There is nothing that prepares you for loss... especially at a young age. 

On this third episode of the series Parental Trauma and Dating, Kalekye sits down with Grace Kabebere, an ordinary Kenyan with an extraordinary story. Grace who is now stable and working as an Administrative Assistant did not begin her journey here. She was traumatised by death at an early age, never getting to know her real mother, being raised by her maternal aunt and grandmother who sadly also dies back to back and by the age of 7 years, she was off to be cared for by a relative.

From love to hardship, Grace took refuge in boarding school until that could not protect her anymore. She has struggled to take care of herself forcing her to be so thick skinned that all she knows is to put herself first and build up walls. She has been a work in progress and we are happy to introduce her to our partners The Truth Encounter Coaching Services Kenya to get her the help she needs to fully heal.

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If you have an urge to crack you’re parental wound or just share what you’ve learnt about them, its time to get in touch with us and come to the show.

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It’s Un-African to suggest that a parent and more so a mother can harm her child in any way. But to learn that it can even happen involuntarily from the womb as you carry your child is something I did not even know. 

In this episode Kalekye sits down with lead coach and Psychologist Agiso Oduno of The Truth Encounter Coaching Service to unpack Parental Trauma and Dating by seeking to understand how it happens and if truly she too is victim to parental wounds of her own. As she gets vulnerable, Kalekye finally learns what the impact of her mother wounds has had on her and what in turn her response to any man who wishes to date her is…

In this fascinating discovery journey, we open up the season to understanding why we behave the way we behave in dating and relationships and also find a sense of healing with the help of the Truth Encounter Coaching Services who have partnered with us on  the next few episodes.

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We are so excited to be back!!

In this episode, Kalekye takes a look at some of the most impactful episodes that made season one which was a focus on 'Love Stories'. Some of the episodes took us to a place where we needed to think about the foundations on what love really means to us. Why do we think and behave the way we do when we get into a relationship? How much of it is influenced by the way you were raised?

And with that we are happy to announce the title for season 2 - "Parental Trauma and Dating Relationships." Do you know the impact of your parental trauma has had on your dating love? Have you sort therapy and successfully managed to have a hold of your traumas? We would love to have you on the podcast.

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Would you be able to turn a blind eye knowing the way the public behaves around celebrities? Would you keep your eye focused on the family ONLY when it comes to a partner in the lime light?

As a person in the public eye, there are many difficult decisions one has to make as they get into a committed relationship. Award winning actor Moses Kiema had a conversation with Kalekye just to shed some light on how he has managed to keep his marriage of 8 years completely private. We searched all over for at least one image of his wife and found NONE. 

His wife chose not to know what happens and he also doesn't share things that happen in his DMs that would make her uncomfortable. Moses says he has managed to separate his acting life from his family life and they have actively cut off friends who are nosy and want to start up fires in their lives keeping their focus on each other. His assurance to her is to actively give her his undivided attention and time while respecting her boundaries.

This episode is an encouragement to anyone who maybe shying away from marrying someone who is in the limelight. You can decide to keep your relationship private and also be understanding of your persons work then live a happy life. 

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Imagine watching your life happen before your eyes as if you were watching yourself in a movie.That is exactly how our amazing guest Wadzani Garwe felt after she received a her life changing diagnosis that came without any counselling or care just a 'we cannot insure you because you are HIV Positive'.

Unlike her fellow GenZ's afraid of commitment today, Becky was determined to get married so that she can move to the next stage of her life. Having began dating at sixteen and gotten lots of heartbreaks, she came back to Christ and mapped her way to finding a husband in church.

From meeting the guy on a Sunday to moving in by Thursday, Becky shares with Kalekye just how being on the same page, opening up honestly and having the right intention can get a couple to achieve what they want.

This conversation is not only bold and inspiring but it also goes to show how real love and the determination to foster a marriage out ways a dream wedding. It shows that a marriage requires sacrifice and that is something you can only do for the one you truly love and loves you equally back.

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In this day and age, marriage is either something we run in to so fast especially as witnessed with young Christians OR are so afraid of because of the implication of the responsibility as witnessed with the Gen Zs.

In this episode we had a conversation with the author of the book "Don't Marry A Poor Man' Christine Karanja Mutua, who is an educator, a wife and mother to young adults sheds light on how to identify a poor man, what to look out for and consider before saying "I DO".

In her words, there are things about a person that don’t change irrespective of culture, time and place. In fact take your time because time reveals truth and relationships generally develop over time. Poverty is not just financial but in mannerisms, wisdom, knowledge and it is important to take time to know your potential partner because at the end of the day “Marriage is a private affair with public implications.” 

This episode is a challenge to both women and men alike to make sure they don’t take the step towards marriage lightly.

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There are loads of things that can happen to you in your 20s, becoming a parent by accident and seeing it through especially as a man is not common. 

He is referred to as "The Voice of the African Boychild", Shamala is the epitome of responsible. Once he got his then Belgian girlfriend pregnant and she moved back home to raise her child in Belgium, Shamala felt he really wanted to be a present father and would do whatever it took to be in his sons life. He met his son for the first time when the boy was six months old and that was it, he was willing to loose his opportunity to pursue the degree of his dreams and move to a foreign country where they didn't even speak English.

This episode is for the young me who might want to run away from their responsibilities and to encourage young ladies that there are a few good men out there. 

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Jane Gichohi is an educator, a pastors wife and an author of the book "God why can't I have a baby" where she shares candidly about the journey into marriage only to discover that she cannot give the love of her life the one thing he loves so very much wanted - a baby.

In this 8th episode Kalekye Mumo seeks to dig deeper to find out just how a couple can maintain a healthy relationship in the face of barrenness as Jane shares the effects of the journey that took 9yrs before God opened her womb and blessed her with first child. 

How do you handle the feelings of being a failure? How do you keep trying when the medications keep giving you serious hormonal imbalances that affect your emotions and feelings. 

This is an extraordinary story that will give hope to any woman who is in this place of barrenness to keep the faith and hold onto Gods promises while maintaining your marital vows. 

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15 years of marriage, 3 children and a whole vasectomy later, DJ Moz says marrying a woman from a far away country was the best decision of his life.

Having first assumed his wife Deborah was an American wannabe Kenyan, he was happy to discover that she was actually Scottish and willing to assimilate into the Kenyan culture. What he was not ready for was having to follow Scottish culture that required him to travel to Scotland to ask for permission to marry.

Often confused for a taxi driver delivering a white lady and her children, DJ Moz shares why focusing on the important things in your marriage is the key to its success.

His advise, do not for money because that can be here today gone tomorrow... Marry for love and just and just love your person wholeheartedly.