Conversations for Couples

In this episode of Conversations for Couples, we’re joined by Golden Bachelorette Joan Vassos and her fiancé Chock, the fan-favorite from The Golden Bachelor! 💛

It’s been a year since Joan left the Golden Bachelor and began a journey with Chuck—and now, they’re falling in love, managing life in different states, merging families, and navigating a relationship later in life. We dive into real-life love after 60, communication styles, intimacy, family blending, and how they’ve handled being in the spotlight while building something authentic.

🌟 In This Episode, We Discuss:

💬 Favorite Quotes:
➡️ "Do you want me to just listen or give my opinion?"
➡️ "You can be right, or you can be married."
➡️ "We make each other a priority—every single day."

🔗 Follow Joan & Chock
📸 Joan: @joan_vassos
📸 Chock: @chockchapple
💘 Show: The Golden Bachelor on ABC

📍 Chapters
00:00 Intro: Welcome Back to Conversations for Couples
01:30 Life After The Golden Bachelor
05:45 Long-Distance Love & Making It Fun
09:20 Merging Families for the Holidays
13:00 Building Trust & Blocking Out the Noise
17:45 Relationship Communication Styles: Rant or Remedy
23:00 Silver Bullets & Safe Talk – Handling Disagreements
28:50 Intimacy Later in Life: A Real Conversation
34:10 Spark, Closeness & What They’ve Learned
40:00 Parking Spot Drama & The Great Sock Debate
46:00 Dealing with Public Attention & Jealousy
51:00 Final Thoughts: Building a Love That Lasts

💌 We’re Julie & David Bullitt
🔹 Married 38 years, therapist & divorce attorney duo
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🎙️ Podcast: Conversations for Couples

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Welcome back to Conversations for Couples! Today, we're diving into the incredible love story of Dolly Parton and her husband, Carl Dean, who were married for nearly 60 years before his recent passing. 💔

Dolly and Carl had one of the most unique and private marriages in Hollywood history. They spent months apart, lived independent lives, and still remained deeply in love. What can we learn from their relationship? In this episode, we explore:

💘 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

How Dolly & Carl met at a laundromat in 1964
The story behind “Jolene” & Dolly’s famous response to the real-life woman
Why Carl never attended Dolly’s performances after the 1960s
How they balanced time apart & built a lasting relationship
The importance of secure attachment & trust in relationships
Why they chose not to have children and how they made that decision together
What made their love so strong despite their differences
✨ Resources & Links Mentioned:
🎶 Dolly Parton’s Official Website: https://dollyparton.com
📖 Dolly’s Book “Dolly: My Life and Other Unfinished Business”
💡 Read More About Attachment Styles: Attachment Theory Resource

🎧 Chapters:
00:00 Intro: Welcome Back to Conversations for Couples
01:20 How Dolly & Carl Met: A Love Story at the Laundromat
04:10 The Story Behind “Jolene” & Dolly’s Response to the Woman
07:30 Why Carl Dean Avoided the Spotlight for 50+ Years
10:45 The Secret to Their Long-Lasting Love: Time Apart & Trust
14:30 Secure Attachment & How It Strengthens Relationships
19:15 Why Dolly & Carl Chose to Be Child-Free
22:40 Independence & Connection: The Key to Their Happiness
27:10 Final Thoughts: What We Can Learn from Dolly & Dean
30:00 Share Your Thoughts: How Do You Balance Space & Connection?

💬 What do you think about Dolly & Carl’s relationship? Do you and your partner spend time apart? Let us know in the comments!

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Welcome back to Conversations for Couples! Today, we’re diving into the world of elite matchmaking with Kate O’Connor, a Vice President & Executive Matchmaker at Select Date Society. If you're tired of dating apps, looking for real connections, or ready for a fresh start in love, this episode is for you!

Kate shares insider secrets on matchmaking for high-net-worth individuals, overcoming dating fears, and building strong relationships that last. Whether it's your first, second, or third time looking for love, this episode is packed with dating wisdom, relationship insights, and expert advice to help you find your person.

💘 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

✨ Resources & Links Mentioned:
🔗 Select Date Society - Find a Match
🔗 Kate O’Connor on LinkedIn

🎧 Chapters:
00:00 Intro: Welcome Back to Conversations for Couples
01:05 Meet Kate O’Connor: Elite Matchmaker
04:10 What Does a Matchmaker Actually Do?
07:20 The Psychology of Dating: Attachment & Personality Types
12:35 Why High-Net-Worth Individuals Use Matchmakers
16:45 Overcoming Fear of Rejection & Past Relationship Trauma
22:15 The Truth About Dating “Checklists”
26:00 How to Naturally Flirt & Build Connection
30:40 Finding Love After Divorce or Loss
36:50 Kate’s Personal Love Story & What She Learned
42:10 How to Work with Kate & Select Date Society
45:30 Final Thoughts & Relationship Advice

💬 What’s your biggest dating challenge? Drop a comment below!

Follow Kate O’Connor & Select Date Society:
🔹 Website: SelectDateSociety.com
🔹 LinkedIn: Kate O’Connor - VIP Matchmaker
🔹 Instagram: @SelectDateSociety

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In this steamy episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with intimacy expert Susan Bratton for a deep dive into reigniting passion, closing the libido gap, and strengthening long-term relationships through better sex and deeper connection.

Susan, a sexual biohacker, CEO, and bestselling author, shares powerful insights on how couples can maintain a fulfilling sex life, why mismatched libidos are a myth, and how to bring more pleasure into your relationship. From orgasmic techniques and libido hacks to sensory seduction and sex-life bucket lists, this episode is packed with game-changing strategies for couples who want to reignite desire and make love that lasts a lifetime.

🔥 Topics Covered:

Why "mismatched libidos" is a myth
The difference between libido, desire, and arousal
How women’s and men’s sexual operating systems differ
Why foreplay vs. sex is a misleading concept
The role of safety, relaxation & emotional connection in arousal
Practical steps to revive your sex life after months or years of disconnect
Techniques for orgasmic intercourse & pleasure mapping
How small seduction offers can bring back passion
The Sex Life Bucket List and how it transforms relationships
Biohacking for better intimacy: Nitric oxide, GainsWave, and more
✨ Resources Mentioned:
🔗 Orgasmic Intercourse Techniques (Game-changing techniques for deeper pleasure)
🔗 Magic Pill Method (Step-by-step guide for couples to revive their intimacy)
🔗 Better Lover Newsletter (Weekly expert sex tips & techniques)
🔗 Sex Life Bucket List (48 erotic playdate ideas for couples)
🔗 Pumping Guide (How to increase sensitivity & pleasure)

💬 What was your biggest takeaway? Drop a comment below!

Follow Susan Bratton:
🔹 Instagram: @SusanBratton
🔹 Website: BetterLover.com
🔹 YouTube: Susan Bratton - Intimacy Expert

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In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Andrea and Brian Ward for an insightful discussion on parenting, marriage, and balancing it all. Brian, a Marine Corps veteran and host of The Dad Up Podcast, and Andrea, a dedicated teacher, share their journey of raising two boys, building a strong marriage, and how Brian’s decision to quit drinking reshaped their family.

The couple opens up about how they maintained a strong connection through the busiest years of parenting, their approach to communication and self-care, and why investing in their marriage—including working with a marriage coach—has made all the difference. Whether you’re in the thick of raising kids or navigating the empty nest phase, this episode is packed with wisdom on maintaining a healthy, thriving relationship.

🔗 Topics Discussed:

✨ Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

The Dad Up Podcast: Available on YouTube, Apple, Spotify, iHeart & more

Follow Brian on Instagram: @DadUpPodcast

Email Brian: [email protected]

🎧 Chapters:
00:00 Introduction: Meet Julie & David Bulitt
00:30 Welcome Andrea & Brian Ward
02:45 What It Means to Be an All-In Dad
06:30 Brian’s Decision to Quit Drinking for His Family
10:15 Balancing Parenting Responsibilities as a Couple
15:00 The Importance of Scheduling & Communication in Marriage
18:45 Carving Out Time for Self-Care & Personal Space
22:30 Transitioning to the Empty Nest Phase
26:45 The Role of a Marriage Coach in a Healthy Relationship
30:30 How The Dad Up Podcast Started & Its Impact
35:00 Where to Find Brian & Final Thoughts

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🎙️ Hosted by Julie & David Bulitt: Licensed Clinical Social Worker & Divorce and Family Lawyer
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In this empowering episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt talk to Nerissa "Risa" Stewart, an inspiring author, coach, and CEO of the Bariatric Society. Together with her husband Chris, Nerissa has transformed not only their health but also their relationship after undergoing bariatric surgery.

Nerissa shares her journey of losing 250 pounds as a couple, the challenges and triumphs of maintaining a healthy lifestyle, and how the experience reshaped their marriage. From hosting retreats for bariatric patients to offering tools for personal and relational growth, Nerissa opens up about her mission to help others embrace their best selves.

🔗 Topics Discussed:

✨ Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

🎧 Chapters:
00:00 Introduction: Meet Julie & David Bulitt
00:30 Welcome Nerissa Stewart: Bariatric Surgery & Building Community
04:15 The Decision to Have Bariatric Surgery as a Couple
09:45 Life After Surgery: Lifestyle Changes & Support Systems
13:00 Impact of Bariatric Surgery on Relationships & Intimacy
17:30 Navigating Challenges: Jealousy, Attention, and Confidence
22:00 Bariatric Retreat: Connecting Patients with Resources & Support
26:45 Building Community: Coaching, Book Clubs, and More
30:00 How to Connect with Nerissa & Upcoming Events

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In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt are joined by Corey Nichols, financial coach and CEO of Yes Life Financial. Together, they dive into how couples can navigate financial challenges and improve communication about money. Corey shares his approach to financial planning, focusing on the human side of finance and how understanding each other’s habits and backgrounds can strengthen your relationship.

Key topics include:

This episode offers practical advice for couples seeking to manage their finances better while deepening their bond.

For more financial guidance, visit Corey’s website:
Yes Life Financial

Follow Corey on Instagram for more insights:
@Corey_Nichols

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In this heartfelt episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Anjali and Gorang, a couple from India who have been married for over 32 years. They share their inspiring journey from an arranged marriage to a deep, lasting love.

Discover how commitment, communication, and shared struggles strengthened their bond. Anjali and Gorang also discuss navigating multi-generational living, overcoming personal challenges, and how their shared experiences inspired their mission to uplift and educate couples around the world.

🔗 Topics Discussed:

✨ Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

🎧 Chapters:
00:00 Introduction: Meet Julie & David Bulitt
00:30 Welcome Anjali & Gorang: 32 Years of Marriage and Counting
05:00 Arranged Marriages: How They Work and Cultural Insights
09:30 Love After Marriage: Commitment as the Foundation
13:00 Overcoming Hardships: Loss, Miscarriages, and Unity
18:00 Navigating Multi-Generational Living: Tips and Boundaries
23:00 The Power of Communication: Building a Safe Space for Hard Talks
26:00 Matching Outfits & Unity: A Symbol of Connection
28:30 Why They Share Their Journey: From Personal Struggles to Public Advocacy

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In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Casey and Meygan Caston, founders of Marriage365. The Castons open up about their early marriage struggles, how they were on the brink of divorce, and how they turned things around to build a thriving relationship.

Now, with over 21 years of marriage, the Castons share the practical tools, strategies, and insights they’ve used to help over 100,000 couples strengthen their marriages through the Marriage365 app, retreats, books, and courses.

🔗 Topics Discussed:

The Castons’ personal story: overcoming trauma and finding healing
Common marriage challenges: poor communication, in-law boundaries, and money issues
Tools for couples: intentionality, curiosity, and practical strategies
The importance of self-care and personal growth in a relationship
How Marriage365 helps couples navigate intimacy, connection, and challenges
✨ Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

Marriage365 Website: https://Marriage365.com
Instagram: @Marriage365
Upcoming Marriage Retreat (October 2025): Marriage365 Retreat Info
New Book Release: 365 Connecting Questions for Couples by Meygan and Casey Caston – Available NOW! - https://a.co/d/8X8fipI

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 In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Amy and Neil Thompson, also known as "Better With Age Together" on Instagram. This inspiring couple shares how they’ve embraced life as empty nesters by building healthier lifestyles and strengthening their marriage.

Amy and Neil talk about their journey with Faster Way to Fat Loss, why they focus on God’s food, the power of connection through shared goals, and how couples can navigate this new chapter with confidence. From balancing work, fitness, and personal time to overcoming challenges, their tips are practical, uplifting, and relatable for any couple.

🔗 Connect with Amy & Neil Thompson:
https://www.fasterwaycoach.com/#Neilandamy
[email protected]
IG @betterwithage.together 

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