Conversations with a SEND Mum

Welcome to Season 2 of "Conversations with a SEND Mum" with your host, Nicole Bateman! In this exciting premiere episode, Nicole kicks off the new season by sharing what's coming up and offering valuable tips on advocating for your child with special educational needs and disabilities (SEND).

Episode Highlights:

• Welcome to Season 2: Nicole warmly welcomes listeners back to the podcast and sets the stage for an empowering new season. She shares her enthusiasm for the upcoming episodes and guest interviews, promising insightful conversations and practical advice for SEND parents.

• 5 Tips for Advocating for Your Child:
  1. Gathering Documentation: Nicole emphasises the importance of collecting and organizing relevant documentation, including assessments, reports, and medical records, to support your child's needs effectively.
  2. Understanding Their Specific Needs: She encourages parents to gain a deep understanding of their child's specific needs, preferences, and challenges, which is key to advocating for appropriate support and accommodations.
  3. Knowing Your Rights and SEND Law: Nicole highlights the significance of familiarising yourself with the rights of children with SEND and the relevant SEND laws and regulations. This knowledge empowers parents to navigate the educational system and access necessary services.
  4. Establishing Communication Channels and Collaboration: Building effective communication channels with teachers, healthcare professionals, and support staff is essential. Nicole discusses the importance of collaboration and teamwork in advocating for your child's best interests but also acknowledges that in reality that is not always the case.
  5. Documenting All Communication: Lastly, she underscores the importance of documenting all communication and interactions related to your child's education and care. Keeping records can help track progress, identify challenges, and ensure accountability.
• Overall, Trust Your Instincts as a Parent: Nicole concludes with a powerful reminder for parents to trust their instincts and advocate passionately for their child's well-being. She shares that you are not alone and invites you to join her over on Instagram.

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit. Nicole is The Friendly SEND Advisor for children's activity providers and tutors helping them create inclusive sessions for all children.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In episode 2 of Season 2 of "Conversations with a SEND Mum," host Nicole Bateman engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Nicola Reekie, owner of The PDA Space. Together, they delve into the concept of low demand parenting, discuss Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA), and explore adaptations in education settings for children with PDA.

Episode Highlights:

• Low Demand Parenting: Nicola introduces the concept of low demand parenting, emphasizing the importance of reducing demands and pressure on children with PDA to support their well-being and reduce anxiety. They discuss practical strategies and approaches for implementing low demand parenting techniques in daily life.
• Understanding PDA: Nicole and Nicola explore Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA). They discuss common misconceptions of PDA and the challenges faced by individuals with this profile in educational settings.
• Adaptations in Education Settings: The conversation shifts to adaptations and accommodations for children with PDA in education settings. Nicola shares insights into creating supportive environments that cater to the unique needs of neurodivergent learners, promoting inclusion, understanding, and success.
• PDA Summit: Nicola highlights the upcoming PDA Summit from April 26th to 29th 2024, providing an exciting opportunity for learning and collaboration within the PDA community. She invites listeners to participate in this valuable event focused on PDA awareness, education, and support https://www.thepdaspace.com/summit-2024-speakers 

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit. Nicole is The Friendly SEND Advisor for children's activity providers and tutors helping them create inclusive sessions for all children.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In episode 3 of Season 2 of "Conversations with a SEND Mum," host Nicole Bateman engages in a fascinating conversation with Helen Daniel, owner of OTB Sensory. Together, they explore the concept of neurosensory divergence and discuss the physical differences in the brain that impact neurodivergent individuals. They also delve into the importance of classroom adaptations to support neurodivergent children.

Episode Highlights:

• Neurosensory Divergence Explained: Helen provides valuable insights into neurosensory divergence, highlighting the diverse ways in which brains can function and process information. They discuss terms such as monotropic (focusing intensely on one thing at a time) and hyper-polytropic (processing multiple stimuli simultaneously), shedding light on the complexity and diversity of neurodivergent experiences.
• Understanding Brain Differences: Nicole and Helen explore the physical differences in the brain that contribute to neurodiversity, emphasising the importance of recognising and respecting these differences. They discuss how these differences can influence learning styles, behaviours, and sensory processing in neurodivergent children.
• Classroom Adaptations: The conversation shifts to the crucial topic of classroom adaptations and accommodations for neurodivergent students. Helen shares practical strategies and recommendations for creating inclusive learning environments, from sensory-friendly adjustments to personalized supports that cater to individual needs.

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit. Nicole is The Friendly SEND Advisor for children's activity providers and tutors helping them create inclusive sessions for all children.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In this special edition of "Conversations with a SEND Mum," host Nicole Bateman is joined by Sally Brighton, the Fundraising Director of the charity Young Epilepsy. Together, they share important insights, personal stories, and practical tips to raise awareness about epilepsy and celebrate Purple Day.

Episode Highlights:

• Sally's Story: Sally bravely opens up about her journey with epilepsy, sharing her personal story of being diagnosed at the age of 34. She reflects on the challenges, misconceptions, and triumphs she has encountered along the way, offering hope and inspiration to listeners.
• 'Understand My Epilepsy' Campaign: Nicole and Sally delve into the 'Understand My Epilepsy' campaign launched by Young Epilepsy, aiming to increase awareness and understanding of epilepsy. They discuss the importance of education, empathy, and inclusivity in supporting individuals living with epilepsy and their families.
• Celebrating Purple Day: Purple Day is an international effort dedicated to increasing awareness about epilepsy worldwide. Nicole and Sally share exciting ideas and opportunities for everyone to get involved in Purple Day, from wearing purple to hosting fundraising events and sharing educational resources.

For resources discussed in this episode go to: Young Epilepsy | Homepage

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit. Nicole is The Friendly SEND Advisor for children's activity providers and tutors helping them create inclusive sessions for all children.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In this special edition of "Conversations with a SEND Mum," host Nicole Bateman is joined by Nikki Talbot, owner of Pudding and Pie, and a parent of a child with epilepsy. Together, they share personal experiences, and heartfelt reflections on navigating epilepsy parenthood and raising awareness on Purple Day.

Episode Highlights:

• Parenting a Child with Epilepsy: Nikki shares her journey as a parent of a child with epilepsy, offering insights into the challenges, fears, and triumphs she has encountered along the way. She reflects on the impact of epilepsy on family life, relationships, and the importance of resilience in facing adversity.
• Transition into Adulthood: Nicole and Nikki discuss the unique challenges faced by parents as their children with epilepsy transition into adulthood. They explore topics such as independence, healthcare transitions, and the need for ongoing support and advocacy in ensuring the well-being and empowerment of young adults with epilepsy.
• Celebrating Purple Day: Purple Day is an international initiative dedicated to raising epilepsy awareness and promoting understanding and inclusivity. 

Trigger Warning:
Please be advised that this episode includes discussions about seizures, the experience of losing a child, and references to cancer, which may be triggering for some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit. Nicole is The Friendly SEND Advisor for children's activity providers and tutors helping them create inclusive sessions for all children.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In the final episode of Season 1 of "Conversations with a SEND Mum," host Nicole Bateman engages in a conversation with Anne-Marie Beggs, delving into the empowering world of dyslexia and the importance of nurturing and supporting the passions of children with special educational needs and disabilities.

Episode Highlights:

• Understanding Dyslexia: Anne-Marie shares her expertise and insights into dyslexia, shedding light on the challenges and strengths associated. They explore the importance of recognising dyslexia as a unique learning difference and the transformative power of embracing neurodiversity.
• Nurturing Passions: Anne-Marie then discusses the significance of identifying and nurturing the passions of children with special educational needs and disabilities. Nicole and Anne-Marie delve into the role of passions in fostering self-esteem, confidence, and resilience in children, despite any challenges they may face.
• Supporting Neurodivergent Learners: They discuss practical strategies and approaches for supporting neurodivergent learners in pursuing their passions and interests. From advocating for inclusive education to providing accommodations and fostering a strengths-based approach, they highlight the importance of creating environments that celebrate diversity and individuality.

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit. Nicole is The Friendly SEND Advisor for children's activity providers and tutors helping them create inclusive sessions for all children.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In this deeply personal episode of "Conversations with a SEND Mum," host Nicole Bateman takes centre stage to share her own EHCP (Education, Health and Care Plan) journey. With raw honesty Nicole reflects on the emotions, challenges, and invaluable insights gained from her experiences navigating the EHCP process.

Episode Highlights:

• Emotional Rollercoaster: Nicole delves into the emotional rollercoaster of her EHCP journey, from the initial hopes and aspirations to the disappointment of receiving a "no" to assess and a subsequent "no" to issue. She shares candidly about the highs and lows, the fears and frustrations, and the unwavering determination to advocate for her child's needs.
• Key Sections of SEND Law: Nicole sheds light on the important sections of SEND (Special Educational Needs and Disabilities) Law that parents need to be aware of when faced with a "no" response in the EHCP process. From understanding legal rights to navigating the mediation process, she offers practical guidance and empowerment to fellow parents on similar paths.
• Experience of Mediation: Reflecting on her experience of the mediation process, Nicole shares insights into the challenges and opportunities encountered in seeking resolution and agreement. She emphasises the importance of preparation, communication, and advocacy in navigating this crucial stage of the EHCP journey.
• Passion to Support Others: Through her own journey, Nicole has discovered a deep passion and commitment to supporting others facing similar challenges in the EHCP process. She shares her vision for empowering parents with knowledge, resources, and resilience to advocate effectively for their children's needs.

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit. Nicole is The Friendly SEND Advisor for children's activity providers and tutors helping them create inclusive sessions for all children.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In episode 10 of "Conversations with a SEND Mum," host Nicole Bateman engages in a conversation with Steven Ingram, the owner of Neurodiversity Together. As an autistic individual with ADHD and a stammer, Steven shares profound insights into his childhood experiences, the impact on his journey, and his invaluable work promoting neurodiversity inclusion in the workplace.

Episode Highlights:

• Childhood Experiences and Insights: Steven opens up about his childhood experiences and how they have shaped his perspective as an autistic individual. He candidly shares his insights into what he wished his parents knew during his formative years, offering valuable reflections on understanding and acceptance.
• Promoting Neurodiversity in the Workplace: The conversation transitions to Steven's advocacy work in promoting neurodiversity inclusion in the workplace. Nicole and Steven delve into the importance of creating inclusive environments that embrace the strengths and talents of neurodivergent individuals, fostering innovation and diversity.

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit. Nicole is The Friendly SEND Advisor for children's activity providers and tutors helping them create inclusive sessions for all children.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

*Trigger Warning* In this episode 9 of "Conversations with a SEND Mum," host Nicole Bateman engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Hayley O'Connor, a neurodivergent Mum of three and co-owner of ZoneND. Together, they delve into the sensitive topics of school trauma, sensory processing, and the crucial importance of creating sensory-friendly environments. 

Episode Highlights:

• School Trauma: Hayley bravely shares her personal journey as a neurodivergent Mum and the challenges her son faced with school trauma. 
• Understanding Sensory Processing: Hayley provides insights into sensory processing differences and how they affect neurodivergent individuals. Nicole and Hayley explore the importance of recognising and accommodating these differences to create supportive environments for children to thrive.
• Creating Sensory-Friendly Environments: They discuss practical strategies and adaptations for making environments more sensory-friendly, both at home and in educational settings. 

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit. Nicole is The Friendly SEND Advisor for children's activity providers and tutors helping them create inclusive sessions for all children.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad

In this episode of "Conversations with a SEND Mum," host Nicole Bateman engages in a heartfelt conversation with Sarah Fish, delving into the parental anxiety and the importance of supporting fellow parent/carers in the SEND community.

Episode Highlights:

• Parental Anxiety: Sarah shares her journey navigating the often overwhelming landscape of parental anxiety while caring for a child with special educational needs and disabilities. They discuss the triggers and coping mechanisms for managing anxiety amidst the challenges.
• Supporting Fellow Parent/Carers: The conversation shifts to the vital role of community and support networks in the SEND community. Sarah shares her experiences and initiatives aimed at offering practical and emotional support to fellow parent/carers, fostering a sense of solidarity and understanding.
• Coping Strategies: Both Nicole and Sarah explore effective coping strategies for managing parental anxiety, including mindfulness techniques, self-care practices, and seeking professional support when needed. They emphasise the importance of prioritizing mental health and well-being.

Follow Nicole on www.instagram.com/conversationswithasendmum for exclusive peeks to weekly episodes. Please do send feedback and rate this podcast to help it reach those who would benefit. Nicole is The Friendly SEND Advisor for children's activity providers and tutors helping them create inclusive sessions for all children.

Check out our Season 3 and 4 sponsor Rachel's 3 R's Subscription Box: Dedicated to helping SEND mums feel calmer and more relaxed by providing a box of products and online support for self-care. Follow on www.instagram.com/rachelsthreerssubscriptionbox and use the code NICOLE10 for 10% off your first order at https://rachel-s-three-r-s.subbly.me/

Check out our Season 1 and 2 sponsor The Super Sensory Squad who support kids in understanding the eight sensory systems and emotional regulation using their penguin squad at: www.thesupersensorysquad.com and www.instagram.com/thesupersensorysquad