Thesis- Understanding the -mercies of God- ought to produce forgiveness---- There are benefits of forgiveness and negative effects of holding a grudge according to secular research.----1. The parable of the two debtors. -I will repay you everything.- Matthew 18-34-35 35 -So shall My heavenly Father also do to you, if each of you does not forgive his brother from your heart.-----2. The end of the Lord's Prayer- Mt 6-12-15-- -Forgiveness is a fruit of salvation, not a requisite to be saved.-- -An unforgiving spirit is a sign of not having understood and embraced the Gospel--Caveat--- -People confuse unforgiveness with feeling the pain - stoic resilient-- -Forgiveness -is a decision to let go of resentment and thoughts of revenge----3. What is forgiveness in our text--- -Negatively- Do not get even-- -Positively- Be a Peace-Maker-- -Negatively- Do not seek revenge.-- -Positively- Do good to those who oppose you.-- -Keep eternity in mind- win forever by losing now.----4. Do you feel the pressure- I do--- -This is the Gospel- Love your neighbor as yourself--- -This is Jesus' New Commandment- Love one another as I have loved you.-- -The commandment always has three purposes.-- -It condemns and crushes us-- -It points us to the only One who kept it and embodies it perfectly-- -It shows us the beauty of God's character and the goodness of His ways-- -Jesus received insults, rejection and hatred, yet He healed the sick, fed the hungry, raised the dead and died to save His enemies.-- -Do not seek revenge, be at peace, do good to all - Jesus did it for us.-- -It is not a once and for all experience, but a daily, conscious decision.