Woman to Woman, Shirley was doing way too much!

The clothes on his back.

The car he drives.

Girl...get a grip!

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You can be addicted to a certain kind of sadness. You deserve so much better than what has happened to you and you know it, so what are you going to do about it because newsflash:

NOBODY'S COMING TO SAVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think Mary J. Blige said it so perfectly. Every lyric to this song is everything that needs to be said when it comes down to your life and how you show up in the world.

When you're feeling down, you should never fake it!

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Say man... I know there are some things that are beyond our control and I'm praying for you all, praying for myself too.

But outside of those things we all know that life got hands!

BUT FIGHT BACK!!!!!!!!

Abeg!

Now go have the day you deserve.

Fucc You vs Forgiveness:

Dare I say that I've reached a point in my life where I'm 90% sure that forgiving people is overrated. Folks know what they be doin!

Love after Domestic Violence is no easy fete.

Lets talk about this like adults.

Reconciliation after being abandoned by a friend or loved one after you leave your abusive relationship. Should you or would you forgive them?

Let's talk like adults.

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The Cassie and Diddy case as it's been dubbed has of course brought up some thoughts about the backlash women get when they decide to tell their side of the story and why they stay silent for so long.

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Can we all agree that Chante was shady as hell in this song? lol

It's still eff Domestic Violence but let's have some fun!

Lets talk like adults.

Carin had serious daddy issues and it affected her choice in men for a while.

What about you? Do you think the way you're raised affects your decisions as an adult as it pertains to your personal life?

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