me because people want to tell you about their problems, right? And I think that's the difference and its maturity that happens that way." – DAVE
"So, we have rules for salespeople, and we have rules for sales leaders. And again, I go back to, you can read a 400-page book on selling. Or what we've done is we've said, look, again, Sandler teaches the way to think, not necessarily what to say. So, if you have things like, there are quick rules, like don't spill your candy in the lobby, all that simply means is go in and seek to understand. So, they're catchy phrases, so you'll remember them, but they apply to so many different scenarios in a selling situation versus a script that fits into one particular area. " – DAVE
“First of all, no one wants to be rejected. If we even go back to, you know, and I'll age myself here. We had school dances, you know, did I want somebody to hold up a sign and say Dave, please come ask me to dance? Yeah, because I was afraid to go over there and say, would you dance with me? Because I didn't want to be rejected, you know?.” – DAVE
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About LJ Sarkodee: LJ Sarkodee, is the creator of Freedom Sales School, author of Conversations that Convert, and Founder of Sales Closers. She has over 20 years of high-ticket sales closing experience, selling services from £2k ($2.5k) - £100k ($120k). LJ's expertise lies in helping businesses and entrepreneurs close more deals and generate more revenue through effective sales strategies and techniques. Her company, Sales Closers, provides a wide range of services, including sales coaching, training, and consulting, that help her clients achieve their sales goals and grow their businesses. She hired and led virtual sales teams around the globe, to sell out multi-six and 7 figure launches. Check out the latest episode of our Conversational Selling podcast to learn more about LJ.
In this episode, Nancy and LJ discuss the following:
Key Takeaways:
"And linking it back to what we said at the very start, I think sometimes as women as well, we're trying to balance all the things and spin all the plates at once, being a mom and a business owner and doing the sales, be a good wife. And we try and wear all these hats, and it's just not practical at all. We're just not very kind to ourselves and, my belief is that when we're in that, prospects aren't getting the best of us so we're not showing up in the best possible way, whether that be working for ourselves or whether it be working for in an employed role either way. If you're showing up at kind of... the gas tank is half full, then you're doing no one any favors at all. And that inevitably will come crashing down at some point if you don't listen to your body." – LJ
"So, I think again, when it comes to higher ticket sales, what we're looking for as much as the sales experience is the life experience. So, when it comes to, you know, overturns, handling objections, that kind of thing. If someone doesn't really have it in the muscle or doesn't have the life experience to be able to connect with the prospect and understand where they're coming from, I think that's, it's quite difficult and we notice that in conversions. " – LJ
“There's another nuance with surrendered sales for me as well. And that's in the sales conversation itself. It's like the art of being attached to the outcome and just being present in the conversation and trusting the flow of that conversation rather than trying to over-control and over-orchestrate what's going to happen next. It’s, you know, this surrender is just the art of being present in the conversation and allowing it to flow from there.” – LJ
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About Lynn Whitbeck: Lynn Whitbeck, the Founder/CEO of Petite2Queen and Future Forward Sales, uses her expertise to guide entrepreneurs and business leaders to successful sales growth. Building on her 30 years of success and experiences as Vice President of Business Development and COO of direct consumer technology start-ups, Lynn is focused on catapulting sales teams and educating individuals daily to superior performance and success. Lynn is committed to lifting business leaders with the ingredients for growth and a profitable sales recipe. She helps transform thinking to the client's perspective and end sales chaos with a robust strategic plan to harvest the hidden profits. Check out the latest episode of our Conversational Selling podcast to learn more about Lynn.
In this episode, Nancy and Lynn discuss the following:
Key Takeaways:
"A profitable sales recipe has to include the core foundation of sales strategy, which is thinking like your client, truly understanding your ideal client avatar, the client journey, and then the human-to-human relationships and building those relationships with worthy intent. So, when you have that recipe, then you can execute on that and then (part of like the client journey) to build that profit in is, of course, you seed the referral process from the very first conversation and then all the way through your client journey so that when you've earned the right you ask for the referral. That shortens your sales cycle, brings you a more profitable business, you create introductions, and you feed your business. And in addition, of course, then you also can sell more to your existing clients." – LYNN
"It's really asking for an introduction, not a referral. So, to me, a referral is longer. I would ask for an introduction because that's not as threatening, and that's not. That differs from a referral trust you and is passing on this trusted relationship. So that would be a formula that I would apply to." - LYNN
"There's a difference between ghosting and a no-show. With a no-show, they don't come up or show up for the meeting. There are all kinds of extenuating circumstances and reasons around that, but I'm going to focus more on ghosting because it will cover some of that for the no-shows. But the first thing about ghosting is my question, which is rhetorical, but it's who's ghosting Because I want to be honest with sales, we sometimes ghost our prospects because we're not following up. Okay, so that is absolutely critical. So, let's talk about the reasons that people get ghosted because it is a morale killer for salespeople. And it's one of the top three things that salespeople list as one of the things that really hurt them in their business." – LYNN
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About Merit Kahn: Merit Kahn, CEO of SELLect Sales Development, author of Myth Shift: Challenging the Truths That Sabotage Success, co-host of The Smarter Sales Show podcast. Merit is a certified emotional intelligence coach and certified speaking professional with over 25 years of experience. Throughout her career, Merit has worked with a variety of individuals, including salespeople, entrepreneurs, and professionals, as well as sales teams. She helps them shift their approach from selling to being chosen by their ideal clients. In her spare time, she is a stand-up comedian counting down the days until she trades in her title “single parent” for “empty nester." Check out the latest episode of our Conversational Selling podcast to learn more about Merit.
In this episode, Nancy and Merit discuss the following:
Key Takeaways:
"Our core philosophy really is that selling is not about being pushy or aggressive, it's about being selected. So we really teach people to stop selling and start getting selected. And how you do that is really by Asking good questions, having good conversations, as you well know, it's not about what you say, it's about the questions that you ask. And those questions help your prospects understand that you are credible and confident, and you can solve their problems. And that's when they select you. And the second piece of it really is you want to be selected by them, but you also want to make sure that you're selecting every single one of your ideal clients because you're going to put a lot of effort and energy. " – Merit
"And the way that I distinguish marketing and sales is marketing is everything that happens before you're in a conversation. Once you're in a conversation, you're in the sales part of the process. And what you don't wanna do is send somebody " – Merit
“What I took from that when I read that study was, we all want to be perceived as open-minded. So how can we use that to our advantage? Not in a manipulative sale, you know, pushy way, but to recognize that I need to appeal to your bill, your desire to appear open-minded and once I remind you of that desire then you are inclined to agree with that. And now you're more likely to hear my value. And whether we select to work with each other or not, from there is a different story, but I promise you, you will not sell or close a deal to a closed mind.” – Merit
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About Robyn Balsley: Robyn Balsley, founder of Graceful Impression. With over 15 years of experience in marketing and branding, Robyn has worked with a wide range of clients, from small startups to large corporations. She is known for her ability to create compelling brand stories and design impactful marketing campaigns that drive results. Partnering with HALO, a global leader in branded merchandise, uniform programs, and recognition and incentive solutions. She works with clients to break through the clutter of our
media saturated world and connect their brands to customers, employees and other
audiences critical to their success. Through years of experience helping companies build their brands through products, Robyn is also working with individuals to reignite their confidence, provide the strongest impression of themselves, when it matters most. Check out the latest episode of our Conversational Selling podcast to learn more about Robyn.
In this episode, Nancy and Robyn discuss the following:
Key Takeaways:
"A great example is one of my clients they’re in the financial world. And pre-pandemic, they were wearing suits to work and very, very buttoned up. And now they've relaxed the dress and they can wear jeans, a blazer, a nice blouse or a shirt. And it's kind of confusing to their employees. Some will come with jeans that have holes in them because they can wear jeans, but that's not really what they're saying. So, they're losing their culture, and in some companies, it's even part of their branding, going back to my previous life, it's how your team is showing up as a part of your brand." – ROBYN
"And it's truly our mental state that affects how we show up, how we, what our, attitude is, and how we people perceive us. It has a lot to do with how we are. Think about a great example of that, If I put on my workout clothes, my mental mind tells me that I'm going to go work out. So, that's kind of what we're prepared to do. But if I'm wearing my workout clothes all day long and I'm working, it's confusing and we're not putting our best self forward. So that's really where that mental from the inside out." – ROBYN
“How you dress while working from home matters. And you will be more productive if you dress a little, if you just dress up, just up-level, just a little bit versus wearing pajama bottoms, and a t-shirt. It truly a hundred percent makes a difference.” – ROBYN
“And I think just really going back to the whole sales aspect of it all, when we're in front of clients, we need to put our best self forward. And even if we're cold calling on the phone, it's how you're dressed for that cold call, I think makes a difference. I believe it makes a difference.” – ROBYN
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About Brandon Leibowitz: Brandon Leibowitz, the Founder of SEO Optimizers, a Digital Marketing Agency that focuses on helping small and medium-sized businesses get more online traffic, which in turn converts into clients, sales, leads, etc. Brandon got his start in digital marketing in 2007 after graduating from college with a degree in Business Marketing. In his first job, he handled the marketing aspects of an e-commerce website. In 2008, he realized that most businesses would need a website to stay competitive in the future. Having a website is only one piece of the puzzle. Ultimately, they need someone to help market their website to bring in traffic that will, in turn, convert to clients. And this was the beginning of starting his own company. Check out the latest episode of our Conversational Selling podcast to learn more about Brandon.
In this episode, Nancy and Brandon discuss the following:
Key Takeaways:
"SEO is a way to bring in traffic. So, when people search on Google, there are ads at the top. Those are all paid ads, but right below the paid ads are the organic results. And SEO is about getting you in those organic results, so you get that free traffic. So, when people search on Google for your keywords, you show up and you capture that free traffic. So, they go to your website, and hopefully on your website, you could convince them to become a sale, lead, phone call, email, whatever that conversion goal is." – BRANDON
"Traffic is just half the battle. And once you get people to your website, how do you get them to convert? And that's where I try to figure out what we do to your website to make it optimized for people. That way they become a lead, a sale, or a phone call because a lot of people just focus on getting traffic, but they don't focus on what happens after that traffic gets to my website. How do I make sure that they actually stay on my website, that they go from a visitor to actual, a lead or a sale? And that's how I try to focus on that. " – BRANDON
“If you don't have that positive mindset then you get distracted and frustrated because SEO does take time. It's not immediate So if you're expecting immediate results, then you got run paid ads but for SEO It's more of a long-term strategy where over time you're going to build yourself up build your credibility and trust up and that's going to just bring in more traffic, but it's all about patience with it because it is not immediate unfortunately.” – BRANDON
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About Bryan Charleau: Bryan Charleau is the founder of Pitching Sales. He is a seasoned sales professional with over ten years of experience in the sales industry, ranging from software to construction. Through his experiences, he has learned countless lessons and gained first-hand knowledge of the challenges that sales professionals face when establishing themselves in this competitive field. Bryan’s first book, Pitching Sales, is filled with important and often overlooked information that can help to prepare you for the beginning stages of your career and to guide you through some of the unexpected situations you may find yourself in. Check out the latest episode of our Conversational Selling podcast to learn more about Bryan.
In this episode, Nancy and Bryan discuss the following:
Key Takeaways:
"When you start to take that time and say: “This is a career that I want to look into. I'm going to do things outside of the office to prepare. I'm going to read books. I'm going to go to seminars, training courses, whatever it may be.” I think that's a real shift in mindset. And when I look back about 10 years into my profession, I realize there wasn't really anything that helped people in that first 3-6 months in getting off the ground because you see all these sale books on the perfect clothes and how to prospect and how to expedite your sales cycle, etc. Well, that's great information if you know how to sell and you're already in this profession, and you're looking to go to the next level. But that doesn’t help you if you’re scared to pick up the phone." – BRYAN
" We've grown up. And we've been conditioned to avoid hearing No when we're asking for something. And that can wear on you. If you hear it continuously, it doesn't matter what aspect of life, but if it's determining your paycheck, it's hard to hear it time and time and time again. And that just leads to you picking up that phone slower and slower the next time you hear it. And it can really start a dangerous cycle if it's a profession that you're really trying to get into." – BRYAN
“And my favorite part about selling is you can never learn at all. There's no end to the book. There's just so much information and practice you can be doing just to get better and better.” – BRYAN
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About Donnie Boivin: Donnie Boivin is the CEO of Success Champions. This online community gives you back your time while connecting you with other business owners looking to scale and grow their businesses. Donnie created the Badass Business Summit helping businesses unleash, be seen, and sell. And has appeared on hundreds of podcasts, spoken on hundreds of stages, and is going bigger with his message daily. Also, he is the Host of Growth Mode Podcasts, which gives you all the insights you need to know while building your business. Donnie is one of the leading global minds on sales, business development, and business growth. He is the first person to make sales and business development relatable and human. Donnie is a community builder at heart — he builds champions. Check out the latest episode of our Conversational Selling podcast to learn more about Donnie.
In this episode, Nancy and Donnie discuss the following:
Key Takeaways:
"Quit focusing on the referrals and focus on whom you need to be introduced to, not from an in-client user, but from a place where their client base is your ideal client base and you guys can build this synergistic mutually beneficial relationship." – DONNIE
"I think most people were like me, and we worked for somebody else for 20-plus years, and then we jumped out, and we wanted to start a business. And we don't realize that somebody was telling us what to do during those times working for other people. And now you're out on your own; nobody's telling you what to do. And the second portion of that is when you work for other people; excuses are easy. If the business is down, you can blame marketing, sales, leads, the economy, and everything else. But as a business owner, you don't get that choice to blame anybody. If the sales are down, go sell. Marketing sucks. Go fix marketing. You know, it's whatever it is. And people have never actually looked at themselves in a mirror to see what they're made of. And when business gets hard, they don't want to face their own reality because they're scared of whom they meet if they start looking inside. And so, I tell people, the greatest exercise in the world you can do is go to your mirror every night and say the words I'm proud of you. And whatever pops up that you're not proud of is the thing you got to fix or do. It's the greatest exercise I've found for me for self-discovery. " – DONNIE
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About Joseph Rockey: Joseph Rockey is the founder of Elite Business Conversations, a company that provides cutting-edge training and coaching to entrepreneurs and business leaders. Their coaching methods are relationship-based, meaning they focus on building strong, trusting relationships with their clients. This approach has proven to be highly effective in helping clients improve their sales, develop positive company cultures, and achieve success in ways that are meaningful to them. Joe has extensive experience and expertise in the business coaching industry and has a proven track record of success. Since 2011, Joe has launched over 15 different entities in multiple industries - to name a few: podcasting, business consulting, personal growth coaching, keynote speaking, and real estate investment. Check out the latest episode of our Conversational Selling podcast to learn more about Joseph.
In this episode, Nancy and Joseph discuss the following:
Key Takeaways:
"In allowing your employees to have freedom by the fall, you are also allowing them to have innovational opportunities so that they can come out and say, you know what, for me, it works best if I do this, that, and the other." – JOSEPH
"There are three elements of any company's revenue cycle. The first one is we have to have people know we exist, and they have to want to come to see us. The second one is when they're actually with us, do they feel comfortable enough to exchange resources in exchange for the promise of a future product? And then part three is the future product. So, we're a lot of salespeople think it's only about that middle part. I'm with the individual. Can I convince them to give me resources in exchange for this future project? And the reality is, if you fail your business at any of those three components, you will be hung back by your weakest of those three links. It's just the way it is. So how do we fix a sales process? We start with which of your three links is wrong, which one is the worst, and whether we are not getting people to know that we exist. And have people want to find us? Well, what's our model for doing that? Is our model a passive or proactive?" – JOSEPH
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