What if I told you buying a gift for your ex from your kids is about your kids not your ex? It’s about making them feel safe to love both parents.

In this episode, I guide you through making child-focused decisions during your divorce. And I share a strategy that will help foster a healthy relationship with both parents by creating a safe space for your kids. Take a deep breath and give it a try?

00:00 Introduction: Taking a Moment for Your Kids

00:59 The Importance of Child-Focused Decisions

01:20 The Gift Strategy: A Surprising Approach

03:31 Navigating Big Feelings and Transitions

04:04 Personal Experience: Leading by Example

05:52 Long-Term Benefits for Your Kids

07:27 Conclusion: Next Steps and Resources

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The Intuitive Divorce Podcast helps mothers navigate the messy waters of divorce to achieve the best outcomes for themselves and their kids. Your host, divorce coach Kristen Noel, explores strategies to engage with lawyers and courts, communicate with and protect your children, apply boundaries with a high-conflict or narcissistic partner, and prepare yourself emotionally and financially for this difficult transition — so you can heal, reclaim your mojo and set yourself up for a beautiful next chapter. Learn more at: intuitivedivorce.com